Dominant Men Seeking Submissive Women

  Humble, Texas

It is very important that you read my ad completely.

I am a good looking athletic white Dominant male, 59 years young , 6' 190, work out and in great shape. I have been a Dom for over 10 years and I am very experienced. Although strict, I am also very patient, kind, understanding, loving, compassionate and have integrity. I believe a Dom/sub relationship is a union, one where we are both 100% honest, sincere and communicate without boundaries in order to discover and find a mutual ground where both parties are content.

I have always considered myself to be a Gentlemen Dom, gentle, kind, nurturing as well as compassionate and loyal. I always treat my submissive with respect, take my time to care for and listen to my submissive and always take the time to explain everything step by step so that there are no surprises, yet I am also strict when I have to be.

i am searching for a submissive/little or slave that is in shape, preferably fit or at least height & weight proportioned that is willing, eager and devoted to be guided, trained and mentored by me so she may serve my needs. Age, race is not a problem at all. As I stated previously, I am a Gentlemen Dom and my responsibility would be to take care of your needs also at all times. I believe in a true Dom/sub relationship should be founded on 100% honesty, communication, no lies ever.

This is not a game to me, this is my lifestyle and I do take it seriously and respect it. If you have made it this far, you have already managed to please me. For those interested, I am looking for a submissive/little/slave that preferably lives in the Houston, Texas area, however I will consider those who live further away. Also if you choose to contact me please include 2 clear face/body pictures and tell me in detail about yourself and your experience, if any.

Thank you for reading my ad!

Paul

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49 y/o      New York

Me just your average guy next door type with a great occupation, circle of friends and happy in my life. Anything I want I work for as nothing is ever handed to us.............very tall standing 64 with a strong build at 260lbs, brown hair and eyes sometimes sporting a goa-tee with a wide variety of interests in and out of the lifestyle content and looking for someone to share that dynamic with both in and out of a bd ds sm content.

If you are just looking for a bd ds sm dynamic that is fine too...lets discuss it and see where we land. Sorry no photo simply due to occupational reasons. I have one of those jobs where all social media is checked, finances, credit status etc Although into the bd ds sm content, I am very extreme. I define myself as a Master and Sadist. I am not a daddy or a dominant please know the difference. I have been active in the bd ds sm lifestyle for over 2 decades and have become very experienced and enjoy pushing the mind and body. I am a very physical and intense individual looking for an equally intense submissive / slave who wants to have her mind and body pushed.

You will go far beyond simple bondage and spanking, I will push your limits but never cross the line of pre-defined limits. As for limits I share the normal limits of most sane and respectful but enjoy bondage, tight bondage, suspension, gags, sensory deprivation, orgasm control, fisting, breath play, lead and leash, fire play, electric play, needle play, use of tens unit, cage play, impact play, whips, canes, crops, paddles, hair pulling and the list is really endless outside of the hard limits which will be discussed and established.... how are are you willing to go??? When I am using the flogger or cane and you feel you are about to collapse are you the kind to tap our or beg me to continue and not stop till I am satisfied and happy....when you are put into a group - gang bang and feel your body is going to explode from being used by countless friends and dont have another breath in you are you going to tap out or tell me you want more.....when you are denied orgasm after orgasm are you going to tap out because your body can not take the tease anymore or beg me to use you to complete exhaustion....I can go on and on but you get the idea You need to submit physically and Mentally - Yes you, that is why you are reading this. You want to feel helpless... dominated... NOT in control. you want to give yourself fully, without thought of saying no.

You are a very sexy, confident, open minded and willing and meet my criteria and if you do not please dont contact me (when being trained / scening will be in thigh highs or garters, shaved smooth and 5 to 6in closed toe stilettos, NOT NEGOTIABLE) but feel constrained by your routine, your family life and fear of judgment.

You are frustrated by your inability to realize your innermost sexual fantasies. Of course you want to be spanked, restrained and many other things, and want to be ordered around, told how to please and be controlled, you know in your heart you are - And you are getting aroused just thinking about this now.

I look forward to speaking to those who are true and sincere in exploring the mental and physical aspects of this dynamic. both in and out of a bd ds sm setting Please read my posting careful. 1 - i am not for the faint of heart 2- read and understand what I am into and want, I will expect you to be into the same, if you are not or not willing to explore all I have listed we will not be a good match

Thank you for reading and look forward to hearing from you. Also make note I split my time between Long island Ny and Upstate Ny so you should be willing to travel or open to relocation

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57 y/o      Austin, Texas

Epic long-term Ds romance with a caring, wise, and incredibly feminine soul. My equal and my partner in life, travel, and fun!

