Dominant Men Seeking Submissive Women

42 y/o      Lorton, Virginia

I am a multifaceted Demisexual Dom with a mix of Daddy and Master tendencies. I am looking for a good girl with slave tendencies for a real life monogamous relationship where 24/7 TPE is the core for our dynamic. I do mean unequivocally mine, ask permission for everything! I am looking for a woman who understands that a mental and emotional connection must be established before being sexual. A woman who wants to start working towards getting away from society and all its traditions in exchange for a simpler life tending to a garden as well as small animals. I need a woman who in time can be devoted to me 24/7 instead of other people because at the end of the day they will never give back as much as they take and companies you devote yourself to will never give a crap about you but I will make you my world if you have what it takes to be my precious! My profile has a few pics and a lot of information so make sure you read it before messaging me because I am definitely an acquired taste.

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  Germany

Master offering Live In Situation in Europe.

All types of Subs considered.

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Happy New Year!

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28 y/o      New South Wales

My ideal woman would be someone who wants a near 24/7 relationship. As a Dominant, I am flexible with any new submissive .
I will mold you into the perfect submissive.

All Ages and BBW are welcome along with skill levels

Some of the kinks I like to include but are not limited to Bbw, Spanking, Lactation play choking, collars, bondage (light and heavy), breast play, public play, degradation, humiliation, gags, breeding, I looking use a remote-controlled vibrator long distance on someone so we could talk about that.
Some things I look for in a submissive: I need someone who can be loyal, trusting, willing to learn, (will discuss older),

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  Paris, Île-de-France

Young successful entrepreneur, spiritual, with a quite dominant personality, but with strong values.

I registered here by curiosity. If anything happens, being with me means not having to care about anything else than us.

We may match up pretty well if you're an introverted/caring/supportive girl with a full devotion potential.

Feel free to send me a message if you feel like wanting to know more about me.

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23 y/o      London, England

I'm going to get straight to the point with this ad, I am looking for a sub/slave that know what they need and knows what they desire, and I mean truly knows what they need and desire.
I don't mind training you, in fact I want to train you and make you my own, but I don’t want someone that is still conflicted with what they want, need or desire.
I expect you to be open, honest, obedient, fun, interesting and free.
I expect to talk to my sub/slave about anything and I expect them to talk to me about anything they want or need to with no judgment on both sides.
In return for what I expect from you, you can expect me to be controlling, protective, understanding but strict, straight forward, and calm, caring but harsh when needed and possessive over you.
I am the perfect combination of Master and Daddy Dom; I will treat you like the slut and slave you are, but I will take care of you and hold you close never letting you go making sure you know you are safe and loved and owed completely.

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29 y/o      Durham, North Carolina

I’m looking to train a female sub. Prefer IRL relationship but ok with online.

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31 y/o      United States

Hello All,

I am an experienced Daddy Dom who is looking for a submissive girl to join me and explore submission together.
I want someone with whom I can connect as well, not just sexually. I wanna start online and then take further.

For me bdsm is about ownership and control, and the support it provides.

Message me if you wanna discuss further.

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  Massachusetts

Single white male 6ft 1in 185 lb professional clean and very respectful seek attractive female submissive to teach and trained properly. Newbies very welcome.

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64 y/o      Dallas, Texas

If you are looking for someone with VERIFIABLE experience, instead of just talk, please read my profile.

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  Richmond, Virginia

First off I would like to thank you for actually taking the time to read this. I'm just going to put this all out there and if I sound like the type of guy you'd be interested then send me a message. I'm open and honest and I feel like my advertisement should be too. A little about me: I am 22 years old, slim build,with a deep voice living Richmond, Virginia. I have experience both in person and online and have had submissives from a variety of different places and backgrounds. I don’t want the person reading this to worry about being “my type” just be yourself. I consider myself a big nerd. I enjoy working on computers, building model kits, gaming, reading manga and watching anime. Other hobbies include volunteer work, making erotic audios (check my blog), and I used to do a lot of photography competitions although that has slowed down. A submissive who can show interests in my hobbies is a must, it’s a part of non-sexual intimacy and growing close with your partner.

My kinks include but are not limited to: Spanking, choking, collars, bondage (light and heavy), breast play, public play, degradation, humiliation, gags, breeding, and roleplay. I’ve had some experience since first joining Cage so I’ve experimented with long distance vibrators, more sadistic things, pet play, and lots more.

What I look for in a submissive: A submissive to me has to be loyal, trusting, curious, willing to learn, respectful, caring, patient, and someone who wants to be more than just a sexual toy. I want a best friend as well as a submissive. As for ages, body types, etc, I really don’t care as long as you’re 18+. If we get along and vibe well we can go from there. One more thing, I’ve gotten to the point where I’m really looking for submissives who live a reasonable distance from me. So if you see the location on my profile and think “there’s no way in hell I’m ever going there” it’s probably not going to work. I’m open to mentoring and being friends, but for serious submissives I’d prefer someone I can see in person every now and then.

As for my limits, it’s pretty simple: Blood, scat, objects around my throat, anything too forced or degrading, nothing that seriously endangers your mental or physical wellbeing. As always, safewords and open communication please.
Thank you for reading!

