Dominant Men Seeking Submissive Women

50 y/o      Atlanta, Georgia

Dominant daddy and master seeking newbie subs that seek training and or daddy’s little girl . Must be willing to get to know each other and be real. I am a trainer and know how to bring you where you want to be. I am caring and loving,like a daddy,but firm and dominant. I am easy to learn from and eager to train you. I am that daddy you always wanted and longed for. Let’s chat and you can ask questions if you like!

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37 y/o      New York, New York

People often ask me when they find out I'm a Dom "Wait, aren't you a feminist? How can you follow that lifestyle if you believe in women's rights?" One can completely be both. A feminist to me is a person who knows women have the power to choose whatever they want to be. That the most empowering thing a woman can ever do is to choose the man she wants to submit to for the rest of her life. That she chooses not to be any random slut but MY slut, MY cocksleeve, MY cum dump princess. Being a Dom is a gift entitled to me by the strongest woman I know, you. You look to me as your mentor, trainer, your pillar of strength. You want me to help make decisions because I am more worldly and experienced. I love providing that. I want to teach you and help you through everything in life, not just questions about our lifestyle, I mean everything.

I would prefer someone close to NYC but anywhere is fine as long as you actually want to meet and are serious. I look forward to hearing from you princess

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29 y/o      Torrington, Wyoming

I’m looking for a total power exchange Dynamic. Through talking with people I’ve also discovered that to some people a 1950s style relationship would be basically the same thing. I believe my role is to help you achieve a level of excellence that you wouldn’t achieve on your own. At this point in my life the lifestyle and my life are intertwined in a way that cannot be undone. Some of my kinks can run to the extreme for some people if you are interested in what they are please reach out to me. If you would like to see if we would be a good fit please don’t hesitate to reach out to me

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34 y/o      San Antonio, Texas

See my profile for the full ad (it's long but hopefully worth it)
https://thecage.co/profile/163118/

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37 y/o      Oceanside, California

I'm an avid BDSM enthusiast. I can't do what I love without a partner. So ideally, what I would like to find is a submissive girl with a large kinky, freaky side so that I may use my toys on her and other activities. Flogging, Spanking, Restraint, Choking, Collar and Leash,Vibrators, Spreader Bar, Ball Gag, Paddles, CNC, Use and Abuse, Humiliation, Degradation, Objectification. All done in a safe, sane and consensual manner of course.

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24 y/o      Texas

Making this ad in hopes that I will be messaged.

I am looking for a sub that is between the ages of 18 to 25 though would prefer the ages 18-20. I will like to have a genral idea of how they look. While a photo is the easy way for me to know how they look I understand it may also be uncomfortable so I'll be fine with just thier best physical description.

To make things clear I feel very uncomfortable on showing myself. Though I hope my sub wouldn't. So before ever considering sending me a photograph or video of themselves I want to be clear I am most likely not going to do the same. I may still send photos and videos but not showing me. And if we where to ever video chat I would stay in voice chat.

I'll be honest,unlike most people here, I am not looking for a permanent relationship. I am looking for a short to long term Dom/sub relationship where it is know at some point we wouldn't be in that relationship anymore but be assured the friendship relationship would still live. Think of me as a Dom you will service to try and get some experience serving a type of Dom, since all Doms may be diffrent.

I will admit I am not a very exprince Dom as I have not really had an Rl master/sub relationships and have only really rped the relationships.

Take note I am a very caring and understanding person. I will not force you to do anything you are uncomfortable doing, though if it's a situation where you just need to get comfortable with doing it I will gladly give you time and try helping you get comfortable with it. I am also if you are ever having a bad day or need to rant I'd be glad to let you rant and either give feed back or just stay quite if you just wanted to let something out but not be told anything back.

And finally to very important things.
Firs I would like my sub to still be able to be able to go on with there lives without me having to be responsible about everything. I'll gladly take some control over your life if you want me to depending how it is.
Second this is purely an online thing. Maybe in the far future It won't be, but that is the far future.

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71 y/o      Sulphur, Oklahoma

I need a magnificently large lady for experimental bondage while I create my latest contraption. Southern Oklahoma needs a good dungeon, and I would love to build one. To do that I need a bondage loving submissive assistant, the more jiggly the better. Orgasms aplenty, if all goes well.