Intense, loving, romantic, and extremely sensual – I am a Dominant Gentleman who enjoys deep connection with his girl via Ds training, formal structures, sensual control, dress up, toys, and -especially- the use of my voice. Jedi / Professor / Mentor personality. Gomez Addams, seductive Vampire, a splash of Daddy, and something else quite intense.

Adept with the deepest levels of communication and the sexiest, most ethical & caring approach to consent & relationship deep dives. High integrity, liberal Gentleman. Old world values, well-mentored within the in-person bdsm community, and very active with community service / mentoring others / teaching classes within the local scene.

Always willing to travel often / fly my girl to make sure that we always have tons of in-person romantic time together. Around the States, Quebec, Europe, UK.

Regards-
Roger

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37 y/o      Oceanside, California

I'm an avid BDSM enthusiast. I can't do what I love without a partner. So ideally, what I would like to find is a submissive girl with a large kinky, freaky side so that I may use my toys on her and other activities. Flogging, Spanking, Restraint, Choking, Collar and Leash,Vibrators, Spreader Bar, Ball Gag, Paddles, CNC, Use and Abuse, Humiliation, Degradation, Objectification. All done in a safe, sane and consensual manner of course.

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37 y/o      New York, New York

People often ask me when they find out I'm a Dom "Wait, aren't you a feminist? How can you follow that lifestyle if you believe in women's rights?" One can completely be both. A feminist to me is a person who knows women have the power to choose whatever they want to be. That the most empowering thing a woman can ever do is to choose the man she wants to submit to for the rest of her life. That she chooses not to be any random slut but MY slut, MY cocksleeve, MY cum dump princess. Being a Dom is a gift entitled to me by the strongest woman I know, you. You look to me as your mentor, trainer, your pillar of strength. You want me to help make decisions because I am more worldly and experienced. I love providing that. I want to teach you and help you through everything in life, not just questions about our lifestyle, I mean everything.

I would prefer someone close to NYC but anywhere is fine as long as you actually want to meet and are serious. I look forward to hearing from you princess

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  North Carolina

I've been involved with bdsm for as long as I've been sexually active, and in that time I've had my share of D/s relationships, with myself as the 'D'. I've developed a pretty good idea of what works for me, and what I'm looking for, and this post is an attempt to find it. Rather than going for a broad trawling post, I'm going detailed and specific, so if the content of this post appeals to you then we are likely to be compatible, so drop me a message.

Dynamic
This should go without saying, but the for me, anything that turns me on relates to me being in control.
Sexually, I like a strict dynamic with rules and protocols. I enjoy assigning rewards and punishments, as well as tasks. I have a range of kinks including restraints, spankings, discipline training (with rewards and punishments) , name-calling and humiliation, piss play, raceplay, non-con play, and using my sub as human furniture. But the unifying theme is that they enforce this power dynamic where I have control over my sub, physically or mentally. In terms of online play, I enjoy setting rules: things like how to address me, or how to ask permission to masturbate or orgasm. I also like controlling more mundane things - dietary or clothing restrictions, for example. As well as rules, I like setting one-off tasks - that might be sexual, or something arbitary. Ultimately, I want my sub to give her all to me, and to let me take control of whichever aspects of her life that I wish. In return, you get the comfort and reward of knowing you are in safe hands, and that you don't have to make decisions. In terms of physical play, I tend to take the lead, but sometimes enjoy sitting back to let my sub tend to me; again, in either case it's about getting my sub to do what I want and to fulfil my desires in that moment.

You
I get on best with women who are high-achieving, ambitious and intelligent. My relationship history involves a lot of women with postgrads degrees or good careers. I like to know that my partner seems capable in most aspects of her life, but is subservient behind closed doors with me. Linking to that, I like to be able to have a good conversation with my partner, not just about sex. Wittiness and sense of humour are really sexy to me. Unlike some of The Cage, I'm not into gaming so if that is a big part of your life we probably won't be compatible. I tend to prefer to play with women around my age or younger, though this isn't a dealbreaker, I find it helps the power dynamic. I am also happy to play with subs who are relatively new to bdsm; enthusiasm is more important than experience.

