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Looking for open minded sub
04/23/2019
I'm 30. I am looking for a young submissive lady that is very open-minded little to no limits to have fun with online and possibly rl if it comes to that.
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Looking for the right one
04/23/2019
Looking for just the right slave. If u want to give up total control then I’m looking for you
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Looking For a partner to complete me or my unicorn
04/23/2019
Hello,
My name is Deus, A little about me I am 22 years old and I have been a Dom for a little over 7 years now I have had many partners with varying levels of experience ones that were 19 years older than me at the time and had been a sub for many years to virgin 18 year olds who have no idea and need strict training. I offer a guiding hand and a long term online training if you meet my standards and we click. I am a hard Dom I do not switch at all but I am a sadist and I get quite creative with punishments when my commands aren't followed. I am looking for a younger submissive preferrably 18-21, my preferences are that you be within the ideal body weight for your height and have a either red, blonde, or black hair as well as having a recessive eye color trait I.E. Blue or Green. I'm am looking for someone who can submit to me totally with all of her being and life (obviously not right off the bat but that is the level of dedication I seek). If you are interested in this position I ask of you only for respect enough not to ghost on me, If we don't click or your not interested simply tell me so and we will go our opposite ways. Regards, Deus.
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LOOKING FOR LAS VEGAS SUB, SLAVE OR KAJIRA
04/23/2019
Dom looking for sub, slave or Kajira in Las Vegas or Henderson, would prefer someone local but will consider online or training for the right person. Dom of 12 yrs, 36yrs old, pic in my profile
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Looking for female sub, slave
04/23/2019
Hello ! I'm Dom Risky ! I'm 27. I'm living in Vietnam. I'm looking for female sub, slave who want to be controlled and dominated in every aspect of her life ( in real , not roleplay ). I love torturing, controlling, dominating, humiliating, punishing, spanking, dress up, waxing, pain, pussy playing... It can be BDSM holiday, short term, long term and lifestyle.
I don't mind newbie. I prefer sub, slave who can relocate.
I'm looking forward to hearing from you !
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Teacher, Mentor, Advisor
04/23/2019
Let me get this clear right now. Currently, I am not looking for something permanent or sexual. I am in a loving relationship currently that will hopefully last a long time.
A friend came to me a while ago asking for advice about the lifestyle. My parents were very open with me as I grew up about their lifestyle and why it wasn't wrong. My friend was a new submissive who had no idea where to start. I trained her in the basics, taught her the do's and dont's, got her comfortable with who she was, and then kept her accountable until she found her first true Dom only a few weeks ago. Her dom told me of this site and said there were several subs on here that need that help.
I am here to help. If you have questions, want someone to train you in the basics and hold you accountable, or just wanna chat, contact me.

Note: I am fairly new to the whole online dom thing, but I should learn it fairly quickly. Also, I will not agree to train someone until we have developed some level of trust..
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Young Dom Seeks Submissive Anywhere
04/23/2019
First off I would like to thank you for actually taking the time to read this. I'm just going to put this all out there and if I sound like the type of guy you'd be interested then send me a PM. I'm open and honest and I feel like my advertisement should be too. A little about me: I am 20 years old, slim build,with a deep voice living in the DC area I have experience both in person and online and have had submissives from as far away as Australia and it worked out so really anywhere is fine. I am a massive gamer and nerd so being my submissive means you will need to put up with that. I also do volunteer work, fist aid training, and I make lovely audios you can have a look at on my profile. A submissive who can show interests in my hobbies is a must, it's a side of intimacy I think gets overlooked in the BDSM community.

My kinks include but are not limited to: Spanking, choking, collars, bondage (light and heavy), breast play, public play, degradation, humiliation, gags, breeding, and roleplay. Always wanted to use a remote controlled vibrator long distance on someone so we could talk about that. What I look for in a submissive: I need someone who can be loyal, trusting, willing to learn, ages 18-40 (will discuss older), respectful , caring, someone who can be both my best friend, my lover, and my little fuck toy.

Limits: Ageplay, rape, kidnapping, significant abuse (ask me about it), blood (bruises and scratches are fine), needles. Feel free to ask me about any of these. I am a flexible dominant and so I really like to get to know my submissives so I can be the type of Dominant they need me to be. If you made it this far thank you again, please send me a PM even if you aren't interested and just have a question or want to talk. Have a nice day!
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Young Dom Looking For His Sub
04/23/2019
I am an experienced Dom Looking for a Sub to form either a virtual or Physical relationship with, or a Virtual Leading to Physical.
I am a generous, honest and caring Dom with a kinky nature, who Treats his Subs with the upmost respect, acknowledgement and firm hand they deserve.
You will be treated safely and with compassion. Your reward will be a Dom, who cares for your needs and offers a lifestyle to compliment your strengths and weaknesses, all the while treating you and using you as you desire.
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Smart dom male seeking sub female.
04/23/2019
Hi there. I'm new to the scene, but old to being a dominant person. That is to say: I've never had a relationship labeled as d/s, but they've always ended up that way. And in groups, I tend to end up in charge. I've never aimed for that to happen.