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37 y/o      United States

Are you an eager to please sub? Do you want to experience what it means to be mind fucked? Then give my profile a read and slide into my DMs.

Inexperienced subs welcomed!

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32 y/o      North Carolina

So here I am again trying this out. I've met some cool women, had some trying encounters, but I persevere! My circumstances and desires have shifted a bit as well but here goes:

I'm looking for a partner/wife, ideally. Someone who is interested in kink or enjoys some aspects of the lifestyle... However, I'm a hard sell on doing things 24/7. I like kink as a game, I even like it as a game constantly if we're on the same page, but I do need a lot of communication sometimes as I have trust issues. Communicating is hard even at the best of times, and I am committing myself to doing the hard inner work to be able to do my part in fostering a healthy relationship. I would love to meet a woman who is in a similar place or has moved on from it already! Trust is also a really big deal breaker for me; I need to feel like I can trust someone a lot to start bringing them into my life.
Family, living comfortably and relatively stress free, exploring the world, and being kinky are my priorities.

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50 y/o      Christchurch, Canterbury

I'm looking for a submissive woman who is adventurous and open-minded. I don't particularly like labels, as they don't accurately reflect the person and what's most important to me is the connection between us. Traits that have worked well with me include submissive (of course), brat, and prey. I'm not into age play, but like being called Daddy and I certainly have caring, nurturing side. Age gap relationships have been mutually rewarding.

If you're not in New Zealand, you would need the intention to meet in person. Australia is only a short flight away, and I'll be spending time in the Philippines later this year.

If you are from elsewhere, but think we might click, then I'm still happy to chat with you.

See my profile for more information.

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65 y/o      Dallas, Texas

If you are looking for someone with VERIFIABLE experience, instead of just talk, please read my profile.

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69 y/o      Franklin, North Carolina

I am hoping to find a sub (regular/slut/slave/middle/masochists/CnC victim/Prey) in Western North Carolina, North Georgia, North West South Carolina or East Tennessee. I am experienced in many roles as a dominate(Dom/Sadists/Master/Daddy/Primal Predator) and can offer a sub a wonderful relationship. I have a fully equipped mirror lined dungeon where not only will experience unimaginable pleasure, but you get to watch yourself as it happens. There is a custom built bondage table where you can be restrained in any venerable position for stimulation, penetration or infliction of pain if that is your thing. There is also a suspension system to hold you helplessly in the air. The table has several "attachments"...fucking machine, gynecological spreader, as well as restraining points. If CnC/Abduction is your thing you will see in the photos I live in a very isolated area where no one will hear your screams.

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  Wisconsin

Bluntly, I seek a woman who knows she needs/wants to serve, in all ways - no just the kinky sex. I live in the city and countryside, retired, not financially impaired thus you will be well cared for as a 24/7 slave. If you like travel; quaint, out of the way places, nature, like a man with traditional romantic side and you like to feel truly valued, yet have that undercurrent of always feeling owned....yes - then we should talk. Each path has a first step, here is your chance to began a journey that may have you finding what you seek :) Thank you (MN/WI)

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33 y/o      United States

I don't want to write a novel here, the title probably says it all anyway lol. I'm looking to find my life partner. I don't really want to put any details here, so feel free to message me, I'm writing this on a phone and I REEEAALLLY miss real buttons...

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  Washington, District of Columbia

Hello there, I'm Adam. I'm a 25 year old Dom living in Washington, DC. I'm originally from the area and recently moved back to work an IT job. I'm seeking a submissive either local or long distance who I can spend time with regularly. Distance is fine, so long as we can make it work. I have experience in online and in person dynamics, as well as with a wide variety of kinks. Outside of kink I enjoy traveling, reading, studying German, working on computers and watching anime. I also make erotic audios that are on my blog here. My kinky interests are pretty diverse, there's a list on my profile if you want to know more.

I'm hoping to find a submissive who is excited to get to know me both in and outside of kink, someone who is willing to take the time to build a good foundation for our dynamic. If you think that might be you, or are just interested in talking please send me a message. I'm also open to mentoring and talking to anyone who is new to kink. Thank you for reading.

