Obedient Bunny​{Owned}

sub female

67

In a monogamous relationship

I came to this site not really knowing what to expect and I found the unexpected.  I found a Dom that wanted to help me understand not only what submission meant but to understand myself better.   To  let go of past issues and regain my confidence.  He has given me so much of himself, of his quiet, calming presence that today I am a better version of myself than when I met him.

I believe our sexual self stays alive in us for our whole life, it just needs to be nurtured and taken care of so that it doesn't shrivel away and mine has been revived.  I have found a renewed zest for life and I love where I am right now.  Having someone that has so quickly come to understand what I needed, even when I didn't, has been a gift I didn't know I was looking for.

"The intimacy of being someone's first thought in the morning and their last at night isn't just romance, it's safety.  In means in a world full of noise you live in the quiet corners of someone's mind.  You're their anchor before the chaos begins, and their calm when it ends.  That kind of presence? It's rare." - Jay Shetty

Being new to this lifestyle I needed an experienced and patient Dom and the one that found me and took a chance with me is both. He has shown his patience to me more times than I care to mention. I challenge him and he applies rules and structure as needed. He has taken the time to draw out of me the person I always should have been showing the world my whole life. The person that is acceptable in the BDSM world and in his.

In return I give him me. All of me. My body and mind, my feelings and my trust, my hopes and my fears. He takes all of that and teaches me confidence through honest communication and patience. I do not think I could have found anyone better to be my 1st Dom. The trust and honest open communication we have built are important elements in our relationship as we work through the ups and downs that every human connection has.

Since this would be on-line limits don’t seem as important as if this was an in-person relationship.  Having said this the BDSM Checklist I filled out is a mixture of the very few things I have tried and the things that I might like to try.

Other limits are: I will not send pictures or videos.  I also won’t do video calls, at least at the start. Texting and email through TheCage are fine. Phone calls or sexting is working for me.  NO pet play.

My renewed energy for life and the Dom that did that. ♥

Jul 10, 2025