Me
If you've read all this way, it's only fair to tell you about myself. I'm 50, based in NC but travel a lot for work. I'm well-educated and have a good career, but in my free time I read, hike and cycle. For anything else, you'll have to drop me a message to ask :)

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32 y/o      North Carolina

So here I am again trying this out. I've met some cool women, had some trying encounters, but I persevere! My circumstances and desires have shifted a bit as well but here goes:

I'm looking for a partner/wife, ideally. Someone who is interested in kink or enjoys some aspects of the lifestyle... However, I'm a hard sell on doing things 24/7. I like kink as a game, I even like it as a game constantly if we're on the same page, but I do need a lot of communication sometimes as I have trust issues. Communicating is hard even at the best of times, and I am committing myself to doing the hard inner work to be able to do my part in fostering a healthy relationship. I would love to meet a woman who is in a similar place or has moved on from it already! Trust is also a really big deal breaker for me; I need to feel like I can trust someone a lot to start bringing them into my life.
Family, living comfortably and relatively stress free, exploring the world, and being kinky are my priorities.

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48 y/o      New Zealand

You might be new or perhaps you have control in your work and need someone to take control of you at home, come chat .
I'm looking for that online female sub that needs controlling. Let's kick off with getting to know more of you and go from there

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  Wake Forest, North Carolina

I am a simple man who has lived a not ordinary life. I wouldn't really claim that my path has been extraordinary, just filled with experiences and glimpses of the world not seen by many. I am alpha, but in a protective and thoughtful way, not the type A jackass way. I am slow to anger, quiet and thoughtful, but resolute and consistent in my discipline and intent. You will always know where you stand with me and what is required of you, except when you are blindfolded...

I am tall, trim and, surprisingly, still have a full head of hair. Yea!!! You should see my cousins. I have a bit of fun teasing at the family reunions.

I love to travel, but am not much for the cruise/resort lifestyle. I'm more for spinning the globe, picking a spot at random then go hang out with the locals. Ok, a bit more thoughtful than that, but you get the idea.

I've lived this life before for long periods of time-decades. After the last relationship ended I dated back in the vanilla world, but found myself wanting. The relationships took more than they returned. I am successful and secure. For the last 10 years I've been single. I've lived my plan, raised my children well and find myself exactly where I want to be-debt free with an open horizon. Everything is in place except that elusive she.

Do you have what it takes to be the one?

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  Missouri

I'm 35, experienced, in northwest Missouri, looking for a woman preferably 18-28 who is looking for total power exchange. I'm looking for someone into both domestic and sexual servitude, bondage, being ordered, etc. Planning on setting up a dungeon for the right person. Location doesn't matter as long as you're willing to relocate if we both decide to move forward.

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69 y/o      Franklin, North Carolina

I am hoping to find a sub (regular/slut/slave/middle/masochists/CnC victim/Prey) in Western North Carolina, North Georgia, North West South Carolina or East Tennessee. I am experienced in many roles as a dominate(Dom/Sadists/Master/Daddy/Primal Predator) and can offer a sub a wonderful relationship. I have a fully equipped mirror lined dungeon where not only will experience unimaginable pleasure, but you get to watch yourself as it happens. There is a custom built bondage table where you can be restrained in any venerable position for stimulation, penetration or infliction of pain if that is your thing. There is also a suspension system to hold you helplessly in the air. The table has several "attachments"...fucking machine, gynecological spreader, as well as restraining points. If CnC/Abduction is your thing you will see in the photos I live in a very isolated area where no one will hear your screams.

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  Maine

Looking to connect with a like minded person who enjoys all aspects of Orgasm Control, Chastity, Tease and Denial, Edging, Selfbondage just to name a few. I have many years of experience as a dom but have also been in the role of sub and understand that these types of relationships are built on trust and mutual respect. If interested in chatting more please don"t hesitate to reach out.

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  San Antonio, Texas

I am 28yr. i am looking for a sub woman who will do everything i say and be punished when they disobey. I like collars and would like you to wear one all the time but optional and being call Master. I ask that you be between 22 and 27yr. I am looking for a long term relationship and will teach you to pleasure me. i am into bdsm but won't make you do anything you don't want to do but i ask you try. we can start chatting to see if we like each other. I am in San Antonio and ask you be close by.

