Dominant Men Seeking Submissive Women

First off I would like to thank you for actually taking the time to read this. I'm just going to put this all out there and if I sound like the type of guy you'd be interested then send me a message. I'm open and honest and I feel like my advertisement should be too. A little about me: I am 22 years old, slim build,with a deep voice living Richmond, Virginia. I have experience both in person and online and have had submissives from a variety of different places and backgrounds. I don’t want the person reading this to worry about being “my type” just be yourself. I consider myself a big nerd. I enjoy working on computers, building model kits, gaming, reading manga and watching anime. Other hobbies include volunteer work, making erotic audios (check my blog), and I used to do a lot of photography competitions although that has slowed down. A submissive who can show interests in my hobbies is a must, it’s a part of non-sexual intimacy and growing close with your partner.

My kinks include but are not limited to: Spanking, choking, collars, bondage (light and heavy), breast play, public play, degradation, humiliation, gags, breeding, and roleplay. I’ve had some experience since first joining Cage so I’ve experimented with long distance vibrators, more sadistic things, pet play, and lots more.

What I look for in a submissive: A submissive to me has to be loyal, trusting, curious, willing to learn, respectful, caring, patient, and someone who wants to be more than just a sexual toy. I want a best friend as well as a submissive. As for ages, body types, etc, I really don’t care as long as you’re 18+. If we get along and vibe well we can go from there. One more thing, I’ve gotten to the point where I’m really looking for submissives who live a reasonable distance from me. So if you see the location on my profile and think “there’s no way in hell I’m ever going there” it’s probably not going to work. I’m open to mentoring and being friends, but for serious submissives I’d prefer someone I can see in person every now and then.

As for my limits, it’s pretty simple: Blood, scat, objects around my throat, anything too forced or degrading, nothing that seriously endangers your mental or physical wellbeing. As always, safewords and open communication please.
Thank you for reading!

First off I would like to thank you for actually taking the time to read this. I'm just going to put this all out there and if I sound like the type of guy you'd be interested then send me a message. I'm open and honest and I feel like my advertisement should be too. A little about me: I am 22 years old, slim build,with a deep voice living Richmond, Virginia. I have experience both in person and online and have had submissives from a variety of different places and backgrounds. I don’t want the person reading this to worry about being “my type” just be yourself. I consider myself a big nerd. I enjoy working on computers, building model kits, gaming, reading manga and watching anime. Other hobbies include volunteer work, making erotic audios (check my blog), and I used to do a lot of photography competitions although that has slowed down. A submissive who can show interests in my hobbies is a must, it’s a part of non-sexual intimacy and growing close with your partner.

My kinks include but are not limited to: Spanking, choking, collars, bondage (light and heavy), breast play, public play, degradation, humiliation, gags, breeding, and roleplay. I’ve had some experience since first joining Cage so I’ve experimented with long distance vibrators, more sadistic things, pet play, and lots more.

What I look for in a submissive: A submissive to me has to be loyal, trusting, curious, willing to learn, respectful, caring, patient, and someone who wants to be more than just a sexual toy. I want a best friend as well as a submissive. As for ages, body types, etc, I really don’t care as long as you’re 18+. If we get along and vibe well we can go from there. One more thing, I’ve gotten to the point where I’m really looking for submissives who live a reasonable distance from me. So if you see the location on my profile and think “there’s no way in hell I’m ever going there” it’s probably not going to work. I’m open to mentoring and being friends, but for serious submissives I’d prefer someone I can see in person every now and then.

As for my limits, it’s pretty simple: Blood, scat, objects around my throat, anything too forced or degrading, nothing that seriously endangers your mental or physical wellbeing. As always, safewords and open communication please.
Thank you for reading!

I'm a 49 year old male dom looking for a female sub. My requirements are fairly specific. The right sub will submit to an ongoing D/S arrangement when we are building a scene. I have (comfortable) sub-quarters at my place (south east of London) where rules will apply. However outside that environment I am consciously egalitarian. I'm also unashamedly sapiosexual. I love super-smart women.
My style of domming has taken a while to evolve. I'm not interested in being a swaggering domly mcdomlypants. I prefer subtlety. I also get a slightly evil kick from depriving my sub of agency (negotiated of course) and then subjecting them to being used and taken beyond the point of reason. I get off on leaving someone utterly helpless and overwhelmed by sensual pleasure. I'll use pain, degradation, mechanical stimulation, complete deprivation of control, or whatever it takes to get them there.
Aside from super smart sluttiness I also appreciate physical fitness. I work out (not to excess) and expect similar from the right sub. The sub will have to stay fit despite my feeding her. It is OK to spoil one's sub occasionally isn't it?