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48 y/o      Los Angeles, California

I'm a 47 year old male living in Los Angeles Area. I am respectful, patient, understanding, caring, fair, and firm.
I am looking for a sweet, passionate, obedient, and dedicated girl, a sub/slave.
She must have the willing to obey, serve and please her Master at all times, within limits of course.
Experience level does not matter as long as you listen and love to please your Master.
Send a DM if you think you are the one.

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37 y/o      Miami, Florida

Hi ☺️ i’m looking for a SB online or possibly in irl depending on locations (im out in the Miami area btw) . Umm I'm 37yrs old and i am a very loving Man. I am here looking to sp.oil a SB while she spoils me back with her attention, beautiful and naughty pictures cuz i love it.! Send me a dm. Thanks for reading and hope to hear from you soon ?

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  Virginia

I've been involved with bdsm for as long as I've been sexually active, and in that time I've had my share of D/s relationships, with myself as the 'D'. I've developed a pretty good idea of what works for me, and what I'm looking for, and this post is an attempt to find it. Rather than going for a broad trawling post, I'm going detailed and specific, so if the content of this post appeals to you then we are likely to be compatible, so drop me a message.

Dynamic
This should go without saying, but the for me, anything that turns me on relates to me being in control.
Sexually, I like a strict dynamic with rules and protocols. I enjoy assigning rewards and punishments, as well as tasks. I have a range of kinks including restraints, spankings, discipline training (with rewards and punishments) , name-calling and humiliation, piss play, raceplay, non-con play, and using my sub as human furniture. But the unifying theme is that they enforce this power dynamic where I have control over my sub, physically or mentally. In terms of online play, I enjoy setting rules: things like how to address me, or how to ask permission to masturbate or orgasm. I also like controlling more mundane things - dietary or clothing restrictions, for example. As well as rules, I like setting one-off tasks - that might be sexual, or something arbitary. Ultimately, I want my sub to give her all to me, and to let me take control of whichever aspects of her life that I wish. In return, you get the comfort and reward of knowing you are in safe hands, and that you don't have to make decisions. In terms of physical play, I tend to take the lead, but sometimes enjoy sitting back to let my sub tend to me; again, in either case it's about getting my sub to do what I want and to fulfil my desires in that moment.

You
I get on best with women who are high-achieving, ambitious and intelligent. My relationship history involves a lot of women with postgrads degrees or good careers. I like to know that my partner seems capable in most aspects of her life, but is subservient behind closed doors with me. Linking to that, I like to be able to have a good conversation with my partner, not just about sex. Wittiness and sense of humour are really sexy to me. Unlike some of The Cage, I'm not into gaming so if that is a big part of your life we probably won't be compatible. I tend to prefer to play with women around my age or younger, though this isn't a dealbreaker, I find it helps the power dynamic. I am also happy to play with subs who are relatively new to bdsm; enthusiasm is more important than experience.

Me
If you've read all this way, it's only fair to tell you about myself. I'm 50, based in NC but travel a lot for work. I'm well-educated and have a good career, but in my free time I read, hike and cycle. For anything else, you'll have to drop me a message to ask :)

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54 y/o      Fremont, California

I am looking for someone in the Bay Area (or who frequently travels here) for a long term BDSM based relationship. The woman I am looking for should be honest, loyal, eager and enthusiastic, fun with a great sense of humor, and serious about exploring a connection in real life. As there are a lot of time wasters on these sites, once we have talked a few times, she should be ready to voice verify (i.e. talk on the phone/VOIP). I am open to answering any questions you may have, so feel free to ask me anything you'd like to. Once we have established we have chemistry together, we can go from there. Age is not a big deal to me, but I would prefer someone my age or younger. If you are significantly younger, that's okay, but please be open minded and mature. I'll look forward to hearing from you.

