Re: Conversing between the sexes

As a younger man I struggled to express what I wanted in both vanilla and BDSM contexts. (I have little issue expressing what I want now.)

Looking back, I believe it was a matter of low self worth. ...

Mon Mar 04, 2024 10:36 pm • 12 Replies • 3223 Views

Conversing between the sexes

Good question. I am going to view your question from the perspective of a starting relationship: A man meeting a woman or prospective partner and starting dialogue towards a relationship.

It depen ...

Fri Mar 01, 2024 10:31 pm • 12 Replies • 3223 Views

Conversing between the sexes

Do men, whatever their role on the lifestyle have a harder time expressing what they want in a BDSM relationship than men in vanilla relationships?

If you think so why would that be?

Fri Mar 01, 2024 5:26 pm • 12 Replies • 3223 Views

Submissive verses Slave

Many, particularly those new to this sub-culture, do not see the various flavors of kink as distinct and separate or overlapping from each other rather than all being the same thing.

Sadists often ...

Wed Feb 28, 2024 8:03 pm • 53 Replies • 12405 Views

Addressing Other Master/Dommes

In an email or private chat I do use an honorific, in public forums or chat I do not

Wed Jan 17, 2024 5:00 pm • 27 Replies • 5614 Views

Deserving to be served

When I met the Master that became my very first owner in a BDSM situation I felt very early that he deserved to be obeyed and pleased, long before I even understood what that meant. This is a difficul ...

Thu Nov 30, 2023 6:17 pm • 2 Replies • 3708 Views

Ownership

What Topeka said

Fri Sep 22, 2023 5:29 pm • 11 Replies • 4043 Views

How to access chat rooms

I was having the very same issue

Sun Jul 30, 2023 11:42 pm • 7 Replies • 1961 Views

Punishment/ reward

Is it possible to have a dynamic with the facet of rewards for desired behavior and punishments for undesired behavior that is at least in a small part manipulative?

Wed Jul 12, 2023 2:03 am • 9 Replies • 1865 Views

Discussion: What technology/apps have you experimented with for BDSM?

An electric shock collar

Thu Jun 29, 2023 7:03 pm • 10 Replies • 6344 Views