I'm not very complex and have one goal in mind I'm looking for someone who needs to be dominated not wants it I mean needs and craves it a way of life an part of them.
I will take on partners 18-99 everyone welcome but I am not bi so woman only.
I want to know you I want to get inside your head and not only be your dom but to be someone you trust in and look forward to hearing from because the act of submission is not a right to a Dom it is a gift and I strongly believe that all gifts should be respected and cherished.
Please feel free to love my profile or message me directly I'm not shy and I don't bite hard that is ;) can't wait to hear from you soon
Hello ! I'm a 28 years old Dom. I'm looking for female sub, slave ( or little, pet) who wants to be controlled and dominated. I can work in both online and offline. I don't mind newbie. Send me a message if I am the Dom you are looking for !
I am experienced in BDSM (introduced almost 10 years back) and have been practicing it online since last 3-4 years. All my experience is online due to the lack of SSC BDSM societies in India. I have met a few great people who are from India on Cage and this has given me hopes of finding other like minded people to share this lifestyle with in the real life. I am not in any rush to find a slave and will only entertain females who are genuinely interested in BDSM dynamic, open, honest, loyal and in my age bracket. Also if any couples are looking for a dominant partner in their relationship and fulfill the above criteria of being genuine, honest, open and loyal I would love to talk. I am going to focus on real life much much more, but if there is any slave/sub out there who is really interested in what I have to offer and is not local to me, feel free to reach out and we can talk to see where it goes. Apart from BDSM, in my vanilla live I am a software engineer working for a reputed organisation and extreme discretion is needed for this reason. I won't say I am fully settled yet with my career, but would be in a short time. I am staying alone and can host others at my place on temporary basis apart from times when parent or relatives are visiting. And just to make it more clear - I have chosen this lifestyle, but no one including my closest friends, family or colleagues know anything about it and they will never know too.
Coming to what I am expecting: I am interested in a Total Power Exchange dynamic. I love taking control of another person's life and controlling stuff from very basic things like biological needs - pee,shower, food etc to other things like - sex life, dress, speech and others. As my slave, you will be strictly bound by rules and protocols and not following them will lead to punishments to reinforce the same. You are a reflection of your Master and as such I expect my slaves to be properly groomed and well disciplined - there will be regular maintenance sessions to address these and there will be scheduled and random checks to ensure you are properly following all orders. Expect a lot of varied tasks (some of which are designed to help you learn more about you and the lifestyle). I am looking for someone serious and willing to go the extra mile to submit wholly to me. You must be truthful, honest and good at communication. You give up all control and leave the decision making to me. You as a slave, are freed from the burden of decision making and i will make sure you are taken care of. I am looking for someone who enjoys these as much as I do and who is willing to be in a consensual and safe bdsm Master/slave relationship.
You do not have to be experienced. I will train you to the best of my ability and that journey in itself would be much enjoyable. And I am looking for a wholesome relationship, not just in the bedroom or in private. We would be like any normal couple when in presence of vanilla people (including friends, family etc) but the status of the Master and slave will always be maintained as subtly as possible in a given scenario. When in private we would follow something close to high protocol but obviously with considerations made for both of our careers and vanilla life. Also, we would start getting to know each other online and only when both of us are VERY comfortable, we can meet up in public places to start with as just normal friends until we are ready enough to commit to anything at all. Also, i expect you to be atleast somewhat stable financially (I am pretty much stable financially, but I do not want to be in a relationship where I am the sole provider)
Feel free to reach out and have a quick word anytime. And not just those who are interested in my ad, anyone and everyone is welcome to drop in a message and I will definitely reply (though it might take a while if I am busy with work and other stuff)
Irish master seeks naturally submissive woman.
Real life only.
Trust,respect, honour and communication at the top . Seeking the real submissive, those with the desire to please and those who know that true submission is a gift and it will not be treated with disrespect nor taken for granted. I'm in Ireland at least for the moment , be realistic about distance .
This is a journey for both . A partnership. A unique union. To grow,develop and maintain.
Hi there. I'm new to the scene, but old to being a dominant person. That is to say: I've never had a relationship labeled as d/s, but they've always ended up that way. And in groups, I tend to end up in charge. I've never aimed for that to happen.
Nevertheless, it always damned does. Personally, I wish to be surrounded by equals, whom are as beneficial to me as I am to them. That I could just blend in. But that doesn't seem to happen. Instead, people need their hands held, everything slowly explained, etc. Which I don't mind.
What I do mind, is that most people, become very uncomfortable when they start to realize that I'm smarter than they are. Most people, when very uncomfortable, act like animals.
Keep in mind, I always aim to benefit those around me, trying to improve their lives and mental health. Infact, I've literally volunteered over 2500 hours, helping families, animals, and the elderly. Improving the world. Those whom I love, I protect and lead.
But people whom don't know me, whom haven't watched me constantly improve their lives for years? All they see is someone they don't understand, doing things they don't understand, and gaining social influence. Most people equate confusion with helplessness, and that with pain. Thus, my being the source of their confusion, they equate me with pain.