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23 y/o      Byron, Georgia

need an obedient slave for a strict dom.age doesnt matter,must be female,and must be obedient.if your interested message me for further instructions

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29 y/o      California

I am not your average Dom and you’ll come to find that in time, but I am in search of something fairly traditional in a d/s relationship. However, I am very open to many types of dynamics as my interests and desires vary greatly. As the title suggests, I am looking for a loyal sub. One with an open mind and is enthusiastic in her submission. I also need someone mentally mature, I may be open to age play but never ending childish behavior gets tedious sooner rather than later. As for specifics on the dynamic I am searching for, you’ll have to ask me personally. I am likely to ask you to share yours first but I will answer any and all questions to the best of my ability while trying to keep a little mystery to keep you on your toes. Shoot me a message if you’re interested, even if you have something specific in mind. I am known for being delightfully surprising to those with an open mind so give me a chance and you won’t regret it.

Respectfully yours,
Sir Eddy

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29 y/o      Ireland

Dom looking for online sub who is willing to send pictures and videos as confirmation of obedience. Face required to be shown. No extreme play or scat. Preferably looking for a sub who is into humiliation and degradation but open to others as well.

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58 y/o      Austin, Texas

Epic long-term Ds romance with a caring, wise, and incredibly feminine soul. My equal and my partner in life, travel, and fun!

Intense, loving, romantic, and extremely sensual – I am a Dominant Gentleman who enjoys deep connection with his girl via Ds training, formal structures, sensual control, dress up, toys, and -especially- the use of my voice. Jedi / Professor / Mentor personality. Gomez Addams, seductive Vampire, a splash of Daddy, and something else quite intense.

Adept with the deepest levels of communication and the sexiest, most ethical & caring approach to consent & relationship deep dives. High integrity, liberal Gentleman. Old world values, well-mentored within the in-person bdsm community, and very active with community service / mentoring others / teaching classes within the local scene.

Always willing to travel often / fly my girl to make sure that we always have tons of in-person romantic time together. Around the States, Quebec, Europe, UK.

Regards-
Roger

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27 y/o      United States

I am looking for a sub or slave interested in having a 24/7 relationship. I enjoy control and devotion as bdsm is more than just an in the bedroom thing for me. I would like a long term relationship, at first distance does not matter. So long as there are plans to meet and eventually be irl. I highly value, trust, loyalty, respect, health, communication and independence (have a job and be able to support yourself please). As far as kinks I will talk about those privately and my hard limits are age play, water sports and public play.
In terms of appearance I am 5'11, 175, white and have an athletic build. I would prefer a partner who is also along the lines of an athletic or slim build. Age range is 18-28 if you're a little older though that is fine.
Please read through my profile before messaging me as it is more information.

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  Massachusetts

I'm different, an original. Versatile, caring and loving to name a few. In search of a feminine touch and a long-term relationship. Are you looking for someone to truly trust completely? A man who needs and will apppreciate you and what you offer him. If you are seriously looking and willing to commit to a real conversation, I await your reply...

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66 y/o      Fort Lauderdale, Florida

Gentleman Dom seeks his sub slut - S. FL. I am a fit, D&D Free Polyamourous Gentleman Dom. 63 years young. Looking for submissive women who are mature, healthy, fit, local to Fort Lauderdale, sincere and ready to let go and live in the moment! Being in service, accepting responsibility for herself and wanting to grow and learn in the lifestyle. Is this you? Do you yearn to be in a safe place and know you are cared for? Don’t waste my time and I won’t waste yours! Be real. Be ready. Be yourself! Did I mention I’m especially partial to Ebony and Asian subs? Private Dungeon awaits! Ever ride a Sybian?

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25 y/o      North Carolina

Hey there. Names DMoney I’m a 24 year old Black Dom looking for an online submissive. First and foremost I prefer that my sub have a big ass with shape and size. That’s just a preference of mine. Besides that I’m looking for a submissive that is able to give me 3 simple yet important things. 1. Obedience 2. Loyalty. 3. Communication. As long as those 3 things are met I’m one satisfied Dom already. I don’t ask for much actually. Im looking for a sub to call my own, someone that is legit and knows what she wants from a Dom. It doesn’t matter if she’s white, black, Hispanic, Asian, etc as long as she’s serious about what she wants and doesn’t play games that’s alright with me. Ultimately I want a sub that I can actually claim as my own and become my friend at the same time. If any of you ladies are seeking a Dom at the moment come message me and let’s see where things go from that point on. ONLY MESSAGE IF YOUR INTERESTED PLEASE! Thank you and have a great rest of the day!