I am looking for a woman (only) to help me clean, organize, create, ad on and make this home really comfortable all with your touch, a woman's touch. Thank you in advance for being real and who you are. I need you in my life now. Let's start this journey soon..

Dynamic, exciting, adventurous and wanting.
Hopefully I have grabbed your attention, as that's exactly the kind of online female sub I'm seeking
Ideally, your age would be between 18-40, but if you're as dynamic as I'm hoping for, then come chat.

My desires have always been there but I have not always followed them.
This is about pleasure--the pleasure I get from making a woman into a sexy, beautiful sub or taking a girl and making her even more sexy and beautiful for her daddy- both inside and out, in attitude and style, as well as dress. I derive no enjoyment out of extreme pain, nor do I appreciate service out of obligation. I want you to serve me, let me dress you up and show you off, and take pleasure from your body and your mind. Yes, I will NOT force you (trust me, I do enjoy that) but it starts with you giving yourself to me. If you please and satisfy my wants and desires then you will receive reward and praise. If not, there will be punishment. I am kind, gentle, and understanding but I have a fine line between my soft and firm hand. I am equally caring as I am a Sensual dominant . I will learn your likes and dislikes and you will learn mine. You must give me proof that you are real with a whole body picture including your face and some proof that your not a phantom.
First and foremost I am not interested in a no limit submissive nor a doormat, I want a submissive who is able to stand tall even when she is kneeling before Me.
What I’m looking for is someone who is genuine, intelligent, charming, open-minded, well put together, comfortable in her own skin as well as confident about her position as a submissive and realizes that it makes her wanted and admired...a self confident submissive is a delight to behold. she is sure of her value, comfortable of her worth, and display her self confidence with quiet pride...never arrogance.
I don’t expect to jump into OWNING you on a second call or E mail or Text - it may take months to get there. I want to explore every part of your mind and body. I want to extract your darkest fantasies to help me understand your mind. The female brain is, by far, the greatest erogenous zone in the body - and I love to get inside a woman’s mind. Trust will be built through online chat, emails and voice calls with the evidence of MASTURBATION . By the time we chat in person I will know you inside and out - and how to have you trembling with desire. I am here to provide a level of Mental and Physical protection that you are currently operating without. I am a *safe* place to explore your fantasies weather on line or via phone, because
I built My inner sensual dominant persona on trust, integrity, commitment and honest communication. I expect nothing less than I'm willing to give.
Of course, this is about training( not to reinvent the wheel so to speak), so there will be rules. There will be expectations that I will make clear. I will NOT set you up for failure. I WILL push you to do and to give Me the best of your submissive abilities—as we work to explore them mentally and expand them physically. I have many years experience, and currently seeking my next relationship. I am open to anyone in terms of their experience level, doesn't matter if your new or experienced, you are welcome to talk to me and ' pick my brain' . If you want to know more or just curious, do feel free to send me a message. Hope to hear from you soon.

Looking for an online/ RL slave. Due to the current conditions of the world it will remain online until it is safer to travel.
I am currently looking for a female who understands what being a slave truly is and has the intense desire to serve a strong Master.

Ideally, I am looking for a girl who is interested in a TPE relationship. Someone who is able to travel unencumbered, at least for short visits if not able to relocate full time. Online will be required in the interim.

An online only relationship is acceptable, though eventual RL relationship is sought and may take precedent over online only. If you have questions regarding this feel free to send a message and we can discuss it in depth.

RL duties and time allotment can be discussed as well.
Due to health and career my longtime(eighteen years and counting) slavegirl isn't able to travel to the places I do, so much of the time it will be personal one on one service, if the transition to RL is made. I work in the security industry (along with several other skillsets) which gives me flexibility on my work schedule and location. I travel up and down the west coast several times a year.
Age is of little consequence though being physically active is a must. I enjoy the outdoors as an avid hunter and fisherman. Summers in Alaska can be hard on a body in the best of health.

I take my responsibilities as an owner seriously. I provide all care and affection needed by my property. I provide training and guidance on a variety of situations, including career and life in general. I encourage my slaves to set goals and help support their advancement both in relationship and personal growth.

Knowledge of the Gorean subculture, protocols, and positions will be considered a positive, not a requirement.

Feel free to contact me with any questions you may have.