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53 y/o      New Jersey

Daddy Dom seeking his forever sub
53 Daddy Dom seeking his forever sub. I am looking for a CIS female. She & I should have similar interests, such as dancing, going for rides on the motorcycle, binge watching TV , amusement parks, coffee, nightcaps, cigars & enjoying the company of our friends & family, but also should have other interests that we can try exploring together. I prefer a 1950s style relationship, however you will have a say in the relationship, but I would want to make the final decision based on your input. I am a romantic and would like a partner who is also romantic. Please be available for the possibility of a relationship, not looking for FWB or something casual. Any questions, please feel to ask.

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24 y/o      St. Louis, Missouri

I am an experienced dom who is kind and firm. I am looking for someone who wants to be in a serious relationship and can handle various kinks. I want to get to know you first and go on a few dates before we do anything, I want to understand you as a person and really see if we connect. Then we can schedule a session.

I am a fit and very strong male who wants someone to commit to a life of adventure with me.

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  California

looking for a sub/slave online to start willing to travel or relocate.

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30 y/o      Tampa, Florida

I am looking to establish a lifestyle household that enables us to live a life spending less time working and more time on leisure: fun, travel, and of course kink. There are so many elements to life that can be enhanced by the right d/s dynamic. I don't have the character limit to get into it on an ad, so be sure to read my profile if you're interested and want to learn more about me, my goals, how we can achieve them through bdsm, and where you might fit in all this

I am open to mono or non-mono, sexual or non-sexual, and all kinds of lifestyles and fetishes. Slaves, switches, exhibitionists, primal, sex workers, tpe lifestyle slaves, caregivers, kajiras, pets, dolls, objects are all welcome and encouraged. Even men if they can respect my non-sexuality for them and Dommes if interested in a Dom-Domme dynamic. Anything not mentioned, I am open to conversation

If you're interested you can send me a message or love my profile. Make your interests visible and we'll talk

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  Richmond, Virginia

Hello there, I'm Adam. I'm a 24 year old Dom living in Richmond, Virginia. I'm seeking a submissive either long distance or local who I can spend time with fairly regularly. I have experience in online and in person dynamics and with a wide variety of kinks. I've been on Cage for a few years now and have really learned and grown as a Dom. Outside of kink I enjoy traveling, reading, learning German, working on computers and watching anime. I also make erotic audios that you can find on my blog. My kinky interests are pretty wide-ranging, so I put a list on my profile to avoid cluttering this ad.

I'm hoping to find a submissive who is excited to get to know me both in and outside of kink, someone who is willing to take the time to have a good foundation for our dynamic. If you think that might be you, or are just interested in talking please send me a message. I'm also open to mentoring and talking to anyone who is new to kink. Thank you for reading.

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  New York, New York

Sensual Dom seeks submissive partner to experience various aspects of life together with. Looking to build a relationship that will stand the test of time. Preferably with someone who wants a closeness that can only be enhanced by the levels of trust involved with ropes, floggers and healthy D/s dynamic.

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  United Kingdom

Hey,
If you haven't already I would check my actual profile out, it has a voice note and a brief overview of myself, kinks and wants. but the TLDR of it is, I'm looking to chat, explore with people and have a little fun along the way. I'm completely open to any question and can talk about anything and everything. I don't expect/want to be thrusted into a dom/sub relationship straight away, I won't attempt to instantly own you nor do I want to. Feel free to drop a message if this sounds good to you :)

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  Antarctica

I am looking for my petgirl. I have been looking for her for a while now. The ideal pet girl I am looking for should be interested and do enjoy pet play and pet life with all its aspects. Experience is not a must as i can train the newbie but i must see the commitment and the willing to pay some effort in learning.

My relation will start online in the beginning but i am looking forward to upgrade into by moving together.

Any questions or more details, just ask.

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  Antarctica

I am a dominant male 29 years old, I am looking forward to start a serious relationship with a submissive girl that is into some pet play, experience is not a must as i can train the newbie but i must see the commitment and the willing for working hard.

My relation will start online in the beginning but i am looking forward to upgrade into by moving together.

Any questions or more details, just ask.

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53 y/o      United States

There are few bonds stronger than the one developed between a slave and her Master. It is not one to be entered into lightly.

I am not a fan of drama or games although I am rather fun and good natured. I am strict as a Master but believe that life should be generally enjoyed. slaves with a praise kink are highly encouraged.

Ultimately, I am searching for a girl that desires the security and pride found in ownership. That aspires to wear a collar and embrace the commitment and loyalty inherent therein. Only a real life relationship provides the intimacy, companionship and love necessary for a successful TPE.