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30 y/o      North Carolina

I'm looking for someone and something unique; a friend as much as a partner in crime. I have a fair amount of free time, but I'm not wanting to waste it on something without meaning. I'm looking for mutual respect first and foremost; I'm not interesting in anything less and will be up front about things as much as I am comfortable and able.

I'm looking for someone who will be understanding that I am not interested in full time control (typically), and will have periods of needing to take a break from bdsm. I will not make myself fully available outside of a romantic/partner relationship but I'm open to one developing or being the objective of getting to know one another.

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  United States

Hello!

I am a 30 year old male and hail from the lovely state of Virginia. I am also a scorpio if you're into those kinds of things. I have been involved in BDSM and kink for about 10 years now. I am experienced over a wide variety of areas within the BDSM and kink world. Control is my main passion. I know that's wide and covers a lot. I am seeking someone to chat with first and foremost. This sets the foundation for what you enjoy (kinks, soft limits, hard limits, etc) and also what I enjoy within those topics, subjects, kinks, whatever you want to call it. I am interested in talking about and exploring what they want and are hoping to get out of their experience. This will also set the building blocks for self growth.

If you just want to chat I'm fine with that. If you want to see about exploring something online, I'm fine with that as well. I would also be fine with eventually moving into something real life.

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38 y/o      United Kingdom

Financially secure seeking life partner who is interested in TPE. Looking for someone to share a life with that fulfils my need to be served at home and in the bedroom. Someone willing to be kinky when I want to be yet also a partner who can join me on my travels and during general life. Finances no longer a problem so happy for someone to work a minimum or not at all and just be happy travelling with me or joining me spending time at home. Not into sharing so would have to be ok being monogamous. I don’t want to rush anything and am willing to spend time so we can get to know each other and see if we are a good fit.

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50 y/o      Virginia

I am seeking a submissive, or a woman that feels she is submissive (naturally submissive). A submissive that has a fit/slim to average body as you will work out very hard for me. A submissive that wants her Master to always push her boundaries/limits and be challenged. A submissive that always feels good in her own bare skin, not too shy to show her complete nakedness before her MASTER. A submissive that appreciates the tenderness of cuddling, (sub space), deep long and short passionate kissing all over, and the resulting after care that I will give to her. Pleasurable pain is important for you as it will please your Master, very much. She must have an intelligent mind. Our RL relationship will be built on trust, loyalty, respect, integrity. WE will define together what that relationship entails. If this, is you, talk to me as I am very easy to talk to and to get to know. Honesty and Openness are the foundations.

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28 y/o      Ireland

Dom looking for online sub who is willing to send pictures and videos as confirmation of obedience. Face required to be shown. No extreme play or scat. Preferably looking for a sub who is into humiliation and degradation but open to others as well.

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65 y/o      Fort Lauderdale, Florida

Gentleman Dom seeks his sub slut - S. FL. I am a fit, D&D Free Polyamourous Gentleman Dom. 63 years young. Looking for submissive women who are mature, healthy, fit, local to Fort Lauderdale, sincere and ready to let go and live in the moment! Being in service, accepting responsibility for herself and wanting to grow and learn in the lifestyle. Is this you? Do you yearn to be in a safe place and know you are cared for? Don’t waste my time and I won’t waste yours! Be real. Be ready. Be yourself! Did I mention I’m especially partial to Ebony and Asian subs? Private Dungeon awaits! Ever ride a Sybian?

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  Toledo, Ohio

Master, caretaker, and disciplinarian seeking new submissive healthy and physically fit women age 18-40 who need to be disciplined, this can be a live in situation or by appointment situation in my Michigan home. I have 20 some years experience in this lifestyle as a dom and disciplinarian am also looking to be a caregiver in my Michigan in a safe well disciplined environment. Will be well disciplined and well maintained and well cared for entirety in my Michigan home.

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  Toledo, Ohio

51 year old Master, caretaker, teacher, father figure, daddy dom , disciplinarian of 20 some years experience in the lifestyle seeking a long-term relationship with a physically fit female age 18- 30 for a master/ slave, ddlg, teacher/ student.
I believe in bare bottom spankings and whippings as source of punishment when punishment is needed. My chosen female will be collared with a petite sexy sub collar and will be provided for and protected and taken care of by me in my Michigan home. This situation is a real life situation and long-term, please don't approach me if you have no desire for a long term relationship and no desire to be my live in sub in my Michigan home. I do ask we exchange phone numbers as to communicate as to get to know each other better and for proper communication, and I have kik app as well. Serious inquiries only and with intent of allowing me to care for you and train you in my Michigan home and long-term.

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48 y/o      New York

Me just your average guy next door type with a great occupation, circle of friends and happy in my life. Anything I want I work for as nothing is ever handed to us.............very tall standing 64 with a strong build at 260lbs, brown hair and eyes sometimes sporting a goa-tee with a wide variety of interests in and out of the lifestyle content and looking for someone to share that dynamic with both in and out of a bd ds sm content.