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31 y/o      Illinois

I’m currently looking for an online submissive. You can be brand new or experienced. Looking for someone between the age of 21 and 35. Send me a message if you’re interested.

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52 y/o      United Kingdom

I'm a 52 year old Dom from the UK, something of a Primal/Daddy hybrid in style.

I'm interested in establishing an online dynamic with a girl that piques my interest.
I'm not a sadist and not a fan of humiliation, my girl will be cared for and her welfare taken seriously.
She will carry marks I gift her with tooth and claw and she will be protected.

Message me and let's see how we mesh.

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47 y/o      England

I’m looking for a special person with very specific qualities. Someone who is hungry to learn what this world has to offer and wants to learn willingly, with an open mind and respect.

I’m a genuine and kind, but firm, male looking for a new or inexperienced girl to train and introduce into this incredible world.

I can promise absolute safety in a trusting environment, but also a sensory excitement that you'll wish you'd discovered sooner.

Initially we will start online, but there is no substitute for a real life experience/dynamic which needs to happen when we are both ready. Distance is not an object.

If you think you fit the profile, tell me why and answer the audio question in my profile.

I’ll help you move from simply ‘living’ to feeling alive, fulfilled and appreciated!

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25 y/o      St. Louis, Missouri

I am an experienced dom who is kind and firm. I am looking for someone who wants to be in a serious relationship and can handle various kinks. I want to get to know you first and go on a few dates before we do anything, I want to understand you as a person and really see if we connect. Then we can schedule a session.

I am a fit and very strong male who wants someone to commit to a life of adventure with me.

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34 y/o      Georgia

I am looking for a woman who wants grow and be more than she is today. I mean that in both the personal and professional aspect. I am looking for a long term monogamous relationship, someone that I share more than just kinks with. I am open to long distance on a temporary basis, however relocation would be needed for any long term relationship. I currently cannot relocate so I understand why people can't.

I will go ahead and let you know what some people consider faults, so as not to waste anyone time. I live in the city now but I belong in the country at heart and will move back to the country soon. As such, I hunt and fish, which I know some people disagree with. I am fit but definitely have dad bod. I am told that I can be guarded, and even come off as cold, when getting to know someone. I have fought to build myself a career and would like someone similarly settled. Obviously I have many more qualities but I like to be upfront about anything that someone might consider a negative

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49 y/o      New Zealand

Salutations, welcome
Whether you're new and wondering or had some experience, then come and chat. I'm seeking an online submissive to control.
What that control maybe, will be discussed as we progress.

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  Tennessee

I am a LIFELONG lifestyle Dominant dude seeking a FEMALE play partner. I enjoy female submission, girls in corsets, latex, leather, D/s. B&d, Objectification, tit and pussy torments, Chastity belts, Posture collars, dungeon play, outdoor bondage, degrading, electical play, device bondage, face fucking, pussy training, control, Denial, forced climaxes, just to hit on a few topics.
Over the years I have had the pleasure of teaching several women what a mind fuck is all about - along with pain and pleasure.

In my vanilla world I enjoy female company, fine wine, great food, cooking, gardening and taking care of a home. I am an avid woodworker who likes building dungeon toys for affluent girls and boys. I have built entire Dungeon for people before, including spanking benches, racks, X crosses, Saint Andrews Crosses, kneelers, stocks, entire post beds, cages, and oh so much more.

If you are a natural born Female of legal age and want to learn more about me - once I know that YOU are as real as I, hit me up if your down for it....

Life is short - Don't waste it!

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50 y/o      New York, New York

Me just your average guy next door type with a great occupation, circle of friends and happy in my life. Anything I want I work for as nothing is ever handed to us.............very tall standing 64 with a strong build at 260lbs, brown hair and eyes sometimes sporting a goa-tee with a wide variety of interests in and out of the lifestyle content and looking for someone to share that dynamic with both in and out of a bd ds sm content.

If you are just looking for a bd ds sm dynamic that is fine too...lets discuss it and see where we land. Sorry no photo simply due to occupational reasons. I have one of those jobs where all social media is checked, finances, credit status etc Although into the bd ds sm content, I am very extreme. I define myself as a Master and Sadist. I am not a daddy or a dominant please know the difference. I have been active in the bd ds sm lifestyle for over 2 decades and have become very experienced and enjoy pushing the mind and body. I am a very physical and intense individual looking for an equally intense submissive / slave who wants to have her mind and body pushed.