Location is irrelevant as I am happy to relocate the right girl. If you desire the freedom, opportunity and security of a collar and a good Master then I will be very pleased to become acquainted and develop a conversation. submission is earned through trust and respect. It begins with your introduction. I look forward to learning your most intimate hopes and desires.

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25 y/o      North Carolina

Hey there. Names DMoney I’m a 24 year old Black Dom looking for an online submissive. First and foremost I prefer that my sub have a big ass with shape and size. That’s just a preference of mine. Besides that I’m looking for a submissive that is able to give me 3 simple yet important things. 1. Obedience 2. Loyalty. 3. Communication. As long as those 3 things are met I’m one satisfied Dom already. I don’t ask for much actually. Im looking for a sub to call my own, someone that is legit and knows what she wants from a Dom. It doesn’t matter if she’s white, black, Hispanic, Asian, etc as long as she’s serious about what she wants and doesn’t play games that’s alright with me. Ultimately I want a sub that I can actually claim as my own and become my friend at the same time. If any of you ladies are seeking a Dom at the moment come message me and let’s see where things go from that point on. ONLY MESSAGE IF YOUR INTERESTED PLEASE! Thank you and have a great rest of the day!

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  Wyoming

I treated this as a rush for sometime, but it isn’t just a rush for me. When I strip you for the first time, see your bottom lip quiver, watch your shaking hand slide your bra strap off your shoulder, I know you are mine. When you wake up and kneel for me, and recite your slave mantra, I know you are mine. When you present your options for lunch and await patiently for me to choose, I know you are mine. When you check in with me to show me that you accomplished your goals for the day, I know you are mine. When you beg for me to cum, but graciously accept, with only a few whimpers, being denied, I know you are mine. When we talk each other to sleep, after you've dutifully recited your slave mantra for the night, giggling before you wish your Master a goodnight, I know you are mine. When you accept me and all my flaws and insecurities and shortcomings, day after day, just as I accept yours, I know you are mine. This is the most sacred thing I know

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66 y/o      Fort Lauderdale, Florida

Gentleman Dom seeks his sub slut - S. FL. I am a fit, D&D Free Polyamourous Gentleman Dom. 63 years young. Looking for submissive women who are mature, healthy, fit, local to Fort Lauderdale, sincere and ready to let go and live in the moment! Being in service, accepting responsibility for herself and wanting to grow and learn in the lifestyle. Is this you? Do you yearn to be in a safe place and know you are cared for? Don’t waste my time and I won’t waste yours! Be real. Be ready. Be yourself! Did I mention I’m especially partial to Ebony and Asian subs? Private Dungeon awaits! Ever ride a Sybian?

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  Tennessee

I am a LIFELONG lifestyle Dominant dude seeking a FEMALE play partner. I enjoy female submission, girls in corsets, latex, leather, D/s. B&d, Objectification, tit and pussy torments, Chastity belts, Posture collars, dungeon play, outdoor bondage, degrading, electical play, device bondage, face fucking, pussy training, control, Denial, forced climaxes, just to hit on a few topics.
Over the years I have had the pleasure of teaching several women what a mind fuck is all about - along with pain and pleasure.

In my vanilla world I enjoy female company, fine wine, great food, cooking, gardening and taking care of a home. I am an avid woodworker who likes building dungeon toys for affluent girls and boys. I have built entire Dungeon for people before, including spanking benches, racks, X crosses, Saint Andrews Crosses, kneelers, stocks, entire post beds, cages, and oh so much more.

If you are a natural born Female of legal age and want to learn more about me - once I know that YOU are as real as I, hit me up if your down for it....

Life is short - Don't waste it!

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47 y/o      England

Kind but firm male looking for new or inexperienced subject to train and introduce into this incredible world.
I can promise absolute safety in a trusting environment, but also a sensory excitement that you'll wish you'd discovered sooner.
Get in touch if you want to feel alive!

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41 y/o      Ireland

Location(s) : Ireland. EU. Real Life NOT online.

Genuinely seeking, a submissive for REAL Life partnership.

That ultra rare connection is a must.

Looking for my submissive and my partner all rolled into one, so basically my happy ever after..

Trust, Honesty & Communication are at the top of the list. Monogamous
No Barbie dolls needed.
I'm looking for a submissive who also has her own identity and thoughts .
A partnership to develop and grow together.

Big guy No six pack in sight and I really can't stand gym people. . Not into the fake tan , fake teeth, fake anything. Flaws make and shape who we are .
Sharply spoken and straight talking.
Very honest no filter.

