Hello there I'm 26 M and as the title kinda spoils I'm looking for a sub and I have very little experience, I hope to find someone patient and willing to grow alongside me in this endeavor some kinks I found I have are bondage, spanking, rough sex, humiliation, pet play and looking to discover more outside of kinks I love video games, reading, comics, MMA and lifting weights if anyone is interested let me know!
let me introduce myself, so that you have a better understanding of who and what I am and what I'm looking for.
I'm an artist, a poet, an explorer, a teacher. I'm a dominant male, a wolf in heat. Sex is what I love and what I know.
I feed my mind and am in constant evolution, I know who I am and show myself without fear. to me sex is a beautiful universe to explore, I have few limits that I will write at the end. I have Love, understanding and knowledge of sex form a psychological point of view, spiritual, physical , anatomical, medical and technical . it is what I study since i was a child and everything I do, is done with love. I'm not looking for a female to fuck, what I'm looking for, is a female of my kind or a pupil willing to learn what I can teach. Ritualistic, artistic, intellectual, perverse, free, spiritual, a magnificent meeting of primordial animal energies that connect and form one awesome union.
Pleasure is what i research and search, pleasure in all its forms at the highest level, physical, intellectual, spiritual. A quest for pleasure and nothing but pleasure.
Any sexual act is brought to a state of art , this is how i see and live it.
An exchange, based on mutual, respect, communication, trust, sharing, exploration of each others minds and bodies.
As I said I'm a dominant male, but I'm not a dominator nor am I a sadist, I'm a loving master and teacher.
Elegance is what I try to put in everything I do, there are many that form who I am, I am an ancient soul. I'm very selective, I don't care about quantity, I'm looking for quality.
You probably think I speak with arrogance, but if you are still reading you might be curious, which means maybe you can see beyond und understand who I am or could be for you.
I won't use this to describe my abilities or advertise myself for a meat market.
I'm am looking for a companion or maybe more than one, with whom to share pleasure. I doubt I will find a companion for life, but then again who knows ?
I'm looking for someone, willing to take a trip with me in my world ( which by the way, is beautiful), a free soul with a deep vision.
Sex is far more and beyond a series of physical acts. I love conversation and understanding, understanding who you really are, knowing how your mind works, how your body works.
As far as the physical apearances , I like slim females, halfway between a snake and a feline. I have a passion for the female ass and small waist.
The only reason I mention physical aspect, is that if my eyes are not attracted to you, I might love your mind but I won't ever feel like having sex with you. when I look at you, i need to feel the wolf taking over and wanting to devour you. I need to desire you and want you with all myself, otherwise, it will just be studying and teaching.
If you think that I might be what you looking for and you might be what I m looking for, or simply you are curious, feel free to test me in any way you want, I will always be polite, respectful and gentlemanly to anyone I interact with, either for a simple conversation or for more.
As far as my limits, here they are.
males, scat, vomit, extreme pain, animals, under 18, being dominated.
If you have any questions about anything, don t be shy
it's only rock n roll baby
I'm looking for a great conversation and a friend.
Hello. I am looking to find someone who enjoys a really good conversation. Someone who enjoys connecting on a mental level among everything else. I have many interests and I'm a real honest to god gentleman when it comes to meeting new people. So I promise that I won't slap you with a dick pic. lol (You're welcome.)
I'm not particularly looking for anything. I am just starting to rebuild social circles and friendships after taking a break for a couple of years. I'm hoping to make a friend or two and let adventure and new beginnings take care of the rest from there.
Online only bdsm role play sought by a dominant male. I am thoughtful, imaginative, creative, and create scenes in my imagination and fiction/photography
Is this you? A powerful, erotic soul that wants to slowly succomb to imaginative encounters where you are in coyntrol as much as you wish, but have a secret submissive side that wants fulfillment. You are sufficiently intense that online role playing is as lucid and sexual as you wish. Let's create scenarios together. No worries about safety. We can live together online. Let's become interior decorators of our own imagination.
Looking for a sub woman (30-50) in the Raleigh, NC area preferably. Something further away may be a go too. I'm a loyal, understanding, and patient person that will give you praise when deserved and discipline when needed.
Between us, you can expect spankings, rope play. All of this is done in a loving and caring dynamic. Want the power exchange to extend outside of our scenes with the possibility of it being TPE.
I’m 50yo, 6’ with an athletic build. A big plus if you are into bald men with facial hair.
I’m a strong and experienced Master seeking a 2nd slave to serve me in TPE and irl. I consider myself a Sadist but not over the top version. you will be expected to serve as a domestic and sexual slave but I do assign other tasks as needed. I will consider training you if we find mutual interest and you are willing and able to relocate. Reply and we chat more and see if you could be a fit.