You will go far beyond simple bondage and spanking, I will push your limits but never cross the line of pre-defined limits. As for limits I share the normal limits of most sane and respectful but enjoy bondage, tight bondage, suspension, gags, sensory deprivation, orgasm control, fisting, breath play, lead and leash, fire play, electric play, needle play, use of tens unit, cage play, impact play, whips, canes, crops, paddles, hair pulling and the list is really endless outside of the hard limits which will be discussed and established.... how are are you willing to go??? When I am using the flogger or cane and you feel you are about to collapse are you the kind to tap our or beg me to continue and not stop till I am satisfied and happy....when you are put into a group - gang bang and feel your body is going to explode from being used by countless friends and dont have another breath in you are you going to tap out or tell me you want more.....when you are denied orgasm after orgasm are you going to tap out because your body can not take the tease anymore or beg me to use you to complete exhaustion....I can go on and on but you get the idea You need to submit physically and Mentally - Yes you, that is why you are reading this. You want to feel helpless... dominated... NOT in control. you want to give yourself fully, without thought of saying no.

You are a very sexy, confident, open minded and willing and meet my criteria and if you do not please dont contact me (when being trained / scening will be in thigh highs or garters, shaved smooth and 5 to 6in closed toe stilettos, NOT NEGOTIABLE) but feel constrained by your routine, your family life and fear of judgment.

You are frustrated by your inability to realize your innermost sexual fantasies. Of course you want to be spanked, restrained and many other things, and want to be ordered around, told how to please and be controlled, you know in your heart you are - And you are getting aroused just thinking about this now.

I look forward to speaking to those who are true and sincere in exploring the mental and physical aspects of this dynamic. both in and out of a bd ds sm setting Please read my posting careful. 1 - i am not for the faint of heart 2- read and understand what I am into and want, I will expect you to be into the same, if you are not or not willing to explore all I have listed we will not be a good match

Thank you for reading and look forward to hearing from you. Also make note I split my time between Long island Ny and Upstate Ny so you should be willing to travel or open to relocation

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  Florida

New to Florida, relocated from New York, just your average guy next door type with a great occupation, circle of friends and happy in my life. Anything I want I work for as nothing is ever handed to us....tall standing 6'4" / 260lbs, brown hair and eyes sometimes sporting a goat-tee with a wide variety of interests in and out of the lifestyle and looking for someone to share that dynamic with both in and out of bd ds sm

lets discuss your needs and desires and see where we land. Sorry no photo simply due to occupational reasons. I have one of those jobs where all social media is checked, finances, credit status etc. In regards to bd ds sm content, I am very extreme. I define myself as a Master and Sadist. I am not a daddy or a dominant please know the difference. I have been active in the bd ds sm lifestyle for over 2 decades and have become very experienced and hopeful I can fill the needs/desires you have to submit and explore the age old expression of painful pleasure

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37 y/o      Dallas, Texas

If you desire to be spoiled, cared for, played with, and explore new experiences...

I'm looking for a girl to be Daddy's submissive little princess.

Send Daddy a message.

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  New York, New York

New to this website. I'd love to meet a female. Maybe do drinks and vibe before we head back to your place. NY area or westchester

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48 y/o      England

Hello there I am looking for a genuine sub. A sub who takes her duties seriously. I would like friendship aswell as a sub. It does not matter if you have no experience as long as you are real.

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38 y/o      South Carolina

Greetings

Thank you for taking time to read my ad. I am seeking a obedient submissive woman who lives for service. I am seeking a loyal obedient open minded submissive who wants to live the lifestyle 24/7, try new things, and learn the life style. I am seeking someone with little to no limits, who is willing to be open in ideas and implementing those ideas. Must be wanting to be used for sexual and domestic use. If interested see my profile, and let me know.