If you are just looking for a bd ds sm dynamic that is fine too...lets discuss it and see where we land. Sorry no photo simply due to occupational reasons. I have one of those jobs where all social media is checked, finances, credit status etc Although into the bd ds sm content, I am very extreme. I define myself as a Master and Sadist. I am not a daddy or a dominant please know the difference. I have been active in the bd ds sm lifestyle for over 2 decades and have become very experienced and enjoy pushing the mind and body. I am a very physical and intense individual looking for an equally intense submissive / slave who wants to have her mind and body pushed.

You will go far beyond simple bondage and spanking, I will push your limits but never cross the line of pre-defined limits. As for limits I share the normal limits of most sane and respectful but enjoy bondage, tight bondage, suspension, gags, sensory deprivation, orgasm control, fisting, breath play, lead and leash, fire play, electric play, needle play, use of tens unit, cage play, impact play, whips, canes, crops, paddles, hair pulling and the list is really endless outside of the hard limits which will be discussed and established.... how are are you willing to go??? When I am using the flogger or cane and you feel you are about to collapse are you the kind to tap our or beg me to continue and not stop till I am satisfied and happy....when you are put into a group - gang bang and feel your body is going to explode from being used by countless friends and dont have another breath in you are you going to tap out or tell me you want more.....when you are denied orgasm after orgasm are you going to tap out because your body can not take the tease anymore or beg me to use you to complete exhaustion....I can go on and on but you get the idea You need to submit physically and Mentally - Yes you, that is why you are reading this. You want to feel helpless... dominated... NOT in control. you want to give yourself fully, without thought of saying no.

You are a very sexy, confident, open minded and willing and meet my criteria and if you do not please dont contact me (when being trained / scening will be in thigh highs or garters, shaved smooth and 5 to 6in closed toe stilettos, NOT NEGOTIABLE) but feel constrained by your routine, your family life and fear of judgment.

You are frustrated by your inability to realize your innermost sexual fantasies. Of course you want to be spanked, restrained and many other things, and want to be ordered around, told how to please and be controlled, you know in your heart you are - And you are getting aroused just thinking about this now.

I look forward to speaking to those who are true and sincere in exploring the mental and physical aspects of this dynamic. both in and out of a bd ds sm setting Please read my posting careful. 1 - i am not for the faint of heart 2- read and understand what I am into and want, I will expect you to be into the same, if you are not or not willing to explore all I have listed we will not be a good match

Thank you for reading and look forward to hearing from you. Also make note I split my time between Long island Ny and Upstate Ny so you should be willing to travel or open to relocation

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47 y/o      New Zealand

I'm seeking ....you. A new online sub that's an exhibitionist, wanting to push limits.
I don't mind if you're inexperienced or experienced, come and chat

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  California

I am a recently divorced dominant. I was married for 6 years and it was a completely vanilla marriage. I have been involved in this lifestyle since my early 20’s and am looking to get back into it. I want something that can begin online and that has the possibility of going into a ltr.

I am looking for a 24/7 submissive who would be interested in daily / weekly rules and tasks as well as D/s play in the bedroom. Would prefer someone local in case this turns into ltr but have no problem with long distance if this is online only. I am currently in Northern California but plan on moving to northern texas in coming months.

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64 y/o      Missouri

I'm looking for a older submissive female in the Kansas City area that is interested in dungeon play.

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46 y/o      England

Hi there I am looking for a submissive either experienced or needing training. A woman 35 plus would be nice but open to younger if we click.

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  Toledo, Ohio

Older dominant male seeking submissive female with old Fashion values

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28 y/o      Spain

It feels better when you do things for someone else rather than yourself isn’t it? You have a submissive side that pushes you to serve and that’s exactly what I want. I want to take control of you, show you the path to follow and make you realize how much you need to serve. At the end I want you to follow me, not because there is a rule that tells you so but because you actually feel safe, excited and overall better when you are under my control.

I want someone I can guide and take control of. This is not just sexual, I want a sub I can make mine in every aspect of life. I want a sub that gives me her submission, I want to see how she enjoys pleasing me and follows the path I decided for her. I want to give a purpose to my sub, and I want to praise her when she meets my expectations.
Of course I'm interested in sexual aspects. I like orgasm control, humiliation, spank, impact play, and more things we can discuss. I want to make my sub completely attached to me, see how she gets pleased when I'm using her.
I’m a bit sadistic. I enjoy torturing my sub and seeing her suffer to some extent, but usually I like to do it with a gentle and kind approach. More than physical pain, what I like are mind games. I like making my sub feel helpless and desperate, not necessarily by physically forcing her but getting into her mind and being always a step forward of her.

Don't you feel better when you have a Dom telling you what to do? Isn't it much better than playing alone? What I want is to get into your mind, make you mine and from there I can have anything I want from you.

I can keep you busy, give you tasks and rules but at the end I want to be pleased by you. Your submission will be well received, but I want to actually enjoy using you. I want to be entertained, I want to desire you as much as you want me to use you. You want this too isn't it? You want to satisfy me with your body, you want to feel useful and valued.

I’m looking for a Dom/sub or a Master/slave relationship, even could be interested in some aspects of DDlg. Put the label you want. In any case I want to discuss about it, and see if we can actually build something. This is not a race and I don't want to rush things. I want a relationship, not a one time thing.
Tell me why you are interested. Give me a description of yourself, why you want this and what you can offer. Don't be afraid if you don't have experience or are unsure about what you want, we will go step by step. If you have doubts share them with me. We can explore and see what you have to offer. At the end, I want to build a relationship, not a one time thing.