Hello I am a Training- 24/7 Dominant seeking a submissive who is new to the lifestyle and is looking to learn.My ideal Submissive would be someone who wants a online training -24/7 relationship. As a Dominant, I am flexible with any new submissive . I will mold you into the perfect submissive. All Ages are welcome
Some things I look for in a submissive: I need someone who can be loyal, trusting, willing to learn, (will discuss older
Kinks you may like Spanking,choking, collars, bondage (light and heavy), breast play, public play, degradation, humiliation
Sir hopes to see you soon
I'm looking for someone in Texas, or surrounding states, that's knows they are submissive and are willing to serve. I'm not into games or long emails. I'm intelligent and if you can hold a conversation that would be a plus
As my title suggests, I'm seeking a dynamic, adventurous and excited new online female sub, that needs praise and discipline, then you might very well be the good girl I seek.
If this sounds like what you're wanting, then come and chat.
I'm different, an original. Versatile, caring and loving to name a few. In search of a feminine touch and a long-term relationship. Are you looking for someone to truly trust completely? A man who needs and will apppreciate you and what you offer him. If you are seriously looking and willing to commit to a real conversation, I await your reply...
Hi there. I'm new to the scene, but old to being a dominant person. That is to say: I've never had a relationship labeled as d/s, but they've always ended up that way. And in groups, I tend to end up in charge. I've never aimed for that to happen.
Nevertheless, it always damned does. Personally, I wish to be surrounded by equals, whom are as beneficial to me as I am to them. That I could just blend in. But that doesn't seem to happen. Instead, people need their hands held, everything slowly explained, etc. Which I don't mind.
What I do mind, is that most people, become very uncomfortable when they start to realize that I'm smarter than they are. Most people, when very uncomfortable, act like animals.
Keep in mind, I always aim to benefit those around me, trying to improve their lives and mental health. Infact, I've literally volunteered over 2500 hours, helping families, animals, and the elderly. Improving the world. Those whom I love, I protect and lead.
But people whom don't know me, whom haven't watched me constantly improve their lives for years? All they see is someone they don't understand, doing things they don't understand, and gaining social influence. Most people equate confusion with helplessness, and that with pain. Thus, my being the source of their confusion, they equate me with pain.
Then I get to deal with these idiots behaving as idiots do: fucking up everything. But, they specifically aim their rampaging incompetence at me. This has been a constant theme throughout my adulthood. The secret curse of intelligence that none of us mention, because hearing it would upset those blessed idiots even more.
So, here I am, looking for a submissive partner. I hope a person - desiring to be submissive - can appreciate rather than merely fear my intellect. I hope they can – comfortably – see me as someone to learn from, rather than someone to be jealous of. Someone to envy and emulate rather than hate. I hope that, over time, I can turn them into my equal.
That gargantuan problem aside, keep in mind that I'm not a fucking god. I might understand more about people, the world, and life in general, than most people ever do. I might have so much self-understanding and control that zen masters would give me a respectful nod. I might stare down large, hard men with mere annoyance. But I'm only human.
I'm poor, I cannot be your sugardaddy – nor would I choose to be, had I the money. I'm a little fat and definitely outta shape. Don't have a big dick. I was depressed, pretty much the last 3 years – and still am a bit. I smoked cigarettes for 17 years. What else? Pffft. Nothing I'd label as serious, but you can grill me if you choose. My blog [link in profile] has nearly my entire life in it. I'll tell you the rest when I trust you.
Again, mental capacity aside, I'm actually very normal. Infact, aside from thinking awesome shit, I spend my freetime just dicking around. And I like it that way. I play video games, read, watch shows, listen to music, jerk off, cook, build shit, meditate. I don't plan to get involved with the world, except when I need to be.
If you and I got together, our time would be spent living a slow, private, comfortable life. Kinda boring, to people who think society has value. Me, I prefer keeping my mind in more productive places. And I'd love it if someone joined me.
As to the d/s side to our relationship, honestly I just want someone who appreciates having a partner who's stronger than them. I won't to be doing everything alone, you'll need to always be helping, but I've got no problem taking the lead. And I'd be happy to school you in the ways of being a badass – wouldn't be a good partner if I didn't work the bitch out of you.
If you want said schooling to include the d/s punishment and reward system, it wouldn't be remotely difficult. Sexually, if you want me to push you around, I'd also be more than capable of that. If you don't want that, I'm fine with that too. Oh, and I'm more than happy sharing control of our life together, but you need to earn the right to contribute through god damned good reasoning and planning. I do not allow stupid shit just to spare someone's feelings.
That's all I wanna think about this for now. I'm sure I'll edit this plenty in the future, if that's a possibility. Feel free to talk to me. Oh, right, and check my blog, which is linked in my profile. It's fucking massive, has video of me, etc.
I am not your average Dom and you’ll come to find that in time, but I am in search of something fairly traditional in a d/s relationship. However, I am very open to many types of dynamics as my interests and desires vary greatly. As the title suggests, I am looking for a loyal sub. One with an open mind and is enthusiastic in her submission. I also need someone mentally mature, I may be open to age play but never ending childish behavior gets tedious sooner rather than later. As for specifics on the dynamic I am searching for, you’ll have to ask me personally. I am likely to ask you to share yours first but I will answer any and all questions to the best of my ability while trying to keep a little mystery to keep you on your toes. Shoot me a message if you’re interested, even if you have something specific in mind. I am known for being delightfully surprising to those with an open mind so give me a chance and you won’t regret it.