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  Napa, California

Let's get right to the point... We send each other a picture or two (normal ones...) and see if we hit it off or not. I can always meet you or have you come visit me on my dime if needed. I am a dominant male (very gentle) and need a sub spouse that wants to live at home in chastity and lets me domesticate her. I will always listen to you and cater to your ever whim but I will be the one claiming ownership over your body. Chastity and spanking and training are all required; already have a new nice pink chastity belt for you honey. Limits are respected but opinions are not. :)

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  Duluth, Georgia

Going to try this again. I tend to just get the ones that like to chat for a week or so, then ghost.
I'm 6ft, I'm heavy set and struggle with it. Bald head and bushy full beard... I walk with a cane due to injuries from a bad accident years ago. Its also why I struggle with weight.
I'm old school, in that I like to build a foundation of trust and respect first. I'm a big Teddy bear of a Daddy Dom. Don't get me wrong, I can be strict, I have rules, and I have a bit of a playfully sadistic streak when it comes to play time.

What am I looking for? Someone my age or younger (30's/40's), playful, subby, babygirl, bratty streak, masochist, likes bondage play, likes being spoiled with attention as much as they like being spanked... Prefer someone close enough that, if there is a real connection, we have the potential to really meet up. Ideally, someone with the potential to become a LTR.

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  United States

Hey! I’ve been a dom for around 4 years now, but haven’t found the perfect sub for me. I’ve recently discovered a degradation and humiliation kink, and maybe some pain as well. In addition to those I enjoy, spankings, gags, bondage, orgasm control and denial, praise, nipple play, and light anal.
If you’re interested please reach out and let’s chat!

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44 y/o      United States

I'm looking to connect with a female sub/slave, to develop an online dynamic that suits both of us. After 15+ years of experience in D/s, I have a good understanding of what I want and need. Thus, I'm rather picky. However, I’d love to connect with like-minded individuals, and make some friends along the way. If you're interested, please send me a message. Thank you.

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43 y/o      Grand Forks, North Dakota

My collared Sub and I are looking to bring in a female submissive to serve us both. She (my sub) will be responsible for training. We are fun, highly sexual, and intelligent. If this sounds like something you are interested in, you may message me so we can chat a bit and see if there is a connection. We'd prefer longer-term, but are open to shorter arrangements if you are more local.

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  Wyoming

I treated this as a rush for sometime, but it isn’t just a rush for me. When I strip you for the first time, see your bottom lip quiver, watch your shaking hand slide your bra strap off your shoulder, I know you are mine. When you wake up and kneel for me, and recite your slave mantra, I know you are mine. When you present your options for lunch and await patiently for me to choose, I know you are mine. When you check in with me to show me that you accomplished your goals for the day, I know you are mine. When you beg for me to cum, but graciously accept, with only a few whimpers, being denied, I know you are mine. When we talk each other to sleep, after you've dutifully recited your slave mantra for the night, giggling before you wish your Master a goodnight, I know you are mine. When you accept me and all my flaws and insecurities and shortcomings, day after day, just as I accept yours, I know you are mine. This is the most sacred thing I know

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48 y/o      Lutz, Florida

I'm new to the lifestyle and looking for my first (and hopefully lasting) slave girl. I have a steady job (22 years on the job) and am financially stable. Must be within a decent driving distance of Tampa, FL. Prefer women who are younger than myself. View my profile for more information about me (I tried to be very descriptive), and message me and we can discuss the relationship, life, the universe, and everything else.

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25 y/o      Pennsylvania

As the title says, I’m searching for a female submissive. Open to new/inexperienced submissives as I have mild experience with BDSM myself. Looking for a relationship that will eventually be IRL because online-only doesn’t fulfill what I am looking for. Open to all sorts of kinks and fetishes, but I’m more interested in getting to know the person first, and what sexual/nonsexual interests they have. Feel free to message me for more info. I love chatting!

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39 y/o      North Carolina

I am a fit and active 33 year old Dom searching for a submissive female in, or relocatable to, NC. I am a professional artist working in the field of costume design and fabrication, so it would be nice to meet someone with creative or geeky leanings. I am also poly-fi and come with an adorable artistic submissive so any relationship would be in a Triad dynamic.

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  Netherlands

I am looking for a sub. I want an online relationschip at first but see where it goes. I have sadistic tendencies and love it when someone is obedient or even better, when someone is made obedient. I'm open for a lot of things so we would need to discuss what we both want. On my profile there is more information about me.