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31 y/o      Middlefield, Connecticut

I am a 30 year old man looking for a woman to get to know and move into a lifestyle relationship. I've spent my first relationship with a female switch living the lifestyle, domestic discipline, in house and daily bondage, public whippings at play parties and punished spankings in open public. I have certain things I don't care for, and I respect all limits.

Truthfully living that way for years has ruined all vanilla relationships for me. I am looking for a woman who craves domination and living the lifestyle, and I am more than willing to teach the lifestyle. I have all the tools, a fully equipped playroom, and a career to cover all bases.

If this feels like something you would like to try or your curious about how this works shoot me a message and we can start a conversation to see how compatible we are. I am very picky and lose interest very quickly with people I am not attracted to. Being my submissive is a privilege and I treat it as such, it's not a title I give out lightly and my discipline and time is a sign of trust and deep affection. I'd tell you I don't bite, but that would be lying ;).

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  United States

Hello, I am looking for something long term. I want someone I can fully connect to and cherish her fully. I am kind-hearted and respectful.

I hope the one is a rope bunny at heart and absolutely loves the feeling of being bound. If you’re not, just be open to the idea. I’ve seen some that are slaves and some wanting it to be 24/7. I’m unsure if that’s what I’m looking for but I am having an open mind about it. You may change my mind. I’m extremely active and quite muscular so those who have a high libido won’t be a problem.

Acting is my passion growing into a career and so there will be times I will be extremely busy, understand that. But that doesn’t mean you will be ignored during those times, you will still be loved and cared for. That being said, I need her to be absolutely comfortable with her body and how she looks so in the case I do make well known as an actor, criticism and a life public to the world won’t be an issue for her.

Thank you, and feel free to message me!

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  Fremont, California

Slave breedable wife,a mother needed. Im dom looking a sub for fun. I like to read my sub. I like to know about my sub. I want to know, how was your childhood, how was your school, how was your family relation. I want to feel more closer to my sub before we jump into D/S relationship. Your feelings really matters to me. I can ask 100 of things but I will respect my sub's limits. I'm looking weekly basis. Since I'm working full time. IM looking in california. But if you reading this and decide to meet. You should be able to travel to me. I like to start thru online first. Cus I want safety . I want to safe my self and your as well. You have to take care of my family and i will take care for you. I will take you under my wings. You have to learn my language and my cultural and you have to convert to my religion. I will take care for you for everything.

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  Florida

For some time now I realize searching on Vanilla sites is such a dead end and I am tired of it. This seems to be the only place I hope to find someone to at least have a meaningful conversation with before anything else happens. I was over the BS people play online and in person sometimes. So. let me be clear I am an old-fashioned Alpha Male looking for just one old fashioned submissive woman (putting it bluntly). This does not mean you do not have a voice or become a doormat to my desires let's be clear on that ok? At 61 I really hope it is not too late to find one woman who knows who she is and what she wants. I am very independent, so I am not looking for a sugar mamma LOL. I have a roof over my head and food in the fridge and I say thank you every morning my eyes open. I want a positive thinking woman in my life who understands her role in the relationship as I understand mine. AT this point in my life there is nothing to lie about and want to be 100% transparent with whoever I meet going forward. I have had several relationships that were great but nothing like someone who understands this other part of me that has been incredibly quiet lately. FYI I am a online entertainer meaning a lot if social media stuff. If what I have written so far has your attention let us chat ok?

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39 y/o      Ireland

Real life only. Trust, respect, honour and communication at the top . Seeking the real submissive, those with the desire to please and those who know that true submission is a gift and it will not be treated with disrespect nor taken for granted. I'm in Ireland at least for the moment , be realistic about distance . This is a journey for both . A partnership. A unique union. To grow, develop and maintain. I'm looking for my happy ever after . Are you ?
All types of submissive and slaves considered.
Fakes and/or women who do not know what they want, and likewise the inexperienced, not welcome.

I would appreciate only those from the EU contacting me.

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61 y/o      Denver, Colorado

Dom responsible for sub mental, physical, spiritual growth & welfare.

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21 y/o      United States

Hello everyone I am a young online master offering help for newbies and support for a better understanding and as a master I’m looking for a slave/submissive to establish a long-term online relationship where voicecalls-webcam sessions can be a must after trust is earned.

AGE RANGE PREFERRED: Any slave/submissive girl can contact me.+ I have a contract for a mutual understanding and establishment of rules and limits of boths as well.

I am into: Micro-management-TPE-Master/slave dinamyc only. Sextoys. Other fetishes you have to ask.

Dislikes: A person not honest-Being ghosted-Not being clear about what you really desire.

Limits:Scat-Watersports-Underage.

Sexual orientation: Heterosexual.

Exceptions: If you’re a submissive/slave of any gender that need help I can support by providing materials and such. Thanks for reading the ad and contact me if interested.

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49 y/o      Columbus, Ohio

Hello,
My name is Master David Paul.

The fact that you are NOW reading this shows that you are desiring, seeking, searching and thirsting for a Master to fulfill, complete and satisfy your soul.