What I am seeking:
My goal is to have a RL relationship. I am seeking a submissive, or a woman that feels she is submissive (naturally submissive and primal.) A submissive that has a fit and slim to average body as you will work out very hard for me. And a submissive that wants her Master to always push her boundaries/limits and be challenged. A submissive that always feels good in her own bare skin, not too shy to show her complete nakedness before her MASTER. A submissive that appreciates the tenderness of cuddling, (sub space), deep long and short passionate kissing all over, and the resulting after care that I will give to her. She must have an intelligent mind. Our RL relationship will be built on trust, loyalty, respect, integrity. WE will define together what that relationship entails. If this, is you, talk to me as I am very easy to talk to and to get to know Honesty and Openness are the foundation
Genuinely seeking, a submissive for REAL Life partnership.
That ultra rare connection is a must.
Looking for my submissive and my partner all rolled into one, so basically my happy ever after..
Trust, Honesty & Communication are at the top of the list. Monogamous
No Barbie dolls needed.
I'm looking for a submissive who also has her own identity and thoughts .
A partnership to develop and grow together.
Big guy No six pack in sight and I really can't stand gym people. . Not into the fake tan , fake teeth, fake anything. Flaws make and shape who we are .
Sharply spoken and straight talking.
Very honest no filter.
Call me crazy but I am a deeply religious man (Christian(L.D.S)) and I'm looking for a submissive woman to be my slave wife. I have no intention of having sexual relations before marriage. Until that time a D/S relationship with me will be non sexual in nature. I am determined to find my place in both the Christian and kink worlds. I belong in both. Anyone who feels they could be a good candidate, reach out to me and we'll discuss it. This post is not a joke, don't make it out to be one.
I'm Leo - i am looking for a mature female sub to explore her needs and desires - i am based in KL - travel can be arranged for the right person. Lets find a connection and have some fun. BDSM/ DDLG / Little welcome. Discreet and privacy assured.
Hey! I'm searching for a sub/little. I am an affectionate daddy dom whose kinks include anal, orgasm control, bondage, punishment and praise, spanking, squirting, and ddlg. I'm also open to exploring other kinks! I'm looking for something that will be consistent and has the potential to move to a more serious relationship.
My vanilla interests include reading, writing, exploring museums, hiking, snowboarding, playing games, and climbing. I am a homebody tho haha.
I'm a 47 year old male living in Los Angeles Area. I am respectful, patient, understanding, caring, fair, and firm.
I am looking for a sweet, passionate, obedient and dedicated female sub/slave.
You must be thin/petite body type or actively working towards that goal. You need to have a willingness to obey, seve and please at all times, within limits of course.
Experience level does not matter as long as you listen and love to please your Master. Pics and videos will be required once trust is established.
Send a DM if you think you are the one.
First off I would like to thank you for actually taking the time to read this. I'm just going to put this all out there and if I sound like the type of guy you'd be interested then send me a message. I'm open and honest and I feel like my advertisement should be too. A little about me: I am 22 years old, slim build,with a deep voice living Richmond, Virginia. I have experience both in person and online and have had submissives from a variety of different places and backgrounds. I don’t want the person reading this to worry about being “my type” just be yourself. I consider myself a big nerd. I enjoy working on computers, building model kits, gaming, reading manga and watching anime. Other hobbies include volunteer work, making erotic audios (check my blog), and I used to do a lot of photography competitions although that has slowed down. A submissive who can show interests in my hobbies is a must, it’s a part of non-sexual intimacy and growing close with your partner.
My kinks include but are not limited to: Spanking, choking, collars, bondage (light and heavy), breast play, public play, degradation, humiliation, gags, breeding, and roleplay. I’ve had some experience since first joining Cage so I’ve experimented with long distance vibrators, more sadistic things, pet play, and lots more.
What I look for in a submissive: A submissive to me has to be loyal, trusting, curious, willing to learn, respectful, caring, patient, and someone who wants to be more than just a sexual toy. I want a best friend as well as a submissive. As for ages, body types, etc, I really don’t care as long as you’re 18+. If we get along and vibe well we can go from there. One more thing, I’ve gotten to the point where I’m really looking for submissives who live a reasonable distance from me. So if you see the location on my profile and think “there’s no way in hell I’m ever going there” it’s probably not going to work. I’m open to mentoring and being friends, but for serious submissives I’d prefer someone I can see in person every now and then.
As for my limits, it’s pretty simple: Blood, scat, objects around my throat, anything too forced or degrading, nothing that seriously endangers your mental or physical wellbeing. As always, safewords and open communication please.
Thank you for reading!
Very fit older DOM looking-West NC, North Ga, NW SC
Hello Ladies. I am hoping to find a sub in Western North Carolina or North Georgia or North West South Carolina. I am experienced in many ways and can offer a sub a wonderful relationship. Please take a glance at my profile.