I eat meat not bone..

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23 y/o      Byron, Georgia

Im looking for a toy that will complete tasks i give them. When i give them. I want a slave that i can use when i wanna get off. Someone who will respond when i need to get off and stay silent until im ready to use them again

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y/o      Saint Paul, Minnesota

Daddy/Owner/Master seeking female forever pet/slave/partner. Minnesota USA.
Liberal.
Looking for LTR, monogamous only.
I'm playful, hilarious, sarcastic, sweet, honest, super-affectionate, and faithful. Yes, actually. :P
Dark/raunchy sense of humor. If you love Cards Against Humanity, we'll get along great. ;)
Pretty flexible when it comes to kink. Tell me what your needs are: vanilla and kink.
I love to make my partner happy; I expect the same in return.

PLEASE include a picture with your introduction if your profile has none.

I'm on FET and have been vetted by a few groups.
I'm single, unpartnered, and available.
You MUST be willing and able to relocate to Minnesota.
See my profile for more details.

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  Germany

Life Changer…

Experienced Dom/Master looking for a happy, healthy and fulfilling relationship with one special sub/slave.

I am successfully self-employed, intelligent and fun to be with.

While I enjoy being a mentor I am typically not into littles (I tend to find them too needy and immature).

Suitable partner would be a sub or a slave or in a perfect world a sub with slave tendencies.

Only interested in a long-term relationship in real life (getting to know online is ok of course) with a clear and realistic path to living together in Germany.

Am a good communicator and expect the same from you.

Happy to offer a live-in situation, financial and emotional stability, a worry-free life. A secure, nice and comfortable environment that should bring out the best in my partner.

Will respect my partner as I appreciate true submission is a gift.

Expect to be served and serviced by a truly submissive, obedient and docile partner.

For more details and my kinks check my profile.

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  Maryland

Looking for a submissive female willing to allow me to enter her world of fantasy/reality. 54yr young professional , intelligent, looking for a smart, sassy , sexy women who takes good care of her body and mind. I have had 1 bdsm experience and 1 sub relationship that lasted a year. I do a very good job of allowing my sub to experience levels of submissiveness that suits them best while keeping things fresh. Due to my professional position I have to be extremely discrete with photos, but will share with the right women. Reach out and let’s dive deeper into what could be

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  Duluth, Georgia

Going to try this again. I tend to just get the ones that like to chat for a week or so, then ghost.
I'm 6ft, I'm heavy set and struggle with it. Bald head and bushy full beard... I walk with a cane due to injuries from a bad accident years ago. Its also why I struggle with weight.
I'm old school, in that I like to build a foundation of trust and respect first. I'm a big Teddy bear of a Daddy Dom. Don't get me wrong, I can be strict, I have rules, and I have a bit of a playfully sadistic streak when it comes to play time.

What am I looking for? Someone my age or younger (30's/40's), playful, subby, babygirl, bratty streak, masochist, likes bondage play, likes being spoiled with attention as much as they like being spanked... Prefer someone close enough that, if there is a real connection, we have the potential to really meet up. Ideally, someone with the potential to become a LTR.

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  Austin, Texas

I am a single, successful, educated professional that has been in and out of the lifestyle for two decades now. Most would describe me as an old-school, non-sadist sensual Dominant with a fondness for certain aspects for non-age play DD/lg dynamics. I seek a true submissive partner both in and out of the bedroom, combining elements of deference, romance, structure, affection, and something that would lead to eventual cohabitation in a loving, somewhat "50's style" lifestyle-friendly home. On the lighter side, I hope to find someone that is sweet, thoughtful and with a good sense of humor. You should be unencumbered and free of any emotional baggage that could be a potential barrier to real intimacy. Location is of no consequence and I am happy to assist my special someone with eventual relocation from anywhere in the world. Preferences include HWP, age 21-42, and please include a full length photo if there is not one already in your profile.

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28 y/o      California

I am not your average Dom and you’ll come to find that in time, but I am in search of something fairly traditional in a d/s relationship. However, I am very open to many types of dynamics as my interests and desires vary greatly. As the title suggests, I am looking for a loyal sub. One with an open mind and is enthusiastic in her submission. I also need someone mentally mature, I may be open to age play but never ending childish behavior gets tedious sooner rather than later. As for specifics on the dynamic I am searching for, you’ll have to ask me personally. I am likely to ask you to share yours first but I will answer any and all questions to the best of my ability while trying to keep a little mystery to keep you on your toes. Shoot me a message if you’re interested, even if you have something specific in mind. I am known for being delightfully surprising to those with an open mind so give me a chance and you won’t regret it.