Wise King Solomon once wrote that, “…the love of a good woman is worth all the RICHES of the WORLD!” I AGREE with his words. However, a very “submissive” woman is even more HIGHLY VALUED, ADORED and TREASURED!!

A TRUE submissive is like a beautiful, seductive damsel that her Master loves and cherishes when He gazes into her soulful eyes! her submission, when trained and nurtured correctly, is truly a blessed, honored, celebrated and cherished GIFT!

I am a very FIRM and DEMANDING Master. At the same time, I am very honest, warm, loving, loyal, sensual, affectionate, protective, understanding, caring, romantic and passionate.

William Shakespeare once wrote, “to thine own self be true”.

I am desirous of finding a special and unique woman who truly desires to be “true to her inner feelings” of submission and longings to find her true existence, purpose, pleasure and fulfillment in life. To explore her true, inner and submissive needs and desires.

Perhaps you feel somehow “incomplete” or “hollow” and, although maybe not knowing much about B/D and D/s, you SECRETLY DESIRE to find a loving yet firm Master to help you explore your secret, inner role of submission.

A woman who truly longs to start out very SLOWLY, CAREFULLY and CAUTIOUSLY with a Master maybe for the FIRST time in her life. An inquisitive, sweet woman who craves love, attention and longs to be released into her inner roles of her being “naturally submissive”.

To provide you with the discipline, training and sexual passion you need in your growth while showing you value, respect and the true worth for the “beautiful” woman you are-both inside and outside.

To emerge within you the very BEST submissive you can become, while at the same time, bringing you to NEW HEIGHTS of LOVE, PLEASURE and ECSTASY!
However; as a Master, I will REWARD you when you have done WELL and PUNISH you when you have NOT!

A TRUE MASTER realizes the uniqueness of a submissive’s devotion and that her submission is a “gift” that she willingly bestows to her Master whom she deems worthy of her “treasured gift”.

I have always been Dominant in My life, without being arrogant, conceited or self-absorbed. I also have the utmost love and respect for women. I am seeking just ONE devoted, loyal and faithful submissive. Perhaps, such a mutual connection would even lead to a long-term commitment.

I have a very Professional demeanor and Presidential side, wearing a tie and jacket, and yet as comfortable in My black leather pants and paratrooper boots as in My jeans and O.S.U. sweat shirt.

I don’t smoke, just socially drink (never get drunk), don’t do drugs and have NEVER been in trouble with the law.
A Master must ALWAYS be in control of Himself….to be worthy of the “gift” of a woman’s submission.

I want YOU to know that I KNOW you have “limits”…you have “questions”…you have “fears”…you want to be “safe”.

I truly understand, appreciate and respect your feelings and emotions. I take them very seriously!!

(PLEASE DO NOT WORRY if you are NEW or FEEL INEXPERIENCED in this lifestyle. I completely understand, appreciate and respect that and will lovingly and gently train you accordingly. Also, PLEASE DO NOT WORRY if you have EXTRA WEIGHT or pounds. I personally think a Rubinesque, or Renoir figured woman, with thicker hips, thighs and butt is very, very attractive.)

I completely understand and realize that it may be difficult to take the FIRST STEP and to reach out to a Master. That is completely normal. But, I hope that you will find it within your soul to reach out to Me.

Thank you, again, for reading My profile. I hope your day is very beautiful and blessed~

Warmly,
Master David Paul

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34 y/o      Texas

Hey, i am looking for a female dom pretty much anyone under 50. Preferably fit or in decent shape but not a deal breaker. No preference on race, i love all types of women. Looking to have some online fun and keep things cool and casual for now.

I workout quite a bit but also love to eat sweets and junk food. I want someone who is willing to listen to what i say and do exactly what i ask so i can try to please her how i want to.

Message me to see if we can be a good fit.

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  Pennsylvania

Physical is easy , having a submissive’s mind is true joy , luv to teach & grow with a committed sub/slave

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  Saint Charles, Missouri

Hi there! My profile says more info about me so I'll try and keep this short. I'm a 28 year old switch leaning dom, currently living in the St. Louis area and unable to relocate due to work. I'm looking for a long term relationship with a subby girl, preferably around my age and who I get along with (starting online is alright as long as it eventually leads to real life). Unfortunately I don't have any practical experience with bondage but I'm hoping to learn more both on my own and as we go. If you're in my area or have any interest, go ahead and get in touch with me.

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  Wisconsin

Bluntly, I seek a woman who knows she needs/wants to serve, in all ways - no just the kinky sex. I live in the city and countryside, retired, not financially impaired thus you will be well cared for as a 24/7 slave. If you like travel; quaint, out of the way places, nature, like a man with traditional romantic side and you like to feel truly valued, yet have that undercurrent of always feeling owned....yes - then we should talk. Each path has a first step, here is your chance to began a journey that may have you finding what you seek :) Thank you (MN/WI)

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27 y/o      California

I am not your average Dom and you’ll come to find that in time, but I am in search of something fairly traditional in a d/s relationship. However, I am very open to many types of dynamics as my interests and desires vary greatly. As the title suggests, I am looking for a loyal sub. One with an open mind and is enthusiastic in her submission. I also need someone mentally mature, I may be open to age play but never ending childish behavior gets tedious sooner rather than later. As for specifics on the dynamic I am searching for, you’ll have to ask me personally. I am likely to ask you to share yours first but I will answer any and all questions to the best of my ability while trying to keep a little mystery to keep you on your toes. Shoot me a message if you’re interested, even if you have something specific in mind. I am known for being delightfully surprising to those with an open mind so give me a chance and you won’t regret it.