Dominant Master looking for sub/slave- serious only
Hello there, i am a dominant man who has been this way since really early 12-13. I have always been placed in leadership positions, and in positions of responsibility. Thus, i honed my instincts doing these things over time. I did not give in to my real nature however until age 22. From that point forward i have embraced who i am, rather than holding it back. It's how i am naturally. Alpha, dominant, caring, provider, assertive, dependable, and i love to laugh as well.
People have called me "stern", and called me "aggressive", also they have called me caring, and understanding. They say the most difficult experiences either make or break you. I've chosen to have them make me. Going through many types of challenges in life has built me up to a very high vibration. I am successful in the business world, and i will continue to grow. Whomever i choose, should want to be taken care of, but also to take care. Value being added to both of our lives.
A leader, an owner, a man that won't abandon at the sign of a challenge. These are things that embody who i am.
Salut! I will attempt to keep this advert succinct, if only because actually conversing directly is (I think) a much better method of determining a match. I'm a single black male who has been in and out of various aspects of BDSM over the last 5~ or so years. Typically my interest in BDSM (outside the obvious of sexual fun) has been utilizing it for self-reflection and discovery for myself, though if my sub is interested in the same I do what I can to help them engage as well.
I am seeking a submissive female partner who is interested in power exchange - not necessarily total 24/7 exchange as that requires both a lot of time an energy on both our parts, and a deeper personal connection where the trust can engender, but I am open to full-time TPE if I meet the right woman.
First thing's first, though, I'd like to meet someone that I can be friends with on a personal level and not just friendly - so if I seem interesting, drop a line!
People often ask me when they find out I'm a Dom "Wait, aren't you a feminist? How can you follow that lifestyle if you believe in women's rights?" One can completely be both. A feminist to me is a person who knows women have the power to choose whatever they want to be. That the most empowering thing a woman can ever do is to choose the man she wants to submit to for the rest of her life. That she chooses not to be any random slut but MY slut, MY cocksleeve, MY cum dump princess. Being a Dom is a gift entitled to me by the strongest woman I know, you. You look to me as your mentor, trainer, your pillar of strength. You want me to help make decisions because I am more worldly and experienced. I love providing that. I want to teach you and help you through everything in life, not just questions about our lifestyle, I mean everything.
I would prefer someone close to NYC but anywhere is fine as long as you actually want to meet and are serious. I look forward to hearing from you princess
Patient Loving and Compassionate Master Desires submissive
My name is Master David Paul.
The fact that you are NOW reading this shows that you are desiring, seeking, searching and thirsting for a Master to fulfill, complete and satisfy your soul.
Wise King Solomon once wrote that, “…the love of a good woman is worth all the RICHES of the WORLD!” I AGREE with his words. However, a very “submissive” woman is even more HIGHLY VALUED, ADORED and TREASURED!!
A TRUE submissive is like a beautiful, seductive damsel that her Master loves and cherishes when He gazes into her soulful eyes! her submission, when trained and nurtured correctly, is truly a blessed, honored, celebrated and cherished GIFT!
I am a very FIRM and DEMANDING Master. At the same time, I am very honest, warm, loving, loyal, sensual, affectionate, protective, understanding, caring, romantic and passionate.
William Shakespeare once wrote, “to thine own self be true”.
I am desirous of finding a special and unique woman who truly desires to be “true to her inner feelings” of submission and longings to find her true existence, purpose, pleasure and fulfillment in life. To explore her true, inner and submissive needs and desires.
Perhaps you feel somehow “incomplete” or “hollow” and, although maybe not knowing much about B/D and D/s, you SECRETLY DESIRE to find a loving yet firm Master to help you explore your secret, inner role of submission.
A woman who truly longs to start out very SLOWLY, CAREFULLY and CAUTIOUSLY with a Master maybe for the FIRST time in her life. An inquisitive, sweet woman who craves love, attention and longs to be released into her inner roles of her being “naturally submissive”.
To provide you with the discipline, training and sexual passion you need in your growth while showing you value, respect and the true worth for the “beautiful” woman you are-both inside and outside.
To emerge within you the very BEST submissive you can become, while at the same time, bringing you to NEW HEIGHTS of LOVE, PLEASURE and ECSTASY!
However; as a Master, I will REWARD you when you have done WELL and PUNISH you when you have NOT!
A TRUE MASTER realizes the uniqueness of a submissive’s devotion and that her submission is a “gift” that she willingly bestows to her Master whom she deems worthy of her “treasured gift”.
I have always been Dominant in My life, without being arrogant, conceited or self-absorbed. I also have the utmost love and respect for women. I am seeking just ONE devoted, loyal and faithful submissive. Perhaps, such a mutual connection would even lead to a long-term commitment.
I have a very Professional demeanor and Presidential side, wearing a tie and jacket, and yet as comfortable in My black leather pants and paratrooper boots as in My jeans and O.S.U. sweat shirt.