Then I get to deal with these idiots behaving as idiots do: fucking up everything. But, they specifically aim their rampaging incompetence at me. This has been a constant theme throughout my adulthood. The secret curse of intelligence that none of us mention, because hearing it would upset those blessed idiots even more.
So, here I am, looking for a submissive partner. I hope a person - desiring to be submissive - can appreciate rather than merely fear my intellect. I hope they can – comfortably – see me as someone to learn from, rather than someone to be jealous of. Someone to envy and emulate rather than hate. I hope that, over time, I can turn them into my equal.
That gargantuan problem aside, keep in mind that I'm not a fucking god. I might understand more about people, the world, and life in general, than most people ever do. I might have so much self-understanding and control that zen masters would give me a respectful nod. I might stare down large, hard men with mere annoyance. But I'm only human.
I'm poor, I cannot be your sugardaddy – nor would I choose to be, had I the money. I'm a little fat and definitely outta shape. Don't have a big dick. I was depressed, pretty much the last 3 years – and still am a bit. I smoked cigarettes for 17 years. What else? Pffft. Nothing I'd label as serious, but you can grill me if you choose. My blog [link in profile] has nearly my entire life in it. I'll tell you the rest when I trust you.
Again, mental capacity aside, I'm actually very normal. Infact, aside from thinking awesome shit, I spend my freetime just dicking around. And I like it that way. I play video games, read, watch shows, listen to music, jerk off, cook, build shit, meditate. I don't plan to get involved with the world, except when I need to be.
If you and I got together, our time would be spent living a slow, private, comfortable life. Kinda boring, to people who think society has value. Me, I prefer keeping my mind in more productive places. And I'd love it if someone joined me.
As to the d/s side to our relationship, honestly I just want someone who appreciates having a partner who's stronger than them. I won't to be doing everything alone, you'll need to always be helping, but I've got no problem taking the lead. And I'd be happy to school you in the ways of being a badass – wouldn't be a good partner if I didn't work the bitch out of you.
If you want said schooling to include the d/s punishment and reward system, it wouldn't be remotely difficult. Sexually, if you want me to push you around, I'd also be more than capable of that. If you don't want that, I'm fine with that too. Oh, and I'm more than happy sharing control of our life together, but you need to earn the right to contribute through god damned good reasoning and planning. I do not allow stupid shit just to spare someone's feelings.
That's all I wanna think about this for now. I'm sure I'll edit this plenty in the future, if that's a possibility. Feel free to talk to me. Oh, right, and check my blog, which is linked in my profile. It's fucking massive, has video of me, etc.
You read the title. I want a slave, NOT A SUB, a slave. Someone who is willing to completely give up free will to me and let me give them commands to completely control their life. I want someone who will go out of their way to please me and thank me for letting them. DM me with your limits and level of interest and we will work from their. Beg to be my bitch.
Hello my name is Cecil. and for some time now I have been dating outside of my comfort zone. Meaning woman who are dominant themselves and was not aware they were until they met me. I blame myself because for dating them for a little while before I realize I am no longer interested and that's even before having sex. I can ask certain questions to know if you are submissive or dominant. So, I decided to try this way and see what happens even if it leads to a good conversation. I way over the games men play because I have seen and done so much that keeps me humble now. Keep in mind I don't lie so ask me anything to help you decided to proceed getting to know me as I will with you.
Single White Male, 55, not in a vanilla relationship, seeking inferior, subhuman female for long term, full time slavery. This is the real deal. No games, no lies, no rights, no limits. No bullshit. I am a total life-style Master, seeking a true 24/7/365 slave. I am not young, handsome, or rich. I require complete submission, and I demand absolute obedience. I can give slave what it truly needs. Complete objectification and total dehumanization. Pain, humiliation, degradation. Full denial, no touch. Obviously, this this is not a relationship for just any slave, but for the right slave, willing to be made over into My perfect thing, this could be the chance to stop fantasizing and start living the dream. I am 100% for real, slave should be too.
hello I am a very strict dominant man looking for submissive girls, cuckold couples for bondage fun, spankingI have over 36 years in experiences, you must host near me and have all party favorites! your size does not matter to me !if you have no experiences or little experiences please don’t worry and I love shy girls to so don’t be ashamed of that! I will trained all ! we can discuss what more is! you age is between 18-60 will consider older! you need to be trustworthy and real! I have no time for games! If you have any questions please feel free to ask? I will answer all who will reply! have a wonderful day!
Now I know this is like weird but we all gotta start somewhere right? I am very eager to learn more about being a dom but I'm sure I have a solid foundation please drop me a message if you have any questions at all
So I am older, married and in a celibate relationship but have always had a dominant side to explore, which I have done with discretion and success.
You should be female ( from birth), submissive and comfortable with that choice, you may be married or single but equally aware that my availability will be restricted by my status. Non negotiable are that you are tallish, HWP, intelligent, emotionally available even if you a re committed elsewhere and that you have confidence in your hard and soft limits as well as your needs and desires.
London/Surrey/Kent ideal but South East is achievable.
I am not a convert via the 50 Shades Haynes manual, nor am I expecting a 24/7 docile sex slave....I am interested in control, role play mutual appreciation of what we can give each other and an emotional friendship that ticks darker boxes than the norm which we both desire to explore.