Respectfully yours,
Sir Eddy

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31 y/o      New Jersey

I'm 31 yrs old and haven't had any luck with some other dating sites. I'm looking for a playmate/girlfriend who's submissive to my every will (in the bedroom of course) but when time comes to do other stuff, I'm the type of guy who likes to do outdoor stuff (swimming, hiking, skateboarding, etc.), playing video games, occasionally reading books as well. It's not a deal breaker but a similar taste in movies would be nice. But anyways I'm rambling, if you're down for a good time, message me. We'll set something up, hope to hear from you. Have a super cool day!

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  Poland

I have some rules

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  Costa Mesa, California

24 years old, good looking and very muscular. I want a sub/slave girl that wants her holes (specifically her asshole) used and abused. I can be very controlling, or I can keep our relationship in the bedroom exclusively. If we go with an online relationship, I'm going to tell you what toys I want you to put up your cunt and ass, and I'm going to treat you like a dog.

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51 y/o      Rome, Lazio

let me introduce myself, so that you have a better understanding of who and what I am and what I'm looking for.
I'm an artist, a poet, an explorer, a teacher. I'm a dominant male, a wolf in heat. Sex is what I love and what I know.
I feed my mind and am in constant evolution, I know who I am and show myself without fear. to me sex is a beautiful universe to explore, I have few limits that I will write at the end. I have Love, understanding and knowledge of sex form a psychological point of view, spiritual, physical , anatomical, medical and technical . it is what I study since i was a child and everything I do, is done with love. I'm not looking for a female to fuck, what I'm looking for, is a female of my kind or a pupil willing to learn what I can teach. Ritualistic, artistic, intellectual, perverse, free, spiritual, a magnificent meeting of primordial animal energies that connect and form one awesome union.
Pleasure is what i research and search, pleasure in all its forms at the highest level, physical, intellectual, spiritual. A quest for pleasure and nothing but pleasure.
Any sexual act is brought to a state of art , this is how i see and live it.
An exchange, based on mutual, respect, communication, trust, sharing, exploration of each others minds and bodies.
As I said I'm a dominant male, but I'm not a dominator nor am I a sadist, I'm a loving master and teacher.
Elegance is what I try to put in everything I do, there are many that form who I am, I am an ancient soul. I'm very selective, I don't care about quantity, I'm looking for quality.
You probably think I speak with arrogance, but if you are still reading you might be curious, which means maybe you can see beyond und understand who I am or could be for you.
I won't use this to describe my abilities or advertise myself for a meat market.
I'm am looking for a companion or maybe more than one, with whom to share pleasure. I doubt I will find a companion for life, but then again who knows ?
I'm looking for someone, willing to take a trip with me in my world ( which by the way, is beautiful), a free soul with a deep vision.
Sex is far more and beyond a series of physical acts. I love conversation and understanding, understanding who you really are, knowing how your mind works, how your body works.
As far as the physical apearances , I like slim females, halfway between a snake and a feline. I have a passion for the female ass and small waist.
The only reason I mention physical aspect, is that if my eyes are not attracted to you, I might love your mind but I won't ever feel like having sex with you. when I look at you, i need to feel the wolf taking over and wanting to devour you. I need to desire you and want you with all myself, otherwise, it will just be studying and teaching.
If you think that I might be what you looking for and you might be what I m looking for, or simply you are curious, feel free to test me in any way you want, I will always be polite, respectful and gentlemanly to anyone I interact with, either for a simple conversation or for more.
As far as my limits, here they are.
males, scat, vomit, extreme pain, animals, under 18, being dominated.
If you have any questions about anything, don t be shy
it's only rock n roll baby

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26 y/o      Ontario

Hello and thanks for taking the time to read I'm looking for someone to train and play with online who is more then a yes sir no sir type of submissive.

I'm open to a variety of age ranges so don't feel shy as long as your legal so a bit about myself I'm 25 and from Canada I've had some live in submissives and a few online but I've been in the lifestyle since as long as I can remember I'm naturally dominant and like to take lead or control over a situation.

I'm open to alot of sexual ideas in either roleplay or actually playing them so if you have something in mind you want to do please feel free to be open with me as well I'm strict but only if that's what you need if that makes any sense.

Hope to hear from you and thank you for taking the time to read through this I hope you have the best day possible and if not I hope everything gets better from here take care,

Brock

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  Tulsa, Oklahoma

Im a Black Dominant man seeking my white sub. Im in Tulsa OK and would like a local or long distance arrangement. Im experience and very loving. Let talk please so we can get to know each other.

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  Tulsa, Oklahoma

Won't a sub who know how to be a sub, or one who's willing to learn. I prefer white women, sorry thats what I like.