Respectfully yours,
Sir Eddy

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29 y/o      Torrington, Wyoming

I’m looking for a total power exchange Dynamic. Through talking with people I’ve also discovered that to some people a 1950s style relationship would be basically the same thing. I believe my role is to help you achieve a level of excellence that you wouldn’t achieve on your own. At this point in my life the lifestyle and my life are intertwined in a way that cannot be undone. Some of my kinks can run to the extreme for some people if you are interested in what they are please reach out to me. If you would like to see if we would be a good fit please don’t hesitate to reach out to me

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40 y/o      Manchester, England

I’m a 39 year old Male, living in Manchester UK. I’m intelligent, reasonably good looking, tall, and reasonably well off, working in a professional field.

Looking for a new sub to train and explore my dom side with, but also to hang out and have fun with. I can be a bit of a daddy too.

Feel free to message if you’re:
-at least a couple of years younger than me
-sub
-female
-reasonably slim

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44 y/o      United States

I'm looking to connect with a female sub/slave, to develop an online dynamic that suits both of us. After 15+ years of experience in D/s, I have a good understanding of what I want and need. Thus, I'm rather picky. However, I’d love to connect with like-minded individuals, and make some friends along the way. If you're interested, please send me a message. Thank you.

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48 y/o      Lutz, Florida

I'm new to the lifestyle and looking for my first (and hopefully lasting) slave girl. I have a steady job (22 years on the job) and am financially stable. Must be within a decent driving distance of Tampa, FL. Prefer women who are younger than myself. View my profile for more information about me (I tried to be very descriptive), and message me and we can discuss the relationship, life, the universe, and everything else.

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  Massachusetts

I'm different, an original. Versatile, caring and loving to name a few. In search of a feminine touch and a long-term relationship. Are you looking for someone to truly trust completely? A man who needs and will apppreciate you and what you offer him. If you are seriously looking and willing to commit to a real conversation, I await your reply...

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  Huntington, West Virginia

Looking for the right nerdy girl to be live-in submissive and slave. Start online but quickly move to irl submission then to bound housewife strong on 50's vibe with plenty of bondage and being kept, nude, barefoot and pregnant. 25-35 preferred age range. Nerdy, sci-fi, anime, and classic movie loving girls as well as stem educated preffered, but willing to learn and understanding your place are most important.
I am well educated, good job, capable of keeping you a homemaker if that is what we decide. Message Me to discuss further details.

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30 y/o      Alaska

Looking for someone who genuinely enjoys pain and is willing to at least send audio of them. Ideally video but Im just as fine with calls. I want to hear you push yourself for me. I want to be there to push you, and I think i'll push you further than most might feel comfortable. Safely of course.

Age, size, race, etc. means very little as long as youre over 18.

Hope to hear back soon.

J

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23 y/o      Byron, Georgia

need an obedient slave for a strict dom.age doesnt matter,must be female,and must be obedient.if your interested message me for further instructions

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43 y/o      Ohio

As the title says, I am looking for the right sub (preferably 25-32 years old) for eventual IRL LTR to grow together and to help you be the best girl you can. However, happy to start to get to know each other online first and prefer to talk with you rather than type everything here.

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62 y/o      New York, New York

I’m looking for a woman who desires rules and regulations to keep herself in line and to become a better person. Spankings are needed and desired. I love ass play and can also give pleasurable erotic spankings as well. You are naturally submissive and love to serve your man orally and love giving up that well reddened bottom to anal. We would be LTR and vanilla to others. I’m intelligent sane clean passionate loyal respectful and health conscious. If interested let’s start our journey

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  Houston, Texas

Sub females inbox me for our one on one

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33 y/o      United States

ONLINE ONLY. I am looking for some that will listen and do what I say. Please read my profile before you massage me.

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34 y/o      South Africa

Currently looking for a new sub/slave

If you are interested please let me know.

