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Currently seeking dedicated submissive females in the Denver, Colorado area and online.
06/18/2019
What do I look for in a sub? It would be easy to say obedience and loyalty but that's not really what I'm in this for. I look for potential for personal growth. If I choose you to be my sub I'll be giving you assignments from which you will benefit. In the past i have held subs accountable for dietary or fitness goals, so in many ways i act as a personal trainer or success coach. I also give mindfulness and sensual assignments. My goal is to help you to grow as a person through our time together.
Feel free to write me at my Cage profile
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Young Dom Seeks Submissive Anywhere
06/18/2019
First off I would like to thank you for actually taking the time to read this. I'm just going to put this all out there and if I sound like the type of guy you'd be interested then send me a PM. I'm open and honest and I feel like my advertisement should be too. A little about me: I am 20 years old, slim build,with a deep voice living in the DC area I have experience both in person and online and have had submissives from as far away as Australia and it worked out so really anywhere is fine. I am a massive gamer and nerd so being my submissive means you will need to put up with that. I also do volunteer work, fist aid training, and I make lovely audios you can have a look at on my profile. A submissive who can show interests in my hobbies is a must, it's a side of intimacy I think gets overlooked in the BDSM community.

My kinks include but are not limited to: Spanking, choking, collars, bondage (light and heavy), breast play, public play, degradation, humiliation, gags, breeding, and roleplay. Always wanted to use a remote controlled vibrator long distance on someone so we could talk about that. What I look for in a submissive: I need someone who can be loyal, trusting, willing to learn, ages 18-40 (will discuss older), respectful , caring, someone who can be both my best friend, my lover, and my little fuck toy.

Limits: Ageplay, rape, kidnapping, significant abuse (ask me about it), blood (bruises and scratches are fine), needles. Feel free to ask me about any of these. I am a flexible dominant and so I really like to get to know my submissives so I can be the type of Dominant they need me to be. If you made it this far thank you again, please send me a PM even if you aren't interested and just have a question or want to talk. Have a nice day!
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Adventurous, Wild you....
06/17/2019
Seeking adventurous wild submissive......you.
Wanting a new female online submissive to control and more.
If any or all of this has you thinking what's been missing, then come have a chat.....
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Looking For RL Long Term Female slave
06/17/2019
Greetings to all female slaves.

I am a Dom / Master looking to find that one special slave in real life. Now before I go into specifics I want to make a few things clear up front.

Which ever slave that comes to me needs to know that this will be a TPE arrangement. It will also be a real life live in situation as well. I am okay with doing online for now. But once we get to know one another really good, I would like for it to lead to real life situation.

I also want to add in, that the slave who comes to me, needs to know that I will not be asking for Nude pics or perverted pics. That is not my way of doing things. If any pics are exchanged, I prefer them to be face pics. So that way both sides know who they are talking to. Now this is not a mandatory thing with me. I am happy to wait on any pic. As I want to get to know the person first.

As for questions, concerns, or inquiries, please do not hesitate to contact me. I am more than willing to answer any questions and or concerns you may have. I want the slave and I to start off on a good foot. So if something is on their mind, I would like them to speak up. To me, communication is everything.

Now here is what I am looking for in a slave.
Loyalty, Honesty, Faithfulness, Hard Work, Dedication and Commitment. I want my slave to be friendly, outgoing, caring, funny, smart and she can even be a brat at times. I am open to all things. But when it comes to disrespect, that I will not allow. Both sides needs to have respect and to be able to trust one another.

Moving forward I would like to say a few things that my future slave needs to know. When it comes to control and Real Life stuff. I want to have a say in quite a few things that deals with my slave. Such as what clothes she wears, how she has her hair, when she goes to bed, and various other things. If the slave wants to know more about these things, then the slave can email me personally for more specifics.

When it comes to collars and training. I want the slave to know that it will have both when the slave becomes mine. I will discuss these things with any potential slave.

Here is what I offer:
I offer patience, understanding, guidance, care, support, and will take care of my slave. I also want to add in that I offer a strict routine and set of rules for the slave to follow. I believe in discipline and in punishment when the slave does wrong. If any slave wants further specifics, you know how to reach me. I am open to all questions and comments and concerns. No need to be shy.

