Dominant Men Seeking Submissive Women

I’m looking for an IRL submissive partner who could spending an entire day as my dirty little slut and the next day as my equal. I want to build S/m dynamic on top of a genuine connection, romantic or just friendly. I’m based in north New Jersey, not looking for a live in dynamic but want someone I can meet up with. I am open to online to start though, especially with the state of the world right now. I enjoy hikes, playing video games, recently have gotten into yoga and I love deep conversations, especially about sociology and psychology. Preferably, you are a masochist, but everything else is up for discussion. HMU and let’s see where things go!

Let's keep it short.

Experienced Daddy Dom , caring and strict looking to make someone mine ! Serious relationship.
You will be center of my world and expect the same.

Fyi, I am brown

I'm a 49 year old male dom looking for a female sub. My requirements are fairly specific. The right sub will submit to an ongoing D/S arrangement when we are building a scene. I have (comfortable) sub-quarters at my place (south east of London) where rules will apply. However outside that environment I am consciously egalitarian. I'm also unashamedly sapiosexual. I love super-smart women.
My style of domming has taken a while to evolve. I'm not interested in being a swaggering domly mcdomlypants. I prefer subtlety. I also get a slightly evil kick from depriving my sub of agency (negotiated of course) and then subjecting them to being used and taken beyond the point of reason. I get off on leaving someone utterly helpless and overwhelmed by sensual pleasure. I'll use pain, degradation, mechanical stimulation, complete deprivation of control, or whatever it takes to get them there.
Aside from super smart sluttiness I also appreciate physical fitness. I work out (not to excess) and expect similar from the right sub. The sub will have to stay fit despite my feeding her. It is OK to spoil one's sub occasionally isn't it?

Do you find yourself often fantasizing what it would be like to completely submit and surrender? Or, is sexual submissiveness a trait you have explored before? Do you ever wonder what it would be like to call a man Sir or Master? To mean it? Does the idea of being tied up and used for a mans pleasure appeal to you? Do you crave the feelings that this type of surrender creates?

If you are experienced with this type of relationship or, even if you simply have a need to explore this side of yourself, then I am looking for you. I am seeking a female of any size or race, married, separated or single; as long as you enjoy being a submissive, and we have a connection, we can go far. To start with I am looking to chat online with a view to meeting should things develop. I am ideally seeking something with the potential for a long term relationship, however I am also open to something with less strings attached....

I look forward to hearing from you.

Irish master seeks naturally submissive woman. Real life only. Trust,respect, honour and communication at the top . Seeking the real submissive, those with the desire to please and those who know that true submission is a gift and it will not be treated with disrespect nor taken for granted. I'm in Ireland at least for the moment , be realistic about distance . This is a journey for both . A partnership. A unique union. To grow,develop and maintain. I'm looking for my happy ever after . Are you ? All types of submissive and slaves considered..EU and UK Only !

Just your normal college kid going through it but looking for someone I can own, if this catches your eye take a look at my profile and let’s see if you’re the one I’ve been looking for

Well-off Master seeking a submissive slave
I am am seeking a submissive misochist or a submissive slave . Do you like to have your Master push your boundaries/limits and be challenged.? Do you always feels good in your own bare skin, not too shy to show your complete nakedness before your MASTER? Do you appreciates the tenderness of cuddling, (subspace), and the resulting after care that I will give to you? Are you HWP? Do you have a intelligent mind?
If you answered yes to, at least. most of my above questions - then immediately reply back to me! . Our relationship will be build on trust, loyalty, respect, integrity and best of all love.
Honesty and Openness are the foundation
Short term and 24/7 will work for me. WE start short term.
Read my profile for my details and get back to me w/a name and tell me more about what your expectations are?

I travel a lot so distance is not an issue.

If you are looking for someone with VERIFIABLE experience, instead of just talk, please read my profile.

I am a 30 year old man looking for a woman to get to know and move into a lifestyle relationship. I've spent my first relationship with a female switch living the lifestyle, domestic discipline, in house and daily bondage, public whippings at play parties and punished spankings in open public. I have certain things I don't care for, and I respect all limits.

Truthfully living that way for years has ruined all vanilla relationships for me. I am looking for a woman who craves domination and living the lifestyle, and I am more than willing to teach the lifestyle. I have all the tools, a fully equipped playroom, and a career to cover all bases.