I don’t smoke, just socially drink (never get drunk), don’t do drugs and have NEVER been in trouble with the law.
A Master must ALWAYS be in control of Himself….to be worthy of the “gift” of a woman’s submission.
I want YOU to know that I KNOW you have “limits”…you have “questions”…you have “fears”…you want to be “safe”.
I truly understand, appreciate and respect your feelings and emotions. I take them very seriously!!
(PLEASE DO NOT WORRY if you are NEW or FEEL INEXPERIENCED in this lifestyle. I completely understand, appreciate and respect that and will lovingly and gently train you accordingly. Also, PLEASE DO NOT WORRY if you have EXTRA WEIGHT or pounds. I personally think a Rubinesque, or Renoir figured woman, with thicker hips, thighs and butt is very, very attractive.)
I completely understand and realize that it may be difficult to take the FIRST STEP and to reach out to a Master. That is completely normal. But, I hope that you will find it within your soul to reach out to Me.
Thank you, again, for reading My profile. I hope your day is very beautiful and blessed~
Country life for spoiled slave - TPE- A slave serves, a Master cares for her ...simple and Wonderful for Both!
Bluntly, I seek a woman who knows she needs/wants to serve, in all ways - no just the kinky sex. I live in the city and countryside, retired, not financially impaired thus you will be well cared for as a 24/7 slave. If you like travel; quaint, out of the way places, nature, like a man with traditional romantic side and you like to feel truly valued, yet have that undercurrent of always feeling owned....yes - then we should talk. Each path has a first step, here is your chance to began a journey that may have you finding what you seek :) Thank you (MN/WI)
29[M4F] Seeking vulnerability, commitment and service
I'm looking for someone ready to trust and in a place where surrender will be intoxicating, positive and empowering. I value individuality, intelligence and a strong moral system. I am seeking someone who is open to true commitment and devotion and is ready to put the hard work in needed to make a successful and substantial relationship. I need you willing to be seen completely bare, not just physically but emotionally, even spiritually. I need you ready to improve yourself, in every area of your life, this is not a dynamic for someone seeking to be stagnant. Education, a good meaningful job, work dedicated to giving others a hands up are all a plus, but most importantly is for you to come into this as you are, with trust, faith, openness and a gentle but eager positivity. You want to love someone you deeply respect and look up to. I want us to have the dependable comfort and purpose that having you kneeling below me, and having me stand above you, will bring both of us.
If you find yourself craving rope bondage, but need it now, contact me. If you find yourself not understanding your own cravings, but they drive you crazy, maybe I can help. By learning the exact need we can satisfy that craving. Contact me.
For general talk, I enjoy listening to all the gory details. Contact me
You want to learn, explore, be spoiled and cherished as daddy's little princess...
I'm seeking an inexperienced girl who is interested in the lifestyle of being devoted to her Dom, who is between 18-25 yrs old and very submissive by nature.
I am a 33 yr old, very fit and successful marketing executive who lives in Dallas, Texas and travels often. I am seeking something real, physical and mentally stimulating, long-term with the right girl who is open-minded to being molded into the perfect princess for her Daddy.
Mature, experienced, healthy Dom in beautiful coastal RI looking for a highly submissive women to explore. I enjoy Dd/lg, Master/slave, and thrive on taboo, mental and physical domination, and both the sensual and extreme side of the lifestyle. Please view my profile to get a more in depth read and let’s explore the possibilities.. Jack
I’m looking for a woman who desires rules and regulations to keep herself in line and to become a better person. Spankings are needed and desired. I love ass play and can also give pleasurable erotic spankings as well. You are naturally submissive and love to serve your man orally and love giving up that well reddened bottom to anal. We would be LTR and vanilla to others. I’m intelligent sane clean passionate loyal respectful and health conscious. If interested let’s start our journey
I am looking for someone in the Bay Area (or who frequently travels here) for a long term BDSM based relationship. The woman I am looking for should be honest, loyal, eager and enthusiastic, fun with a great sense of humor, and serious about exploring a connection in real life. As there are a lot of time wasters on these sites, once we have talked a few times, she should be ready to voice verify (i.e. talk on the phone/VOIP). I am open to answering any questions you may have, so feel free to ask me anything you'd like to. Once we have established we have chemistry together, we can go from there. Age is not a big deal to me, but I would prefer someone my age or younger. If you are significantly younger, that's okay, but please be open minded and mature. I'll look forward to hearing from you.
Seeking a Truly Submissive Girl that desires a Master/Lover
I'm searching for a submissive that will deeply prioritize their devotion to me over their base whims and desires. I enjoy control over all else, and will have the final say in all matters I deem important. I'd prefer a long term relationship, for her to be patient, trustworthy, respectful, thoughtful, humble, and maintain unwavering loyalty to me. Another preference I have, is for her to be an introverted homebody type. As far as her looks go, a decent idea of what I like is a dark alternative style (like emo/goth) with pale or light tan skin, straight hair, and a lean body (mainly no sag). My stats are approximately: 5'6" height, 180lb muscular build, 8" cock, 27 years old, and mostly Hispanic.