BDSM is an interesting thing. No, not because of sex, but because of the psychology behind that. Deep in my heart I do believe that dommination is an art and submissiveness is a power. So you hold it all. And just you can give it away.
I am 33yo 180cm 75kg domminant male who is in need of the woman next to him. Yes, you heard me right-next to me, not behind or beneath me. At first you need to know what you whant and what you are willing to give for it. I will ask. Also, you should be willing to relocate. But rather than that-please be a bit literate, curious, young, petite.. And most of all-from a broken family. Daddy issues etc. In that case we will find each other.
So please do not hesitate and pm me with all the fears and needs you have. I will try to help as best as I can.

Mr Right.

Hello, all of you lovely ladies,

My name is Jon, but I go mostly by my chosen screen name of - LATEXHER. STOP - don't jump to conclusions just yet! Allow me to divulge for you some of my background. I began my transformation to becoming a Dominant man when I was only 17. My girlfriend at the time bought me a pair of colt handcuffs. I was a junior and she a senior who then introduced me to many of her girlfriends. One day not too long after I had the cuffs, I jokingly handcuffed on of her friends at a party we all attended. The girl - Nancy, was a very shapely woman with a superb figure and nice firm software. I had her wrists cuffed behind her back and my girlfriend and I had a time of it while Nancy remained cuffed. The other girls and boys all teased Nancy, and she was a little embarrassed, but I quickly eased her feelings. My girlfriend and I would not let her loose, and actually fed her some chips and made her take her drinks being fed like a little infant. ThAT for me was the BEGINNING, of a wonderful life and development of my D/s personality.
Later in my young life I joined the military and quickly advanced in rank. I was placed in charge of several young men and enjoyed my authority As my career progressed I worked part-time for a wonderful woman who herself was publisher of an adult magazine and catalog of mostly leather BONDAGE equipment, selling her magazines to adult book stores here in the Chicago area. Married at the time, the commission I made allowed me to obtain at discounted prices some of Centurions leather equipment to role play with my wife. I bought some harnesses and a leather chastity belt which could be locked on - which I still have.
My wife was not very enthusiastic about the chastity belt, or the corset for that matter, but I insisted and she obeyed. The chastity belt had several places where locks could be placed leaving removal impossible. I once took her out wearing a dress to hide the belt, with both plugs deep in her bottom and vagina. These were primitive plugs and she was sore from the belt and plugs for a couple of days, of course, that could have been from my excitement upon the removal that evening. We must have enjoyed sex several times that night. Sadly she did object to further use of the butt plug, but we used the belt often.

After 40 years, and two prior wives, I must say that I am well experienced in D/s play, role play. bondage, and some fetishes. I have progressed in my dominant role to the point where I am today. I enjoy corsets on the women I am with, as nothing accents a female figure better than ta well-fitting corset. I am an aficionado of women wearing both tight leather and latex outfits as well as in bondage for pleasure or punishment. I enjoy much of the many things I have since learned about you ladies including serious play as orgasm denial, prolonged sexual teasing, torments, and punishments. I retain my love for chastity belts, piercings, and tattoos on you ladies. I wish to find ONE Woman who is as kinky as I, who likes being submissive. who enjoys dressing for fun and pleasure, as my partner for the rest of my life.

I also enjoy writing erotic adult-rated stories of M/f, F/f, ff, submission, and slavery. I have written and published some for your reading pleasure. Throughout the years I have become proficient in woodworking, in fact, have designed and outfitted several dungeons for affluent clients in this area. I am also an amateur photographer, capturing females in restraints, dungeon play, and even in harnesses, outdoors, and in private. All around I consider myself to be faithful, disciplined, outgoing, romantic at times, and a qualified - real Dom.

If you are an older woman, single, divorced or widowed who would like to chat and decide then if we click, I am open and available to converse with you. I am open to age play, maid, pet, HuCow and pony play, enjoy mutually approved rape play, tit and pussy torments, prolonged bondage, hoods, gags, plugs, harnesses, wax, forced climaxes, prisoner, objectification, humiliation, anal, piercings, water torments, outdoor winter, summer pool fun, chastity, dollification, and so much more. Ask if you wish, and always remember - I only play safe, strict, consensual, and with respect to your limits.

Life is short, too short to not take a risk on the future we both desire and seek. I have no living children at home, own my home and basement dungeon which is always ready to share with a woman who knows her desire to serve and enjoy her man. I am non-judgemental, am a Christian but do not practice every Sunday. I enjoy good food, drinks and the company of friends and family. I can be very discreet, if you are a professional woman, and cannot allow your likeness to be shown. I enjoy a glass or two of red wine at night, do not drink in excess, Don't smoke, and am drug-free. I don't mind 420 if you enjoy it. A potential collar awaits you here with me. The next step in yours to take! :)

Irish master seeks naturally submissive woman. Real life only. Trust,respect, honour and communication at the top . Seeking the real submissive, those with the desire to please and those who know that true submission is a gift and it will not be treated with disrespect nor taken for granted. I'm in Ireland at least for the moment , be realistic about distance . This is a journey for both . A partnership. A unique union. To grow,develop and maintain. I'm looking for my happy ever after . Are you ? All types of submissive and slaves considered..EU and UK Only !