Nevertheless, it always damned does. Personally, I wish to be surrounded by equals, whom are as beneficial to me as I am to them. That I could just blend in. But that doesn't seem to happen. Instead, people need their hands held, everything slowly explained, etc. Which I don't mind.

What I do mind, is that most people, become very uncomfortable when they start to realize that I'm smarter than they are. Most people, when very uncomfortable, act like animals.

Keep in mind, I always aim to benefit those around me, trying to improve their lives and mental health. Infact, I've literally volunteered over 2500 hours, helping families, animals, and the elderly. Improving the world. Those whom I love, I protect and lead.

But people whom don't know me, whom haven't watched me constantly improve their lives for years? All they see is someone they don't understand, doing things they don't understand, and gaining social influence. Most people equate confusion with helplessness, and that with pain. Thus, my being the source of their confusion, they equate me with pain.

Then I get to deal with these idiots behaving as idiots do: fucking up everything. But, they specifically aim their rampaging incompetence at me. This has been a constant theme throughout my adulthood. The secret curse of intelligence that none of us mention, because hearing it would upset those blessed idiots even more.

So, here I am, looking for a submissive partner. I hope a person - desiring to be submissive - can appreciate rather than merely fear my intellect. I hope they can – comfortably – see me as someone to learn from, rather than someone to be jealous of. Someone to envy and emulate rather than hate. I hope that, over time, I can turn them into my equal.



That gargantuan problem aside, keep in mind that I'm not a fucking god. I might understand more about people, the world, and life in general, than most people ever do. I might have so much self-understanding and control that zen masters would give me a respectful nod. I might stare down large, hard men with mere annoyance. But I'm only human.

I'm poor, I cannot be your sugardaddy – nor would I choose to be, had I the money. I'm a little fat and definitely outta shape. Don't have a big dick. I was depressed, pretty much the last 3 years – and still am a bit. I smoked cigarettes for 17 years. What else? Pffft. Nothing I'd label as serious, but you can grill me if you choose. My blog [link in profile] has nearly my entire life in it. I'll tell you the rest when I trust you.

Again, mental capacity aside, I'm actually very normal. Infact, aside from thinking awesome shit, I spend my freetime just dicking around. And I like it that way. I play video games, read, watch shows, listen to music, jerk off, cook, build shit, meditate. I don't plan to get involved with the world, except when I need to be.

If you and I got together, our time would be spent living a slow, private, comfortable life. Kinda boring, to people who think society has value. Me, I prefer keeping my mind in more productive places. And I'd love it if someone joined me.



As to the d/s side to our relationship, honestly I just want someone who appreciates having a partner who's stronger than them. I won't to be doing everything alone, you'll need to always be helping, but I've got no problem taking the lead. And I'd be happy to school you in the ways of being a badass – wouldn't be a good partner if I didn't work the bitch out of you.

If you want said schooling to include the d/s punishment and reward system, it wouldn't be remotely difficult. Sexually, if you want me to push you around, I'd also be more than capable of that. If you don't want that, I'm fine with that too. Oh, and I'm more than happy sharing control of our life together, but you need to earn the right to contribute through god damned good reasoning and planning. I do not allow stupid shit just to spare someone's feelings.


That's all I wanna think about this for now. I'm sure I'll edit this plenty in the future, if that's a possibility. Feel free to talk to me. Oh, right, and check my blog, which is linked in my profile. It's fucking massive, has video of me, etc.
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Slaves Only - No Subs
04/22/2019
Slave, go and read my profile. If interested, drop me a line. I've been waiting for you.

