50 year old Master and caretaker with 20 some years experience in this lifestyle seeking an 18 -30 year old female for M/S relationship. My chosen slave will be trained by me to my expectations of her and loved and disciplined and cared for. Please no big girls or thick girls and please be drug free. This is a RL situation and the chosen slave will be housed and protected and provided for by me in my Michigan home.
50 year old Master/ daddy dom with 20 some years experience seeking an 18-30 year old female for a father and submissive daughter relationship, seeking permanent, RL. My daughter will be loved and cared for disciplined when needed in my Michigan home. Please no big girls or thick girls and please be drug free.
I'm a 49 year old male dom looking for a female sub. My requirements are fairly specific. The right sub will submit to an ongoing D/S arrangement when we are building a scene. I have (comfortable) sub-quarters at my place (south east of London) where rules will apply. However outside that environment I am consciously egalitarian. I'm also unashamedly sapiosexual. I love super-smart women.
My style of domming has taken a while to evolve. I'm not interested in being a swaggering domly mcdomlypants. I prefer subtlety. I also get a slightly evil kick from depriving my sub of agency (negotiated of course) and then subjecting them to being used and taken beyond the point of reason. I get off on leaving someone utterly helpless and overwhelmed by sensual pleasure. I'll use pain, degradation, mechanical stimulation, complete deprivation of control, or whatever it takes to get them there.
Aside from super smart sluttiness I also appreciate physical fitness. I work out (not to excess) and expect similar from the right sub. The sub will have to stay fit despite my feeding her. It is OK to spoil one's sub occasionally isn't it?
I'm a 38 year old monster.
I wake up;
Take a shower;
Hit the gym;
Work 12 hours a day;
Rinse and Repeat every single day.
As you can see, My time is very valuable. So if you plan on wasting it, I will just ignore you.
Are you worthy enough to stand by My side? Can you follow that regime? Because what I can not stand is uselessness.
I will demand a lot from you, in private and in professionalism. I need My bratty sub to stand next to Me and own her place.
When I call you, you should already be on your way to Me. I will train you and experiment on you to make you My perfect little bratty sub.
I will take full responsibility over you so if you fall, I will pick you up and carry you over the finish line. I have always been of the mindset that a sub that works very hard needs to be rewarded because a hard working sub is the most sexiest creature on this planet.
I've recently discovered that I'm a Daddy/Brattamer/Dom so I still need to learn all the ropes.
First off I would like to thank you for actually taking the time to read this. I'm just going to put this all out there and if I sound like the type of guy you'd be interested then send me a message. I'm open and honest and I feel like my advertisement should be too. A little about me: I am 22 years old, slim build,with a deep voice living Richmond, Virginia. I have experience both in person and online and have had submissives from a variety of different places and backgrounds. I don’t want the person reading this to worry about being “my type” just be yourself. I consider myself a big nerd. I enjoy working on computers, building model kits, gaming, reading manga and watching anime. Other hobbies include volunteer work, making erotic audios (check my blog), and I used to do a lot of photography competitions although that has slowed down. A submissive who can show interests in my hobbies is a must, it’s a part of non-sexual intimacy and growing close with your partner.
My kinks include but are not limited to: Spanking, choking, collars, bondage (light and heavy), breast play, public play, degradation, humiliation, gags, breeding, and roleplay. I’ve had some experience since first joining Cage so I’ve experimented with long distance vibrators, more sadistic things, pet play, and lots more.
What I look for in a submissive: A submissive to me has to be loyal, trusting, curious, willing to learn, respectful, caring, patient, and someone who wants to be more than just a sexual toy. I want a best friend as well as a submissive. As for ages, body types, etc, I really don’t care as long as you’re 18+. If we get along and vibe well we can go from there. One more thing, I’ve gotten to the point where I’m really looking for submissives who live a reasonable distance from me. So if you see the location on my profile and think “there’s no way in hell I’m ever going there” it’s probably not going to work. I’m open to mentoring and being friends, but for serious submissives I’d prefer someone I can see in person every now and then.
As for my limits, it’s pretty simple: Blood, scat, objects around my throat, anything too forced or degrading, nothing that seriously endangers your mental or physical wellbeing. As always, safewords and open communication please.
Thank you for reading!
Real life only. Trust, respect, honour and communication at the top . Seeking the real submissive, those with the desire to please and those who know that true submission is a gift and it will not be treated with disrespect nor taken for granted. I'm in Ireland at least for the moment , be realistic about distance . This is a journey for both . A partnership. A unique union. To grow, develop and maintain. I'm looking for my happy ever after . Are you ?
All types of submissive and slaves considered.
Fakes and/or women who do not know what they want, and likewise the inexperienced, not welcome.
I would appreciate only those from the EU contacting me.
I love being in control and having the true power exchange dynamic. And I’m looking for someone who can complement me in that dynamic. Some of my kinks can be considered extreme by some if you want to know what they are please reach out. The lifestyle and my life are intertwined.
I strongly believe that the highest function of D/s is as a tool to build someone up. To give them the support, companionship, motivation, structure and accountability necessary to manifest positive change in their life. So, we're going to work together toward accomplishing your goals and I am going to give you accountability and support in your pursuit of the person you desire to be. I'm going to create routine and structure for you, create a regimented and disciplined environment for you to thrive in. We're going to make sure you eat healthy, that you exercise regularly, that you meditate daily. We're going to work through the narratives that define and limit you, and help you build a healthier relationship with yourself, one that allows you to thrive.