To see more about me, what I'm looking for, as well as what I require in an initial response, examine the entirety of my profile.
I'm 35, experienced, in northwest Missouri, looking for a woman preferably 18-28 who is looking for total power exchange. I'm looking for someone into both domestic and sexual servitude, bondage, being ordered, etc. Planning on setting up a dungeon for the right person. Location doesn't matter as long as you're willing to relocate if we both decide to move forward.
I have been in the lifestyle for several years and have a wide range of experience. I am seeking a female sub or subs if she is bi (I can clarify if desired). You will find me a patient teacher as I have trained new coworkers and college students from my diverse professional background. I am fair but firm, gentle and rough as needed, and kind but harsh when needed with aftercare. Foreplay comes in many forms depending on dynamic and I am flexible, open, and will adjust accordingly. Aftercare is the same and I will also adjust my style to my sub’s needs.
Mutual trust, open/honest communication, respect, and love are desired.
I enjoy, but depending on my sub, rope play, role play, fantasy play/fulfillment, toys, food items, games, sub sexy dress up, device bondage, domestic and non domestic tasks, sensual massages, caressing, and much more. I am open to cyber D/S relationship(s), but prefer IRL and LTR as this develops a much deeper and more meaningful D/S relationship.
New York Master and Sadist seeks submissive or slave masochist
Me just your average guy next door type with a great occupation, circle of friends and happy in my life. Anything I want I work for as nothing is ever handed to us.............very tall standing 64 with a strong build at 260lbs, brown hair and eyes sometimes sporting a goa-tee with a wide variety of interests in and out of the lifestyle content and looking for someone to share that dynamic with both in and out of a bd ds sm content.
If you are just looking for a bd ds sm dynamic that is fine too...lets discuss it and see where we land. Sorry no photo simply due to occupational reasons. I have one of those jobs where all social media is checked, finances, credit status etc Although into the bd ds sm content, I am very extreme. I define myself as a Master and Sadist. I am not a daddy or a dominant please know the difference. I have been active in the bd ds sm lifestyle for over 2 decades and have become very experienced and enjoy pushing the mind and body. I am a very physical and intense individual looking for an equally intense submissive / slave who wants to have her mind and body pushed.
You will go far beyond simple bondage and spanking, I will push your limits but never cross the line of pre-defined limits. As for limits I share the normal limits of most sane and respectful but enjoy bondage, tight bondage, suspension, gags, sensory deprivation, orgasm control, fisting, breath play, lead and leash, fire play, electric play, needle play, use of tens unit, cage play, impact play, whips, canes, crops, paddles, hair pulling and the list is really endless outside of the hard limits which will be discussed and established.... how are are you willing to go??? When I am using the flogger or cane and you feel you are about to collapse are you the kind to tap our or beg me to continue and not stop till I am satisfied and happy....when you are put into a group - gang bang and feel your body is going to explode from being used by countless friends and dont have another breath in you are you going to tap out or tell me you want more.....when you are denied orgasm after orgasm are you going to tap out because your body can not take the tease anymore or beg me to use you to complete exhaustion....I can go on and on but you get the idea You need to submit physically and Mentally - Yes you, that is why you are reading this. You want to feel helpless... dominated... NOT in control. you want to give yourself fully, without thought of saying no.
You are a very sexy, confident, open minded and willing and meet my criteria and if you do not please dont contact me (when being trained / scening will be in thigh highs or garters, shaved smooth and 5 to 6in closed toe stilettos, NOT NEGOTIABLE) but feel constrained by your routine, your family life and fear of judgment.
You are frustrated by your inability to realize your innermost sexual fantasies. Of course you want to be spanked, restrained and many other things, and want to be ordered around, told how to please and be controlled, you know in your heart you are - And you are getting aroused just thinking about this now.
I look forward to speaking to those who are true and sincere in exploring the mental and physical aspects of this dynamic. both in and out of a bd ds sm setting Please read my posting careful. 1 - i am not for the faint of heart 2- read and understand what I am into and want, I will expect you to be into the same, if you are not or not willing to explore all I have listed we will not be a good match
Thank you for reading and look forward to hearing from you. Also make note I split my time between Long island Ny and Upstate Ny so you should be willing to travel or open to relocation
I am a LIFELONG lifestyle Dominant dude seeking a FEMALE play partner. I enjoy female submission, girls in corsets, latex, leather, D/s. B&d, Objectification, tit and pussy torments, Chastity belts, Posture collars, dungeon play, outdoor bondage, degrading, electical play, device bondage, face fucking, pussy training, control, Denial, forced climaxes, just to hit on a few topics.
Over the years I have had the pleasure of teaching several women what a mind fuck is all about - along with pain and pleasure.
In my vanilla world I enjoy female company, fine wine, great food, cooking, gardening and taking care of a home. I am an avid woodworker who likes building dungeon toys for affluent girls and boys. I have built entire Dungeon for people before, including spanking benches, racks, X crosses, Saint Andrews Crosses, kneelers, stocks, entire post beds, cages, and oh so much more.