If you don't meet my requirements, please don't contact me. Thank you.
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lookin for my forever sub/slave
04/22/2019
I am a 44 yr old single alpha male.I do live alone and i work a 40 hr plus job.I am very honest and up front. I've been a Dominant for about 12 years now, and it's a huge part of who I am. The D/S dynamic is so alluring, like two parts of a whole. Vanilla just isn't as satisfying for me. . , I want my subs to realize their full potential, find success in all things, and be their best self.I am looking for my forever 24/7 sub/slave..someone who is NM or that can relocate to me in the future..
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Deep connection, sensual fulfilment, my pleasure your satisfaction...
04/22/2019
if you are seeking someone with a big heart and a firm hand, someone who wants to connect with you on more than one level
Where my sadistic tendency’s combined with a deep desire to see you stretch and grow, physically emotionally and sexually
Regular meet-ups and a deep sence of connection is what I have to offer. Are you up for the challenge?
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Poly Dom looking to expand
04/22/2019
Hello! I'm a poly Dom looking to expand my family. I refuse to do bruising of kind, blood, anything illegal and afew others. I'm very understanding and I hold honour as one of my core foundations. I can use hangouts, kik and snapchat. If your chat client isn't listed fell free to tell me I'll be happy to get it. Looking for a lady between 20-47 years old. If interested please contact me and chat with me, questions are always welcomed.
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Older Dom looking for sincere trainee
04/22/2019
I have over 40yrs experience in the BDSM world. Looking for a sincere sub woman any age that is in need of training from a caring yet stern Dom. Expert in tease&denial, rope bondage, hot wax, oral training , constraint, flogging and many other areas. Please no one over 180 lbs. Also expert in Daddy/baby training.
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Island-based dom looking for female submissive
04/22/2019
The very fact that I live on an island places some constraints on what I can look for and meet, but as long as I don't have a partner I am fully open to accommodating for free in a guesthouse I have heterosexual, bisexual and pansexual female submissives, slaves, masochists, rope bottoms and switches willing to try their submissive side and looking to travel to Greece at any time during the year. There are hardly people to meet in Greece so I am primarily looking for people from abroad. If something long-term can evolve out of this the better.
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DOM / DADDY DOM
04/22/2019
Looking for that one person that wants what i offer. A bond. I will not be asking you to fulfil my desires. I want to know yours. I cant possibly be what you want or need if i dont know what that is. To be clear... i know who i am. What i am. And i want you to know that too. Who you are. Or at least who you want to be. Once we decide... together. We fit. I will ask you for control. It's yours to give. And to take back. But while i have it. I require total submission. This is why we will talk long hours. Days if necessary. Until you know...you belong to me.
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Looking
04/22/2019
Right now I’m looking for a online submissive, pet, little or slave. I’m looking for someone who is willing to listen and learn. If you don’t have a premium account, just like my profile and I will contact you.

P.S. If you live in my area we will talk about the possibility of meeting up.
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Looking for..
04/22/2019
Looking for some online fun? nothing serious? like being told what to do? like being punished or trained? then i can help!
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Seeking an attractive, educated, submissive female
04/22/2019
To the external world, we're just like any other couple. Others see us as being happy, in tune with each other, in sync, and content. They see us laugh, joke, and be playful with one another. We seem to be the perfect couple who respect each other and have a lot in common. I treat you like a lady and you glow in the knowledge that you are truly adored and respected.

You know that I am there to protect you and that I always have your best interests at heart. You're confident that I would never embarrass you or demean you in front of others. We bring out the best in each other in our secret roles as the Dominant and the Submissive. I am a kind educated man, a professional, I'm tall, attractive, and by outward appearances, easy going and unassuming. You are an attractive woman, reasonably fit, intelligent and open-minded, ready to learn and be guided, and with a strong desire to please. We truly compliment each other.

In our own private world, behind closed doors, we lead a slightly different life than we do in public or among friends and relatives. Though I am kind behind closed doors, I have a high expectation of you to submit to me on command. I would rarely expect to have to command you to serve me and to submit, because after all, your very nature is to be submissive and attentive to your Dom. Naturally, though, if things seem to be sliding off track in any way, I will need to take action to put you back on course ... just a little reminder about your role in our relationship. My corrective action would never be to inflict a lot of pain, leave marks, or to be cruel in any way. It would simply be intended to set things back on the course of fulfilling the roles that each of us desires. When I need to take a firm hand, I will and you will relish in the fact that I care enough about you to correct you.

I am a professional businessman who has 3 grown daughters and two beautiful grandchildren. I have been divorced for over a year, but I still have an interest in being discreet due to my job and my coworkers. I have a large home in the country and if everything seems to be a match between us, I might consider this being a possible live-in scenario. Alternately, I would be comfortable keeping our residents separate and spending time together when time allows. I enjoy the company of a warm and a submissive woman, but I also enjoy my time alone. I'm 60 years old and I have always preferred the energy and spark of a younger woman. My ex was 13 years younger than me and we were married for more than 20 years. I have the maturity to give you what you need.

If what I am saying interests you, please respond to my post and tell me a little about yourself.
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needing a sub to obey and please
04/22/2019
as the title says the only thing i want from my sub really is obedience am willing to train her if need be looking to have something longterm preferably local but online is a willing if you are in the us
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