If this feels like something you would like to try or your curious about how this works shoot me a message and we can start a conversation to see how compatible we are. I am very picky and lose interest very quickly with people I am not attracted to. Being my submissive is a privilege and I treat it as such, it's not a title I give out lightly and my discipline and time is a sign of trust and deep affection. I'd tell you I don't bite, but that would be lying ;).

First off I would like to thank you for actually taking the time to read this. I'm just going to put this all out there and if I sound like the type of guy you'd be interested then send me a message. I'm open and honest and I feel like my advertisement should be too. A little about me: I am 22 years old, slim build,with a deep voice living Richmond, Virginia. I have experience both in person and online and have had submissives from a variety of different places and backgrounds. I don’t want the person reading this to worry about being “my type” just be yourself. I consider myself a big nerd. I enjoy working on computers, building model kits, gaming, reading manga and watching anime. Other hobbies include volunteer work, making erotic audios (check my blog), and I used to do a lot of photography competitions although that has slowed down. A submissive who can show interests in my hobbies is a must, it’s a part of non-sexual intimacy and growing close with your partner.

My kinks include but are not limited to: Spanking, choking, collars, bondage (light and heavy), breast play, public play, degradation, humiliation, gags, breeding, and roleplay. I’ve had some experience since first joining Cage so I’ve experimented with long distance vibrators, more sadistic things, pet play, and lots more.

What I look for in a submissive: A submissive to me has to be loyal, trusting, curious, willing to learn, respectful, caring, patient, and someone who wants to be more than just a sexual toy. I want a best friend as well as a submissive. As for ages, body types, etc, I really don’t care as long as you’re 18+. If we get along and vibe well we can go from there. One more thing, I’ve gotten to the point where I’m really looking for submissives who live a reasonable distance from me. So if you see the location on my profile and think “there’s no way in hell I’m ever going there” it’s probably not going to work. I’m open to mentoring and being friends, but for serious submissives I’d prefer someone I can see in person every now and then.

As for my limits, it’s pretty simple: Blood, scat, objects around my throat, anything too forced or degrading, nothing that seriously endangers your mental or physical wellbeing. As always, safewords and open communication please.
Thank you for reading!

First off I would like to thank you for actually taking the time to read this. I'm just going to put this all out there and if I sound like the type of guy you'd be interested then send me a message. I'm open and honest and I feel like my advertisement should be too. A little about me: I am 22 years old, slim build,with a deep voice living Richmond, Virginia. I have experience both in person and online and have had submissives from a variety of different places and backgrounds. I don’t want the person reading this to worry about being “my type” just be yourself. I consider myself a big nerd. I enjoy working on computers, building model kits, gaming, reading manga and watching anime. Other hobbies include volunteer work, making erotic audios (check my blog), and I used to do a lot of photography competitions although that has slowed down. A submissive who can show interests in my hobbies is a must, it’s a part of non-sexual intimacy and growing close with your partner.

My kinks include but are not limited to: Spanking, choking, collars, bondage (light and heavy), breast play, public play, degradation, humiliation, gags, breeding, and roleplay. I’ve had some experience since first joining Cage so I’ve experimented with long distance vibrators, more sadistic things, pet play, and lots more.

What I look for in a submissive: A submissive to me has to be loyal, trusting, curious, willing to learn, respectful, caring, patient, and someone who wants to be more than just a sexual toy. I want a best friend as well as a submissive. As for ages, body types, etc, I really don’t care as long as you’re 18+. If we get along and vibe well we can go from there. One more thing, I’ve gotten to the point where I’m really looking for submissives who live a reasonable distance from me. So if you see the location on my profile and think “there’s no way in hell I’m ever going there” it’s probably not going to work. I’m open to mentoring and being friends, but for serious submissives I’d prefer someone I can see in person every now and then.

As for my limits, it’s pretty simple: Blood, scat, objects around my throat, anything too forced or degrading, nothing that seriously endangers your mental or physical wellbeing. As always, safewords and open communication please.
Thank you for reading!

I am a caring dom looking for a real connection with a sub (preferably somewhat close to me) My profile has more details about me

Dominant male searching for a pup or toy to take care of. Preferably 24/7 and open to trying new kinks. If you have any interest check out my profile and send me a message, hope to hear from you soon~

Looking to train a a sub/slave for an anal only relationship!

Hi everyone,

I spend most of my time with my head in the clouds. Still, when I fall back to earth, most find me eating breakfast, getting lost on hikes, training for a half marathon, watching horror films, reading all manner of books, and somehow succeeding at the absurd task of making a living with words.

