In a monogamous relationship
I am a mid westerner through and through. I have lived in Minnesota my whole life and yes it’s “Hot Dish” not “casserole” and yes it’s “Duck Duck Gray Duck” and not “Gray Goose” and yes we say “Pop” not soda. We also say “You Betcha” and “Uff Da” as well as “Oh For Sure”. So in between church bazaars, pot luck dinners and VFW wedding receptions I really wasn’t aware that there was a lifestyle so different from mine that I would eventually embrace. A lifestyle that would allow me to be the person that I have kept hidden since I was a teenager. But there has been a steep learning curve to go from a vanilla life to the life of a submissive, especially at my age.
I have been involved in this lifestyle for a little over 6 months and I feel this is the right place for me. BDSM allows me to explore a side of me that I have kept hidden for many years. I am discovering new things about myself as well as meeting some very nice people. After a couple missteps I have met a very nice Dom and our relationship is progressing nicely. This relationship, being on line, poses some challenges that we are handling. The main one is trust. Since I won’t send pix he trusts that if I say I am doing something he requests that I really am doing it. He is helping me understand myself better and what I really want out of life, both my BDSM life and my everyday life. He pushes me to try new things and is very supportive. He helps build my confidence when I feel like I’m failing and want to give up.
I will not send any videos or pictures.
All communication will have to be through Bond or email on The Cage site unless we agree to use a different method.
Humiliation & denigration are off the table as is pet/animal play.
Doms must be of legal age, however young is OK if they can show they have experience.
If I find out you lied I will disengage immediately.
A new Dom, a new adventure.