You can also have a look at my profile for a brief description of what I'm looking for and done :)

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54 y/o      Fremont, California

I am looking for someone in the Bay Area (or who frequently travels here) for a long term BDSM based relationship. The woman I am looking for should be honest, loyal, eager and enthusiastic, fun with a great sense of humor, and serious about exploring a connection in real life. As there are a lot of time wasters on these sites, once we have talked a few times, she should be ready to voice verify (i.e. talk on the phone/VOIP). I am open to answering any questions you may have, so feel free to ask me anything you'd like to. Once we have established we have chemistry together, we can go from there. Age is not a big deal to me, but I would prefer someone my age or younger. If you are significantly younger, that's okay, but please be open minded and mature. I'll look forward to hearing from you.

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48 y/o      Houston, Texas

Structure and consistency
Hello all, I am a 45 year old straight man who happens to be a Dominant. I have lived my entire adult life being a full time dominant that said, I don’t know how to date vanilla.

I am a sadist, dominant (prefer TPE), owner (I own a 24/7 live in female slave), and I am an orgasm control enthusiast.

I have a very good career, live a very stable life, and prefer that drama isn’t a part of it. I am very laidback in general (unless protocol isn’t followed), I enjoy movies, sports, music, traveling, and cooking.

Our vanilla lives are very typical, one of the advantages of experience is the ability to maintain 24/7 and vanilla effectively. My slave works full time with a very good career as well.

Who would be ideal for joining my life, someone who isn’t afraid to admit that she needs a strong leader. Someone sexually open to fun in a closed poly household. Someone who is willing to put in as much as her sister and Master are. Lastly someone who has a sense of loyalty.

Thank you for your time, if you feel that you are her. Feel free to message

Master Tony

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30 y/o      San Jose, California

Hello All,

I am an experienced Daddy Dom who is looking for a submissive girl to join me and explore submission together.
I want someone with whom I can connect as well, not just sexually. I wanna start online and then take further.

For me bdsm is about ownership and control, and the support it provides.

Message me if you wanna discuss further.

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71 y/o      Vermont

70-yo Master in northern New England and central Pennsylvania seeks female sub/servant/slave, any race, any legal age, for long-term arrangement/relationship with possible goal of establishing TPE. I believe the primary character trait a true submissive must have is *willingness*--to please, to serve, to obey. Willingness is much more important than experience. I also have a strong sadism streak that appreciates genuine masochists. Happy to answer all responses.

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46 y/o      New York, New York

I will be in the area for 3-4 days and I am looking for a sub to test and play with. I am down your way every 6-8 weeks and would love to find a playmate to use and test when I am in town. If you would like to chat and see if I can be of assistance please reach out. TED

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  Dallas, Texas

Hello there, i am a dominant man who has been this way since really early 12-13. I have always been placed in leadership positions, and in positions of responsibility. Thus, i honed my instincts doing these things over time. I did not give in to my real nature however until age 22. From that point forward i have embraced who i am, rather than holding it back. It's how i am naturally. Alpha, dominant, caring, provider, assertive, dependable, and i love to laugh as well.

People have called me "stern", and called me "aggressive", also they have called me caring, and understanding. They say the most difficult experiences either make or break you. I've chosen to have them make me. Going through many types of challenges in life has built me up to a very high vibration. I am successful in the business world, and i will continue to grow. Whomever i choose, should want to be taken care of, but also to take care. Value being added to both of our lives.

A leader, an owner, a man that won't abandon at the sign of a challenge. These are things that embody who i am.

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38 y/o      South Carolina

Greetings

Thank you for taking time to read my ad. I am seeking a obedient submissive woman who lives for service. I am seeking a loyal obedient open minded submissive who wants to live the lifestyle 24/7, try new things, and learn the life style. I am seeking someone with little to no limits, who is willing to be open in ideas and implementing those ideas. Must be wanting to be used for sexual and domestic use. If interested see my profile, and let me know.

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27 y/o      New York, New York

I am looking for my new toy, interested women can message me who wants to serve Indian Alpha.

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34 y/o      San Antonio, Texas

See my profile for the full ad (it's long but hopefully worth it)
https://thecage.co/profile/163118/

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  Australia

I'm looking for an online slut who loves to receive abuse and humiliation from her Master. It would be nice if you have low self esteem and get a lot of pleasure from giving all of yourself to your Dom. No beats, only true, obedient sluts apply.

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29 y/o      New York

Call me crazy but I am a deeply religious man (Christian(L.D.S)) and I'm looking for a submissive woman to be my slave wife. I have no intention of having sexual relations before marriage. I am determined to find my place in both the Christian and kink worlds. I belong in both. Anyone who feels they could be a good candidate, reach out to me and we'll discuss it. This post is not a joke, don't make it out to be one.

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