I’m proudly progressive, laid back to a fault, terrible at small talk, and deeply introspective. I’m a fervent introvert who craves adventure. I like anti-jokes more than I like regular jokes. I adore intellectualism but respect individuality more and have little patience for things that don’t contain either. I prefer Labor Day to Christmas. My true goal in life is to retire and teach HP Lovecraft at a community college. I’m not a man of many possessions or grand hobbies, nor do I mean to be. I yearn for life to be simple. I strive to make a difference but believe that whatever you make out of this life, whatever you become, the only real important thing is to be kind. And also this, quoting Dorothy Day – the best thing to do with the very best things in life is to give them away.

I often say I’m looking for someone with a true slave’s heart. It’s a heart that extends far beyond the bedroom or the household and a heart about far more than just myself—those who have it take great joy in showing care, affection, and goodwill toward others. You treat everyone with respect, compassion, generosity, and kindness. You find meaning and fulfillment in selflessness. It’s just about making the day go by a little easier for all who you meet. It’s an example I need in my life. It challenges me to be a better man. Before anything else, that’s what I need to find in you.

I believe D/s is a lifestyle of service, and at its best, it is the highest ideal of a relationship. It’s a lifestyle wherein every action our goal is to place each other before ourselves. It is a communication model. It’s a relationship based on hierarchy, but not in a way that is overbearing or that introduces rules that are just there to impose the Dominant’s will for the sake of it. Not in a way that hinders the natural, good flow of life and love and communication. It’s rather the sense that you will be heard and listened to, that your needs and wants will be important. You can trust that I will make the best decision for both of us so that we remain on the same team, on the same track.

D/s protocol, while it can be strict, gives us a way to constantly put each other first while providing a model in which to communicate needs and wants. I think that’s immensely valuable and positive. I want a relationship that calls us to treat each other with as much respect, dignity, and value as possible. A relationship that calls us to calmly communicate and trust and lay ourselves down for each other, especially when it’s hard, especially when it’s easy to bicker and withdraw. I want to have radically honest conversations and relax into the knowledge that both partners are being seen for who they are, able to be who they are and express their love and care in the dominant or submissive style that comes most naturally to us.

You want to love someone you deeply respect and look up to. I want us to have the dependable comfort and purpose that having you kneeling below me, and having me stand above you, will bring both of us. Each and every day.

looking for a good sub near and around DC area.

I'm seeking that special you. That one person who is that dynamite submissive. The one who will wear a coat and nothing else out, who wants to use toys under clothes, an adventurous seeking soul,.
I'm wanting that 18-40 female online sub, inexperience preferred that is wanting more.

Looking to get to know a sub who shares in nerdy hobbies such as anime videogames and lots of fun stuff in our free time.
Vanilla and kink equally.

Goal is LTR of Dom/sub partners bf/gf to more if we click.

I am Very sexual and corny, about as smooth as rocky road but I am sure that is up someone's alley. Check my profile for info about the kinky stuff

Dominant with 2 years experience willing to train new submissive women

My ideal women would be someone who wants a near 24/7 dom/sub/slave/little life. But I am flexible and it is one of my perks.
I will mold and adapt to who I’m with.
Even if it’s new to me I’m willing to learn so it can be part of our relationship. Some exceptions may apply but I won’t know till I try

My kinks include but are not limited to Bbw, Spanking, Lactation play choking, collars, bondage (light and heavy), breast play, public play, degradation, humiliation, gags, breeding, I always wanted to use a remote-controlled vibrator long distance on someone so we could talk about that. What I look for in a submissive: I need someone who can be loyal, trusting, willing to learn, (will discuss older),

I am a LIFELONG lifestyle Dominant dude seeking a FEMALE play partner. I enjoy female submission, girls in corsets, latex, leather, D/s. B&d, Objectification, tit and pussy torments, Chastity belts, Posture collars, dungeon play, outdoor bondage, degrading, electical play, device bondage, face fucking, pussy training, control, Denial, forced climaxes, just to hit on a few topics.
Over the years I have had the pleasure of teaching several women what a mind fuck is all about - along with pain and pleasure.

In my vanilla world I enjoy female company, fine wine, great food, cooking, gardening and taking care of a home. I am an avid woodworker who likes building dungeon toys for affluent girls and boys. I have built entire Dungeon for people before, including spanking benches, racks, X crosses, Saint Andrews Crosses, kneelers, stocks, entire post beds, cages, and oh so much more.

If you are a natural born Female of legal age and want to learn more about me - once I know that YOU are as real as I, hit me up if your down for it....

Life is short - Don't waste it!