If it sounds like you might like to converse then I hope to hear from you soon.
I am looking for someone in the Bay Area (or who frequently travels here) for a long term BDSM based relationship. The woman I am looking for should be honest, loyal, eager and enthusiastic, fun with a great sense of humor, and serious about exploring a connection in real life. As there are a lot of time wasters on these sites, once we have talked a few times, she should be ready to voice verify (i.e. talk on the phone/VOIP). I am open to answering any questions you may have, so feel free to ask me anything you'd like to. Once we have established we have chemistry together, we can go from there. Age is not a big deal to me, but I would prefer someone my age or younger. If you are significantly younger, that's okay, but please be open minded and mature. I'll look forward to hearing from you.
I am looking for a newbie or experimented Sub female babygirl. I am a Dom. Looking for someone close by. I'm very serious when it comes to my subs and can be gentle, understanding and compassionate but also firm, strict and even harsh at times if Dom determines a sub needs it. I can give you training and guidance and sessions. if you are interested contact to me.
Intelligent, articulate, dominant but empathetic male seeks companion to form a lasting dynamic worthy of our greatest hopes. I prefer a real-life situation, but in order to allay fears and determine compatibility, it will naturally begin online. Proximity is important (South East) but some flexibility is possible.
**Please read my profile and understand my specific limitations; I don't want to delay your future happiness even so long as to read the rest of this if I am not who you seek...**
I classify myself a a sexual dominant. My expectation is that you shall; through the intermediaries of my trust, will, and respect, submit to sexual usage. I do not value things freely given without first being earned so you may expect in turn to be placed into a situation where you are comfortable to provide the gift of your submission. Restraint, light punishment, tasking, and of course, instruction shall also play a role.
If you are: open-minded, sex-positive, looking for mental as well as physical stimulation, as attractive in spirit as I shall find you physically, looking for, well, more in life - please do get in touch. I'm always very glad to hear from new people. I'm unwilling to compromise on my desires to a large extent but that doesn't mean I lack the imagination to adapt when true value presents itself to me. I am not a prisoner of my desires, just a willing ally.
Hi, I am a male, dom, looking for a submissive. I know that I am not very good at this, but I will give it a try. I would like to find a mate, a mate not just in the bedroom, but also a best friend, who will talk to me, and debate me, and speak their mind, that turns me on a lot, so probably I am sapiosexual. My intentions are to find a masochistic woman, who loves pain and pleasure, because I am a sadist. I love being a sadist and I love exploring and pushing new limits and boundaries and finding them, all with my submissive’s agreement and trust. Now coupled with that, I also enjoy rope play, roll play, degradation, and primal play. Additionally, I love little play and being a Daddy Dom so if you love coloring, snack time, and sitting on Daddy’s lap, I would love to share all of this with you.
Please allow me to tell you a little about myself. I am a loving and caring Dom who loves to test limitations and boundaries and is constantly learning in this kink world. I absolutely love it. I often say, I can not and will not go back to vanilla. I would much rather be alone than go back to vanilla. For me, this relationship is not just about sex, in fact, the sexual part is a very small portion of the relationship . What excites me the most is the TPE between Sub and Dom. This bond and the total power exchange must be loved, cherished, and constantly developed.
I am 6 ft tall, 170 pounds, grayish hair, brown eyes, athletic, intellectual, thoughtful, kind, creative, playful, searching for similar qualities in a Sub. I am an exercise enthusiast, out door adventurer and lover of sports. I try to have realistic expectations so please understand that if you do not eat healthy, stay active or take care of yourself, I am not interested. I am searching for someone with similar qualities.
I hope this is of interest to you and that you can message me and we can chat.
My idea of sub control is insane. I like to control my sub's daily routine for 2-3 days. I do have weekends available where I can give you step by step instruction about what you should do next! including what to wear and what not to! wheom to tease or flash! places to visit which you havent in past! which contacts you should call from your number etc etc. Its a thrill which will give you insane experience. Its totally based agreement! But I will only give you 3 Nos. After that we disengage as there is no point if sub acts too reluctant or denies frequently. I am looking for a woman between 25-45 who is interested in Exhibitionist, humiliation, degradation.
I am a 30 year old man looking for a woman to get to know and move into a lifestyle relationship. I've spent my first relationship with a female switch living the lifestyle, domestic discipline, in house and daily bondage, public whippings at play parties and punished spankings in open public. I have certain things I don't care for, and I respect all limits.
Truthfully living that way for years has ruined all vanilla relationships for me. I am looking for a woman who craves domination and living the lifestyle, and I am more than willing to teach the lifestyle. I have all the tools, a fully equipped playroom, and a career to cover all bases.
If this feels like something you would like to try or your curious about how this works shoot me a message and we can start a conversation to see how compatible we are. I am very picky and lose interest very quickly with people I am not attracted to. Being my submissive is a privilege and I treat it as such, it's not a title I give out lightly and my discipline and time is a sign of trust and deep affection. I'd tell you I don't bite, but that would be lying ;).