If you are a natural born Female of legal age and want to learn more about me - once I know that YOU are as real as I, hit me up if your down for it....
Hello there. My name is Meech. I’m 24, a Black Dom. I’m here for one reason. To find me an online submissive. Not just any submissive. But I’m looking for a submissive to call my own. Doesn’t matter if she’s White, Black, Asian, Latina etc. I would like to have a submissive that I know will be legit. I’m tired of dealing with all the fakes I’ve encountered on this app. I don’t ask for much when it comes to a submissive. I only have 3 main things. 1. Obedience 2. Loyalty 3. Communication. As long as my sub has those 3 things and gives effort I’m the happiest person in the world. As far as personal preference is concerned I would like for a sub to have a medium- Large Booty. Again it’s just a preference but I have a certain thing I like that works best with those size types. If you’re INTERESTED you can always hit my inbox. Again ONLY IF YOUR INTERESTED. I don’t like having my time wasted we are too grown to be playing those types of games.
Do you want to serve? Are you looking for validation? Do you need to be told you have been a good girl?
It feels better when you do things for someone else rather than yourself isn’t it? You have a submissive side that pushes you to serve and that’s exactly what I want. I want to take control of you, show you the path to follow and make you realize how much you need to serve. At the end I want you to follow me, not because there is a rule that tells you so but because you actually feel safe, excited and overall better when you are under my control.
I want someone I can guide and take control of. This is not just sexual, I want a sub I can make mine in every aspect of life. I want a sub that gives me her submission, I want to see how she enjoys pleasing me and follows the path I decided for her. I want to give a purpose to my sub, and I want to praise her when she meets my expectations.
Of course I'm interested in sexual aspects. I like orgasm control, humiliation, spank, impact play, and more things we can discuss. I want to make my sub completely attached to me, see how she gets pleased when I'm using her.
I’m a bit sadistic. I enjoy torturing my sub and seeing her suffer to some extent, but usually I like to do it with a gentle and kind approach. More than physical pain, what I like are mind games. I like making my sub feel helpless and desperate, not necessarily by physically forcing her but getting into her mind and being always a step forward of her.
Don't you feel better when you have a Dom telling you what to do? Isn't it much better than playing alone? What I want is to get into your mind, make you mine and from there I can have anything I want from you.
I can keep you busy, give you tasks and rules but at the end I want to be pleased by you. Your submission will be well received, but I want to actually enjoy using you. I want to be entertained, I want to desire you as much as you want me to use you. You want this too isn't it? You want to satisfy me with your body, you want to feel useful and valued.
I’m looking for a Dom/sub or a Master/slave relationship, even could be interested in some aspects of DDlg. Put the label you want. In any case I want to discuss about it, and see if we can actually build something. This is not a race and I don't want to rush things. I want a relationship, not a one time thing.
Tell me why you are interested. Give me a description of yourself, why you want this and what you can offer. Don't be afraid if you don't have experience or are unsure about what you want, we will go step by step. If you have doubts share them with me. We can explore and see what you have to offer. At the end, I want to build a relationship, not a one time thing.
I’m an experienced Dom and BDSM mentor looking for a submissive to live with me in Honolulu, Hawaii, and eventually travel with me internationally.
I am a natural Dominant, Primal, Leader, Mentor, Guide and Healer, in part because I am a Scorpio, Empath and ENFJ-A.
I’m looking for an in-person long-term relationship, not an online relationship. Ideally, it would develop into a forever dynamic.
If you are open to discussing visiting and eventually relocating to me (after we have gotten to know each other and built trust) then message me and feel free to include which dynamics you have been in and which ones are you open to, examples:
For more info about me check out my profile and blog.
So you've decided to read this so that's a positive for me straight away ! Next would be me explaining trying to be subtle while wearing big boots !! You're here because you feel/ think/ desire and love being a submissive woman to a male dominant. Fair enough your ticked boxes tick my boxes too so introduce yourself we never know what may happen
Black 62 yr old Alpha Male Seeking an Old Fashioned Submissive
I live here in Florida and my journey has not uncovered a diamond yet. My profile is complete enough to have a general idea what I am hoping to find. I know this site is full of men but, I am only one man seeking to find just one woman. I want you to read my profile and hopefully you find it interesting enough to send me a message. TTYL?
Hello. I'm a Master type Dom who is looking to form a connection with slave type submissives to hopefully forge a strong connection. I have some experience in the BDSM scene, and have been a Master to multiple slaves pre-covid. Unfortunately the circumstances around the pandemic put a pause on many of the possible activities for the past several years, but I'm now ready to begin searching once again.
In term of BDSM, I'm a high protocol Master type Dom. I enjoy giving rules, protocols, 24/7 TPE, clothing and meal selection, and position training. I don't believe in rushing into anything, but over time, I hope to build a connection such that I am entrusted with My slave's life completely and utterly, a responsibility that I absolutely do not take lightly.