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20 y/o      New York

I am a 20 year old male looking for a sub(hopefully a relationship) in either NY or NJ. I don’t mind someone further if they are driving distance or we plan to meet irl eventually. I am looking for someone that is within the age range of 18-27(I don’t mind older if it’s just play or a dynamic) preferably fit. I feel that physical attraction is almost as important as personality. If you are married, dating, polyamorous, or trans(I am not sexually attracted to trans people) please do message me if you have the intention of becoming anything more than friends or friends with benefits(as long as you aren’t trans I am willing to be friends with benefits or play partners) since I don’t want to share my girlfriend sexually.

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  United States

I'm searching for a submissive that will deeply prioritize their devotion to me over their base whims and desires. I enjoy control over all else, and will have the final say in all matters I deem important. I'd prefer a long term relationship, for her to be patient, trustworthy, respectful, thoughtful, humble, and maintain unwavering loyalty to me. Another preference I have, is for her to be an introverted homebody type. As far as her looks go, a decent idea of what I like is a dark alternative style (like emo/goth) with pale or light tan skin, straight hair, and a lean body (mainly no sag). My stats are approximately: 5'6" height, 180lb muscular build, 8" cock, 27 years old, and mostly Hispanic.

To see more about me, what I'm looking for, as well as what I require in an initial response, examine the entirety of my profile.

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28 y/o      Torrington, Wyoming

I’m looking for a total power exchange Dynamic. Through talking with people I’ve also discovered that to some people a 1950s style relationship would be basically the same thing. I believe my role is to help you achieve a level of excellence that you wouldn’t achieve on your own. At this point in my life the lifestyle and my life are intertwined in a way that cannot be undone. Some of my kinks can run to the extreme for some people if you are interested in what they are please reach out to me. If you would like to see if we would be a good fit please don’t hesitate to reach out to me

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26 y/o      Chantilly, Virginia

I am a caring dom looking for a real connection with a sub (preferably somewhat close to me) My profile has more details about me

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  Tennessee

I am a LIFELONG lifestyle Dominant dude seeking a FEMALE play partner. I enjoy female submission, girls in corsets, latex, leather, D/s. B&d, Objectification, tit and pussy torments, Chastity belts, Posture collars, dungeon play, outdoor bondage, degrading, electical play, device bondage, face fucking, pussy training, control, Denial, forced climaxes, just to hit on a few topics.
Over the years I have had the pleasure of teaching several women what a mind fuck is all about - along with pain and pleasure.

In my vanilla world I enjoy female company, fine wine, great food, cooking, gardening and taking care of a home. I am an avid woodworker who likes building dungeon toys for affluent girls and boys. I have built entire Dungeon for people before, including spanking benches, racks, X crosses, Saint Andrews Crosses, kneelers, stocks, entire post beds, cages, and oh so much more.

If you are a natural born Female of legal age and want to learn more about me - once I know that YOU are as real as I, hit me up if your down for it....

Life is short - Don't waste it!

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  London, England

I'm a 49 year old male dom looking for a female sub. My requirements are fairly specific. The right sub will submit to an ongoing D/S arrangement when we are building a scene. I have (comfortable) sub-quarters at my place (south east of London) where rules will apply. However outside that environment I am consciously egalitarian. I'm also unashamedly sapiosexual. I love super-smart women.
My style of domming has taken a while to evolve. I'm not interested in being a swaggering domly mcdomlypants. I prefer subtlety. I also get a slightly evil kick from depriving my sub of agency (negotiated of course) and then subjecting them to being used and taken beyond the point of reason. I get off on leaving someone utterly helpless and overwhelmed by sensual pleasure. I'll use pain, degradation, mechanical stimulation, complete deprivation of control, or whatever it takes to get them there.
Aside from super smart sluttiness I also appreciate physical fitness. I work out (not to excess) and expect similar from the right sub. The sub will have to stay fit despite my feeding her. It is OK to spoil one's sub occasionally isn't it?

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19 y/o      England

Hello anyone reading this, I'm fairly new to exploring my dominant side so I've come here to meet people and see what I like and what it's all about. I'm here for something online. Wouldn't mind trying something with cameras maybe. Looking for someone who is as new or has bit of experiences and is willing to teach and have fun. I really like orgasm control so anyone who's into that hit me up :)) I'd also like someone who's a bit of an exhibitionist and likes sending pictures. Would love to have some chats about peoples kinks and what draws you to them. Anyway I'll stop rambling, I hope you have a great day :)

