BDSM in the United States
Join thecage.co to explore your local BDSM scene.BDSM in the United States — Cities
Find kinksters, events, and play partners in New York, Los Angeles and Chicago. Members across these cities use THE CAGE to organise meets, share blogs, and connect privately.
Upcoming BDSM Events in the United States
How To Be A Dom with Goddess Mak
A practical and empowering class designed for anyone who wants to explore or refine their dominant side in BDSM play.
ENTRANCE: A Kink Experience For Newbies
It’s not the next step, it’s the first step. And, it’s the first step that counts. A Facilitative Experience for Newbies!
Nov 13, 2026
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Shibari Class Beginner to Intermediate
Get ready to learn some cool Shibari knots and techniques, perfect if you’re new or looking to step up your game!
Nov 13, 2026
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Ropes & Leather Kink Education/ After Party
Ropes and Leather Kink Education event runs 9–11pm, followed by a party from 11pm–2am. Leather is preferred but come as you are.
Fetish: Smash Taboos and Celebrate What Turns You On
Celebrate the launch of the book Fetish: Smash Taboos and Celebrate What Turns You On with Niki Fainbloom hosted by The Romance Section.
Blogs from the United States
Users in the United States
TradDom(dom male)
shadowtyr(dom male)
Happy Breeze(sub female)
Matt Noir(dom male)
Pillow Prince(sub gender queer)
fromtheperiphery(sub female)
Thumperr(switch male){Lil' Zelda}
Lily Frog(sub female)
The Marquis(dom male)
ShybadGirl(sub female)
Ailsa(female)
MattyBondage(switch male)
Maddie Grace(sub female){Owned}
CurvingSakura(dom agender){NotLooking}
anongirl(sub female)
danisnacks(sub female)
NYC Sir(dom male)
EchoesOfObsidian(sub female)
Darius Enskerka(sub male){Pizza}
SIR ERIK AB(switch male)
Lil Zelda(female){Thumperr}
Metanoia(sub female)
Timeless Dream(sub female)
Heidrek(dom male)
Moee(dom male)
LustfulFantasizer(male)
Drinfear(dom male){Owns PFP}
Oborron(dom male)
Tyronne West(male)
DelightfullyDominant(dom male)
Mr Top(dom male)
Nitrev(dom male)
Hemnway(dom male)
Benevolent Dom(dom male)
Secret Mind(dom male)
Mister Nastymann(dom male)
MikePE(dom male)
Peanutcat(sub female){Not Lookin}
SincerelyWish(masochist female)
GeoPat(dom male)
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