I believe that the mental and intellectual connection is the starting point for any successful relationship because everything else flows from that link.

The role of Dom is a position of great responsibility which I take very seriously: this brings with it a caring and supportive approach and I will want to make sure that my Sub develops skills in all areas of her life, not just in the BDSM arena. Communication from both sides is an essential part of any connection.

Rules and Routines bring with them structure and boundaries which for me ,deliver submission and obedience in all aspects of life. Similarly a Contract is an essential part of any relationship.

I will not tolerate brat-like behaviour or disobedience which will be punished accordingly.

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I am a 30 year old man looking for a woman to get to know and move into a lifestyle relationship. I've spent my first relationship with a female switch living the lifestyle, domestic discipline, in house and daily bondage, public whippings at play parties and punished spankings in open public. I have certain things I don't care for, and I respect all limits.

Truthfully living that way for years has ruined all vanilla relationships for me. I am looking for a woman who craves domination and living the lifestyle, and I am more than willing to teach the lifestyle. I have all the tools, a fully equipped playroom, and a career to cover all bases.

If this feels like something you would like to try or your curious about how this works shoot me a message and we can start a conversation to see how compatible we are. I am very picky and lose interest very quickly with people I am not attracted to. Being my submissive is a privilege and I treat it as such, it's not a title I give out lightly and my discipline and time is a sign of trust and deep affection. I'd tell you I don't bite, but that would be lying ;).

Dom looking for online sub who is willing to send pictures and videos as confirmation of obedience. Face required to be shown. No extreme play or scat. Preferably looking for a sub who is into humiliation and degradation but open to others as well.

Welcome dear reader

~Introducing myself~
Now that I have your full attention, because you are reading my whole ad and didn't stop after the short summary, it already feels much easier and better to simply read along and let yourself be intrigued.

So let me introduce myself.
I am Nico, a German gentleman, hypnotist, and dominant. Publicly I am known as a calm, confident, and polite person. Passions of mine are sport, mainly karate and climbing, Guitar and music in general, and Gaming/IT.
But anyone who knows my private side, knows I am much more than the naked eye sees at first glance. Because I have a naturally high libido, it's not surprising that sexuality plays a huge part in my life. I have been in the BDSM community since my early teens and have been interested in hypnosis even longer. Instead of simple and mostly physical play though, I use my interest and knowledge in hypnosis to enjoy mental play, which is far more intense and wonderful than most people realize. Jet everyone could potentially enjoy it. Many twisted kinks, fantasies, and desires reside in my mind, just waiting for a willing subject to be toyed, pleasured, and enjoyed with. Besides my dominant, controlling and sometimes sadistic side, I also have a very caring and protective one which is why I almost always bring a Daddy/little girl dynamic into my relationships.

~What is Hypnosis~
Now that you know more about me, maybe feeling even more intrigued, maybe wanting to know more about what I am looking for, there is one important thing to explain beforehand. What is hypnosis?

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~What am I looking for~
After a long but needed explanation, you are now able to understand what I am looking for without being deceived by society's cliches about hypnosis and can instead keep a happy open mind, allowing you to maybe make experiences you previously only dreamt about making.

I am very open-minded and enjoy getting to know and making new experiences with new people, so what I am looking for in a relationship very much depends on my partner. With some, they make a great play partner, but it doesn't work beyond that. With some, it clicks and further connections can be established. That's why I don't like closing off possibilities.
Maybe you only wanted to ask a question at first, maybe you planned on only having a short term relationship. But in the end, you can only know what will happen, if you give in, try and enjoy it, follow along and make experiences you would have missed out on otherwise. So I encourage you, If I as a person and hypnosis in connection with BDSM sounds interesting in any way to you, maybe already making you feel a little tingle between your legs, shoot for it, you know you won't regret it.
Besides the future of our relationship, I am looking for an open-minded woman, someone who can let herself go and make new experiences. This doesn't mean needing to do anything I say, it simply means accepting new interests, kinks, and fantasies. And if those are in the range of comfort, maybe try them out. Because hypnosis relies so much on how open your subconscious mind is, it's an important aspect.