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  Maryland

Are any of you women tired of being told by the world that you have to "be something"? I'm looking for a girl who doesn't want to be anything but mine. A bit of a flamboyant tagline I'm aware, but it can be difficult to stand out on forums like this which are so often inundated by low effort posts from even lower quality men looking for an easy lay. I want to establish upfront that I'm serious and I'm ready to give 100% to the right girl. Let me give you some detail on what I'm looking for, what I'm bringing to the table, and how I'd like to proceed with any interested parties.
First, off W H O am I looking for? Essentially what I am looking for is someone who wants to live as a servant/slave full time, 24/7, while publicly presenting as an average couple.
Obviously there are common sense limits on that which we can discuss in detail, but to unpack that means, I'm looking for a committed romantic relationship with a
woman who wants to spend most of her time serving me in any and all capacities. As you might think this includes very frequent and varied sex obviously, but what's more important is a positive and enthusiastic servant's attitude, and a drive to lift her master up and help him achieve his goals. You would be expected to provide daily house keeping duties, cooking, entertainment, sexual service, conversation, and companionship. While I have somewhat of an interest in bondage, punishments, and so forth it's not the core of the relationship I'm trying to find. The power dynamic in this relationship would not be a sexual game, but a sober minded mutual commitment to certain rights and responsibilities, TPE I believe is the slang around here. Think of it less like being a sub in a BDSM setting, and more like being a slave girl back in the bronze age, but that one slave girl the master has a soft spot for. More Harem than Dungeon, but not without plenty of discipline and restriction for you. I care a lot more about about you dressing how I want, addressing me in reverent manner, taking care of little tasks for me, and making an effort to lift my spirits than I do any specific sexual activity, though I do want to emphasize again that sex and roleplay is certainly part of the package. ! I'm white, 23, 6-2, 150 pounds and working on adding more muscle to that. I have a modest but comfortable residence, a steady income, and a lot of love and emotional support for the right person who can meet me on my terms. I'm exceptionally good looking by conventional standards, have an extreme work ethic, and I have a desire to provide for ALL your material needs if you can provide for the needs of mine I've listed. If you're in college, I'm happy to provide free housing for you while you study and make sure you get all A's. If you're an aspiring writer or artist, I will provide you with a space you can focus on that, and keep you accountable in pursuing that. I'm interested in helping you invest in anything you're trying to develop for yourself, but I'm also providing a space where you're not under pressure to be anything but mine. If you show up for me, I'll show up for you. This will take time to develop, and I'm not looking to rush it. You should expect to talk extensively online, over the phone, and preferably in person before anything happens. If you're long distance, still feel free to reach out, I can get the right gal to me if need be. Let me know about you personally, as well as your sexual interests and limits. If you're a virgin or very low mileage it's a huge plus but not a requirement by any means. I've got a particular fondness of redheads, tomboys, goth types, freckles, bookworms, and those musically talented, but once again not required by any means. I look forward to hearing from my girl.

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22 y/o      Byron, Georgia

need an obedient slave for a strict dom.age doesnt matter,must be female,and must be obedient.if your interested message me for further instructions

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36 y/o      Massachusetts

Nerdy, fit, college instructor looking for someone that I can connect with in and out of the bedroom. Open to something casual but ideally looking for something that can grow into a more serious relationship. Ideal relationship is one that is very kinky in the bedroom and with elements of a D/s dynamic outside the bedroom as well.

Some more detail about what I'm looking for in a relationship:

What I want is a relationship that incorporates D/s beyond the bedroom but that doesn't dominate (no pun intended) the relationship. I'd like to be with someone whom I share non-kink interests with. I want to be able to talk about and do vanilla things. I don't want to feel like I have to be "on" as a Dom all the time and I don't want my girlfriend to feel like she has to be a sub all the time.

At the same time, I do want some aspects of D/s to weave throughout the relationship. Elements of traditional gender roles would be present. I would want to take on a more leading and protective role. There might be elements of domestic discipline. The specifics would obviously be worked out over time and depend on the wants, needs, and chemistry of both people involved but that's the general idea.

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27 y/o      New York, New York

Hey reader! I'm searching for a sub/little. I consider myself to be an affectionate daddy dom whose kinks include anal, orgasm control, bondage, punishment and praise, spanking, squirting, and ddlg primarily. I'm also open to exploring other kinks! I'm looking for something that will lead to a more serious relationship but we can start out online first. My vanilla interests include reading, writing, exploring museums, hiking, climbing, etc.

If you're interested, please message me :)

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23 y/o      Maryland

Hi, I'm Shane : ) I'm a 23 yo Daddy Dom currently open to some play and friendship. I'm a good teacher and have a decent bit of experience with helping subs gain experience and knowledge, as well as providing a fun and safe environment to do so! There's a good bit more information on my profile about me, so if interested, check it out or feel free to message me at any point to know more : )
Have a wonderful day and year!

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39 y/o      Manchester, England

I’m a 38 year old Male, living in Manchester UK. I’m good looking, tall, and reasonably well off, working in a professional field.

Looking for a new sub to train and explore my dom side with, but also to hang out and have fun with.

Feel free to message if you’re:
-under 34
-sub
-female
-reasonably slim

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  Switzerland

I am a single, successful, educated professional that has been in and out of the lifestyle for some years.
I am looking for a sub between the ages 18 through 35.
I enjoy to educate newbies, so i would have preference for them.

I'm very serious when it comes to my subs and can be gentle, understanding and compassionate but also firm, strict and even harsh at times. I am able to give you training, guidance. If you like this and you are interested just hit me up with a DM

Open to on line for the right person.

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35 y/o      Dallas, Texas

You want to learn, explore, be spoiled and cherished as daddy's little princess...

I'm seeking an inexperienced girl who is interested in the lifestyle of being devoted to her Dom, who is between 18-25 yrs old and very submissive by nature.

I am a 33 yr old, very fit and successful marketing executive who lives in Dallas, Texas and travels often. I am seeking something real, physical and mentally stimulating, long-term with the right girl who is open-minded to being molded into the perfect princess for her Daddy.

If you are curious, send Daddy a message.

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