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48 y/o      United States

I am a 47 yr old single alpha male.I do live alone and i work a 40 hr plus job.I am very honest and up front. I've been a Dominant for about 15 years now, and it's a huge part of who I am. The D/S dynamic is so alluring, like two parts of a whole. Vanilla just isn't as satisfying for me. . , I want my subs to realize their full potential, find success in all things, and be their best self.I am looking for my forever 24/7 sub/slave..someone who is NM or that can relocate to me in the future..

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  Alabama

Searching for a very submissive female that will follow instructions and directions. Who can be vanilla when needed, such as going shopping, dining and socializing in the community. Must be willing to accept punishments, possible bondage and restraints, including blindfolds and gags. No brats or littles. Must be over 21

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70 y/o      New Jersey

Would you like to be trained as a kajira, a Gorean pleasure slave? I am a strict but fair Master who desires a woman who wants to free her inner slave girl. Message me and we’ll chat

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  Minneapolis, Minnesota

Seeking f masochist who enjoys being flogged , paddled, Spanked bare handed, with a belt and more. I will leave marks. I want someone who will enjoy being forced to go from pain to pleasure and back again repeatedly.

I am non-monogamous, in an open relationship. Online vetting process will take time. I don’t rush things.

If anything above is a deal breaker, please don’t respond. If instead you’re intrigued, I look forward to discussing things with you further.

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  Hampton, Virginia

Dom looking for sub who is into the following: binding, clamps, tease/tickle, slapping, spanking, sensory deprivation, free-use, age play, and DD/lg. Open to other kinks. Never had a slave dynamic, but will to try it. Prefer age difference, but not required. Prefer someone within 1 hour of me. Potentially open to relocate you to me, but that's a huge "if".

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  New Jersey

Hi. I'm 40yo. Two degrees but not working on my field yet. Seeking to pursue my professional aspirations soon. Honest, dependable, and true to my word. Love and care deeply, but only with a loving, caring girl.

Micromanagement is my passion, extending beyond BDSM. Seeking a very submissive girl/slave for a serious relationship. Trust is key, knowing I always have your best interests at heart.

Looking for someone to grow with, my right hand, and most reliable person on the path to success. Extreme obedience required, regardless of discomfort. Committed, loyal, eager to please, and able to handle "no" and uncomfortable tasks.

Humility and a low ego are important. Not here to play games. Seeking commitment, prioritizing my happiness and pleasure. Mutual devotion for a fulfilling, long-term connection.

If you possess the right attitude, willingness to learn, and listen, reach out. Let's embark on a journey of trust, growth, and a deeply satisfying BDSM-based relationship.

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  Connecticut

Please have a look at my profile. If you can figure out the riddle, then proceed with the rest of this post. If you can’t get the riddle, let’s not waste each other’s time ?

I’ve been on this site for five years and have made some very interesting connections. Three have turned into real life hookups and several others have resulted in fruitful online relationships.

I love forcing orgasm denial, sending daily tasks, and instructing edging techniques. I want my subs to be wound so tight by the time they come that they’d do and say anything to have that sweet release.

Have a look and drop me a note. Pics available after we’ve made a clear intellectual connection.

Jeff

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  United Kingdom

Hey,
If you haven't already I would check my actual profile out, it has a voice note and a brief overview of myself, kinks and wants. but the TLDR of it is, I'm looking to chat, explore with people and have a little fun along the way. I'm completely open to any question and can talk about anything and everything. I don't expect/want to be thrusted into a dom/sub relationship straight away, I won't attempt to instantly own you nor do I want to. Feel free to drop a message if this sounds good to you :)

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30 y/o      Durham, North Carolina

I’m a Dom in the Triangle of NC. I’m looking for a sub who I can mold and train. Looking for in person and ltr. Please look over my profile and message me with any questions you may have.

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64 y/o      London, Ontario

New season, new pressures, new stresses ... spanking can help you deal with motivation issues, guilt feelings and more.

I'm a mature man, very experienced with spanking, very open minded, clean and fit. From bare hand on bare bum to something more with implements, limits respected, if you're interested in being spanked message me. We'll discuss how best I can help you, and when you're ready we can move forward from there.

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