In regards to TPE, this will have to be discussed over a time period as me and the slave gets to know one another. As this step is not one to be taken lightly. I prefer the slave to be serious about this as I am. This is one thing that requires alot of communication.

As for the slaves sexuality, I prefer her to be bisexual. Bicurious is fine to. I am not looking for a straight slave. So if any slaves out there are bi or bicurious looking for a Master / Dom, feel free to contact me

As for Limits (Hard and Soft) we will discuss those as well. Because I will need to know what they are and are not into. As they need to know my limits as well.

As for sex chat. That needs to wait. Because i want to get to know my slave or potential slave first. To me this lifestyle is not all about sex. It is about alot more. So to any slave who wants a real conversation first. And wants to get to know me. Then you know how to find me. I suggest that all slaves who is interested in me. Read my profile first. As it says alot about what I want, what I am into and more.

One final thing. Just because I have certain things on my list. Does not mean I do them. I have a wide variety of likes and dislikes. So if the slave wants more specifics, they can ask me.
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Looking for a submissive woman for online training.
06/17/2019
I am looking for a submissive woman who is willing to be instructed online, you will send "proof" of carrying out your tasks, if you are curious and willing to be obedient - get in touch.
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Help I need somebody
06/17/2019
Hi thanks you for reading this ad.. My name is Michael. I am 60 year old. I am looking for a younger Submissive or slave. I am somewhat new to this life style. I had a Submissive about 7 year ago and we parted and went separate way. I got married and now divorced. She didn't like that I was so dominant or how I wanted things done. Being told this by her is why I am returning to this life style
To start this life style again I want to do it right . I am looking for a Submissive or a slave who will sit a discuss every thing as far as rules discipline and limitations. This lifestyle might be about pain and pleasure but it also about being happy and respectful to each others. I and looking for the Submissive or slave who will help me find happens in my life
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Looking for a sub/little/slut
06/17/2019
I’m an European Dom looking for a sub. I'm interested in a serious relationship, something long term. Initially we can start this online but I want to move this relationship to real at some point, depending on how the relationship evolves this could be in form of occasional meetings or an eventual reallocation.

I want to take the lead, be in charge. As a Dom I want to take control of my sub, give her the attention she needs while teaching her how to serve me. I want the sub to feel safe, comfortable and also useful and owned. I want both taking care of her and using her as my toy, molding her to my needs, making her mine. I want to be her reference, the one she relies on. In this aspect I'm kind of looking for a little girl to take care of.
Each sub is different and has different needs, I enjoy learning about the sub, understand both her mind and body and use that knowledge to bring out the best out of her, sexually or not. I want not only to show her the path to follow but make use of every resource available for our mutual pleasure.

Sexually speaking, I'm mostly interested in orgasm control, edging, humiliation and some pain. I enjoy using every inch of the subs body, filling her with pleasure or deny her to orgasm, I enjoy seeing how she desperately begs for permission to cum while being forced to edge, how she struggles trying to not orgasm while being verbally degraded. In this sense I'm looking for a slut, a sub who somehow enjoys being humiliated and degraded, being treated as a toy.