Just so there is no confusion, I am looking to train/own multiple slaves, so if non-monogamy is a hard limit, please do not reach out.
Looking for a lifetime girl and entrepid travel partner!
I am a simple man who has lived a not ordinary life. I wouldn't really claim that my path has been extraordinary, just filled with experiences and glimpses of the world not seen by many. I am alpha, but in a protective and thoughtful way, not the type A jackass way. I am slow to anger, quiet and thoughtful, but resolute and consistent in my discipline and intent. You will always know where you stand with me and what is required of you, except when you are blindfolded...
I am tall, trim and, surprisingly, still have a full head of hair. Yea!!! You should see my cousins. I have a bit of fun teasing at the family reunions.
I love to travel, but am not much for the cruise/resort lifestyle. I'm more for spinning the globe, picking a spot at random then go hang out with the locals. Ok, a bit more thoughtful than that, but you get the idea.
I've lived this life before for long periods of time-decades. After the last relationship ended I dated back in the vanilla world, but found myself wanting. The relationships took more than they returned. I am successful and secure. For the last 10 years I've been single. I've lived my plan, raised my children well and find myself exactly where I want to be-debt free with an open horizon. Everything is in place except that elusive she.
It is very important that you read my ad completely.
I am a good looking athletic white Dominant male, 59 years young , 6' 190, work out and in great shape. I have been a Dom for over 10 years and I am very experienced. Although strict, I am also very patient, kind, understanding, loving, compassionate and have integrity. I believe a Dom/sub relationship is a union, one where we are both 100% honest, sincere and communicate without boundaries in order to discover and find a mutual ground where both parties are content.
I have always considered myself to be a Gentlemen Dom, gentle, kind, nurturing as well as compassionate and loyal. I always treat my submissive with respect, take my time to care for and listen to my submissive and always take the time to explain everything step by step so that there are no surprises, yet I am also strict when I have to be.
i am searching for a submissive/little or slave that is in shape, preferably fit or at least height & weight proportioned that is willing, eager and devoted to be guided, trained and mentored by me so she may serve my needs. Age, race is not a problem at all. As I stated previously, I am a Gentlemen Dom and my responsibility would be to take care of your needs also at all times. I believe in a true Dom/sub relationship should be founded on 100% honesty, communication, no lies ever.
This is not a game to me, this is my lifestyle and I do take it seriously and respect it. If you have made it this far, you have already managed to please me. For those interested, I am looking for a submissive/little/slave that preferably lives in the Houston, Texas area, however I will consider those who live further away. Also if you choose to contact me please include 2 clear face/body pictures and tell me in detail about yourself and your experience, if any.
I'm a long time dominant man, and at this point in my life, I know exactly what I want, and I will settle for no less. Back in the day, I lived in a ménage a trois with two submissive girls. Unfortunately, our little household broke up for reasons that are still obscure. But it was beautiful, all of us loving each other. The intensity is greater, the D/s is more intense, the love covers all. I am looking for a long term commitment.
As a Dominant, I am not extreme, but certain things are non-negotiable, though all can be discussed. My submissive is sweet and loving, but also must be respected.
The first quality we require for our third is honesty. Only with complete honesty can such a relationship thrive.
Second, on the fun side, you must like lots and lots of kisses from both of us!
Finally, our third must expect to be regularly spanked, just as my girl is now. You will always know you belong to me.
Limits: this will be a monogamous triad. I will never share you with another man.
Perfection isn't found, its made. I am looking for a sub who will let me break her down and rebuild her into my perfect match. Low self esteem, not a problem. Not happy with your life or how things are now, we will work on that. I am not looking for what you are now but rather what you could be. Ill break what you are now and build you into what I desire and you will find comfort in that position. It wont be easy, there are steps where you will feel humiliated and sad, but do as I say and you will become very desired.
Hello subs and slaves. I have been in Las Vegas for about six months now. I thought I had a situation with a sub all worked out. The situation keeps getting delayed due to divorce court matters on her end. I am back in the hunt. I want to make a few things clear. I am a sadist. I like impact play and needles. Needles can be avoided in the short term, but if we click and we desire to make it a longer term, then needles will be on my plate of desires. If you just want to be a play partner, I can accept that. Let's chat!
Hello I'm a 34 Year Old Dominant Looking for a Female Submissive Somebody that I can earn there trust & understanding I also have set rules, limits & safewords that we will discuss and agree upon upon getting to know each other we will discuss training such as: Play Training, Preference Training, Insight Training & Skill Training If you are interested feel free to dm me I'm interested in both online or in-person
This Daddy needs a Sub to be with my other sub or little ( mommy or sister ). Full on long term relationship. True Ddlg or D/s permanent relationship. And a slave to serve all of us. Male or female is fine be Bi. I would like one female and male slave. I have use for you . I need you to serve my house. We are looking to relocate. There is much to discuss but if you come with me. I will be the last man you will ever have to serve. I will protect you and provide. But I need you first To reach out to me. I will earn it all from you . Do t worry about it. Talk with me first then we can talk terms.