This will be a 24/7 total-power-exchange relationship. Every inch of your body will be surrendered to me, every thought in your mind will be mine to know.
Gentleman Dom seeks his sub slut - S. FL. I am a fit, D&D Free Polyamourous Gentleman Dom. 63 years young. Looking for submissive women who are mature, healthy, fit, local to Fort Lauderdale, sincere and ready to let go and live in the moment! Being in service, accepting responsibility for herself and wanting to grow and learn in the lifestyle. Is this you? Do you yearn to be in a safe place and know you are cared for? Don’t waste my time and I won’t waste yours! Be real. Be ready. Be yourself! Did I mention I’m especially partial to Ebony and Asian subs? Private Dungeon awaits! Ever ride a Sybian?
Do you find yourself often fantasizing what it would be like to completely submit and surrender? Or, is sexual submissiveness a trait you have explored before? Do you ever wonder what it would be like to call a man Sir or Master? To mean it? Does the idea of being tied up and used for a mans pleasure appeal to you? Do you crave the feelings that this type of surrender creates?
If you are experienced with this type of relationship or, even if you simply have a need to explore this side of yourself, then I am looking for you. I am seeking a female of any size or race, married, separated or single; as long as you enjoy being a submissive, and we have a connection, we can go far. To start with I am looking to chat online with a view to meeting should things develop. I am ideally seeking something with the potential for a long term relationship, however I am also open to something with less strings attached....
I have been in this lifestyle for along time and finding the right D/s is a challenge in itself much less with people you don't understand this time if relationship in small towns. I am more if a Daddy Dom then anything. I like to spoil and nurture my Submussive but have no problem with punishment. My punishments range from harsh and pain to simple spankings if you want to kniw more about me and you think we would be a match in this realm of life them message me and we can talk more I am even open to just friends here also. You have to learn the person learn to care about and trust the person before any type of relationship can even begin to form and hell who knows friendly chat may turn into something neither if us expected so again feel free to ask me any questions or chat with me so we can get to k iw each other
It feels better when you do things for someone else rather than yourself isn’t it? You have a submissive side that pushes you to serve and that’s exactly what I want. I want to take control of you, show you the path to follow and make you realize how much you need to serve. At the end I want you to follow me, not because there is a rule that tells you so but because you actually feel safe, excited and overall better when you are under my control.
I want someone I can guide and take control of. This is not just sexual, I want a sub I can make mine in every aspect of life. I want a sub that gives me her submission, I want to see how she enjoys pleasing me and follows the path I decided for her. I want to give a purpose to my sub, and I want to praise her when she meets my expectations.
Of course I'm interested in sexual aspects. I like orgasm control, humiliation, spank, impact play, and more things we can discuss. I want to make my sub completely attached to me, see how she gets pleased when I'm using her.
I’m a bit sadistic. I enjoy torturing my sub and seeing her suffer to some extent, but usually I like to do it with a gentle and kind approach. More than physical pain, what I like are mind games. I like making my sub feel helpless and desperate, not necessarily by physically forcing her but getting into her mind and being always a step forward of her.
Don't you feel better when you have a Dom telling you what to do? Isn't it much better than playing alone? What I want is to get into your mind, make you mine and from there I can have anything I want from you.
I can keep you busy, give you tasks and rules but at the end I want to be pleased by you. Your submission will be well received, but I want to actually enjoy using you. I want to be entertained, I want to desire you as much as you want me to use you. You want this too isn't it? You want to satisfy me with your body, you want to feel useful and valued.
I’m looking for a Dom/sub or a Master/slave relationship, even could be interested in some aspects of DDlg. Put the label you want. In any case I want to discuss about it, and see if we can actually build something. This is not a race and I don't want to rush things. I want a relationship, not a one time thing.
Tell me why you are interested. Give me a description of yourself, why you want this and what you can offer. Don't be afraid if you don't have experience or are unsure about what you want, we will go step by step. If you have doubts share them with me. We can explore and see what you have to offer. At the end, I want to build a relationship, not a one time thing.
Hello I'm looking for a submissive that understands my situation I am a married man but my wife absolutely hates this lifestyle but I love it online will be fine at first but would like to move to real life there is more on my profile I'd love to hear from you hope you have a wonderful day
Bondage for me has always been a desire in my life. As far back as I can remember the sight of a struggling, bound, gagged, a woman has caused a reaction in me. The Dom part has always been there, but because of the expectations of society, I kept that part buried inside me, fearful to let it out because I was taught what I was feeling was, for lack of a better word, evil. I felt I had a monster inside me, lurking just under the surface. Far too late in life, I learned it wasn't a monster. But the person who I was born to be smothered under those expectations of me. I've explored and opened my mind with subs and eventually slaves figuring out who I am.
What I need now is a girl to enslave. Not just any girl because what I need is not for everyone. I want to take her control because I have learned that is what I need. To strip away a girl's control of her own life, her freedom, her choices, leaving her a servent without distraction. A girl that has had her job, social contacts, and family contacts severed so that her every waking moment is in devotion to me. To be bound, used, abused, humiliated, degraded, tortured, dehumanized, and enslaved in mind, body, and soul in service to me.
Because the level of enslavement I enjoy is so deep, a girl will transform, change, become less of who she was because of what I am making her be. So once enslaved by me she will never again be allowed to return from it. I know it's a big ask, but it is to protect me from complications if someone in your circle decides I brainwashed you to submit to all of this and won't take you at your word that you were a willing participant. I've seen others have this go sideways on them and are now incarcerated. So talk with me, ask me questions if you would like so that you may discover if your throat is worthy of my collar.