As you can guess by now, I am of course looking for someone with at least a slight interest in hypnosis, whom I can answer questions, help deepen her curiosity and maybe even make her experience it.

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~Now enjoy~
If you made it to this point, very good, the curiosity and maybe shy arousal slowly rising up inside you, show you and will make you notice sooner or later, that such an experience which I am offering, is what you are looking for.

Have a wonderful day
Nico

looking for a good sub near and around DC area.

Hello there,

I'm looking for a curvy, witty, bratty sub for ongoing, long term fun. I'm not into beating a woman senseless, with objects or otherwise. Whether its a little wanting someone to support her becoming her best self along with some play, as well as kinky mature women and couples, I'm very game.

Just please be conversational, creative, and not have any addictions issues. We can chat about the rest later.


Spanks and kisses,

L

Call me crazy but I am a deeply religious man (Christian(L.D.S)) and I'm looking for a submissive woman to be my slave wife. I have no intention of having sexual relations before marriage. Until that time a D/S relationship with me will be non sexual in nature. I am determined to find my place in both the Christian and kink worlds. I belong in both. Anyone who feels they could be a good candidate, reach out to me and we'll discuss it. This post is not a joke, don't make it out to be one.

Just your normal college kid going through it but looking for someone I can own, if this catches your eye take a look at my profile and let’s see if you’re the one I’ve been looking for

I am looking for a newbie or experimented Sub female, looking for someone close by. I'm very serious when it comes to my subs and can be gentle, understanding and compassionate but also firm, strict and even harsh at times. I am able to give you training, guidance. If you like this and you are interested then contact me.

I gracefully welcome anyone reading my post. My name is EmperorGZY. Dominant male who is big in the kink lifestyle. I have been in the lifestyle for a very long time. I proudly embrace the lifestyle which have become a very big part of me. Being a dom Is a big part of my life and I live it everyday. I see it as my true purpose and I can say I love it. I'm seeking a sub who is interested in the lifestyle of being devoted to her Dom, and very submissive by nature. want to learn, explore, be spoiled and cherished as a perfect sub. A sub who wants to live her true purpose of happiness, someone who do not only want to learn but also grow in the lifestyle. Someone who is ready to live, live like they have ever wanted to, someone who is not afraid to be who they want to be. I dont want to give you a list, I want someone with creativity that knows what they want, and can make life exciting and fun for the both of us. I want to truly live and I want to do it with the right one . With a very good experience in this lifestyle I feel justified in saying that I am very experienced in many aspects of this lifestyle.

I have tried and experience in almost every kink like Anal, Light Bondage, Heavy Bondage, Long-term Bondage, Degredation, Body-writing, Hypnosis, Flogging, Whipping, Spanking, Hitting, Slapping, Milking, Facials, Rough/Primal Sex,Face Fucking, Forced Orgasm, Edging, Orgasm Denial, Humiliation, Name-Calling, Choking, Toys, Gags, Begging, General Worshipping, Pet Play, Nipple Clamps, Hot Wax, Genital Slapping, Clothes Pins, Collars, Clothing Control, Public Control, Spontaneous Sex, Forced Arusal / Wetness. My hard limits are blood, children, animal,anything illegal or anything that will get us both in trouble

If you find me appealing, Please message me as I can be the sweetest, most caring dom you could ever desire, On the other hand, I can be the most severe Dom you only dreamed of. I am well versed in ways to handle unruly and selfish women who feel the need to find their true place in this world. I am seeking something real, physical and mentally stimulating, long-term with the right sub, who is open-minded to being molded into the perfect sub for her dom .

I know trust and submission takes time and it’s earned. I do not expect you to give it to me right away I have no problem taking it slow, In fact I prefer to do so because that way both you and I know what we're getting into and no what we want . In that kind of dynamic it is very important that we are compatiable in personality, temperment, sexual attractiveness, and discipline. if we can't get along and understand whats expected of us whats the point? I am looking for IRL situation but I don’t mind starting online.

A little about me, I am a very fit and successfulI 26 years old guy, living in Pennsylvania, working at a financial institution. I enjoy what I am doing and I love it. Outside of kink, I am fun, caring, amazing guy with a great sense of humor , I am a guy who will make you pee your pant from laughing to all my jokes, I love adventures as much as I love showcasing my cooking skills . I speak 5 languages, English French, three African languages. When I am not working, you will catch me playing golf, reading, going on adventures or volunteering in the community. If I caught your interest, I will love to hear more about yourself and about your kink . I believe great communication is the key to a long lasting relationship. Looking forward to hearing from you.