This is just an introduction, if you are interested in being my sub contact me and we will further discuss about this relationship, talk about likes and limits and, in general, getting to know each other.
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Atlanta Dom seeks 24/7 sub
06/17/2019
Maybe you prefer having a strict and punishing Master, maybe you prefer serving a kind and loving Daddy, whichever you want, I'm Him.
I'm seeking a 24/7 live in submissive woman who is ready to give up control. If you're a slave it'll be complete control. You will be my property and be well taken care of.
If you're a little then Daddy will tell you what you can and cannot do and give you lots of love and attention along the way.
No matter your choice, you will be collared, trained, disciplined, nurtured, and loved.
I am divorced, intelligent, educated, white male with an excellent and well paying job that can easily support both of us.
You must be between ages 20-40 and attractive.
Curves are okay, but not fat. (I decide what fat is)
Tattoos are okay as long as they're not everywhere.
You must be drug-free and disease free.
You cannot smoke. If you do smoke, just know that quitting will be the first thing you do.
Open to negotiate your limits and put them in a contract if it makes you comfortable.
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18 Looking for slave for Online TPE
06/17/2019
You read the title. I want a slave, NOT A SUB, a slave. Someone who is willing to completely give up free will to me and let me give them commands to completely control their life. I want someone who will go out of their way to please me and thank me for letting them. DM me with your limits and level of interest and we will work from their. Beg to be my bitch.
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Looking for a UK based sub girl
06/17/2019
Hi I'm looking for a sub girl 18 to 45, preferably slim and short, but as long as she is not obese, that's okay.
She must be ultra submissive in the bedroom, I'm into rough, extreme, degrading sex. Also like to slap and push around, with face and hair pulling during sex.
I have a high sex drive, so partner must also be always prepared for anything at any time. Favourites are CNC, rough deep throating, and anal.
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Female Mentor / sub mentor
06/17/2019
Hey am looking for my first female submissive relationship or sub female mentor to live with me or just see each once in while or whatever is good for both of us . I'm a Dominated man so I expect you to obey my wishes and am very loving kind will respect u . I will never talk down or will never treat u bad . I will support u your be my submissive princess . Please feel free to ask any questions you may have and I will answer them to the best of my ability. I want to make this process with you as easy as i can.
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Experienced Dom seeking online sub to start
06/17/2019
No experience required just message me and let's see what happens. It will start online but if your a good girl then you will end up living with your Dom.
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Master seeking true Female Sub LT
06/17/2019
I am a loving trusting Sir seeking LT in time.
Must be willing to move to canada .
Take a step and reach out to me
I will show kindness and teach in growth
Yours Sir
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Submissive/Slave wanted
06/17/2019
I'm looking for and young no limit submissive or a young slave who is ready to serve a Master for online possibly real life. Preferred no experience or little experience I like to train my way. It sounds like you send me a message can't wait to hear from my little pet.
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Experienced Dominant seeks submissive woman
06/17/2019
I am looking for someone in the Bay Area (or who frequently travels here) for a long term BDSM based relationship. The woman I am looking for should be honest, loyal, eager and enthusiastic, fun with a great sense of humor, and serious about exploring a connection in real life. As there are a lot of time wasters on these sites, once we have talked a few times, she should be ready to voice verify (i.e. talk on the phone/VOIP). I am open to answering any questions you may have, so feel free to ask me anything you'd like to. Once we have established we have chemistry together, we can go from there. Age is not a big deal to me, but I would prefer someone my age or younger. If you are significantly younger, that's okay, but please be open minded and mature. I'll look forward to hearing from you.
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Med Fet
06/17/2019
Very experienced medfet dom looking for female patients in NEPA or NJ. I can travel to you with a complete exam room equipment.
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Kinky Online Master
06/17/2019
Hey girls, I’m looking for a younger woman (18-25) who is willing to try anything online. I’m looking for an actual long term relationship with someone willing to be a 24/7 slave.
Message me if you think this is right for you.
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Island-based dom looking for female submissive
06/17/2019
The very fact that I live on an island places some constraints on what I can look for and meet, but as long as I don't have a partner I am fully open to accommodating for free in a guesthouse I have heterosexual, bisexual and pansexual female submissives, slaves, masochists, rope bottoms and switches willing to try their submissive side and looking to travel to Greece at any time during the year. There are hardly people to meet in Greece so I am primarily looking for people from abroad. If something long-term can evolve out of this the better.
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Seeking a sub
06/17/2019
Hi. I’m looking to connect with someone interested in potentially becoming my sub down the road. Likely mostly online, but possibly some in-person. Communication skills are key. The rest we can discuss over time. I’m attracted to slim or athletic body types. You can expect respect and transparency from my end.
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Seeking Submissive/slave
06/17/2019
I'm looking for a new submissive that wants to be trained into my perfect submissive. We will start off online and see where thing go. I'm very strict but I can be caring if you obey nicely. If you decide to submit to me you will give full control to me, you will do what I say whenever I say. If you trust me and give me full control I will give you guidance and training to make you my perfect submissive/slave. showing yourself is a must. If you're interested send me a message or like my profile
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