A few tips about how to politely conduct yourself in our wonderful community.

Here’s some handy information for both the BDSM novice and experienced practitioner.

The three words we want to remember in this case are Safe, Sane and Consensual. The acronym is used as a reminder for anybody involved in the BDSM community of what ALL play and all relationships should be. Think of it as the foundation on which good BDSM partnerships and communities are built.

There are more answers to this straightforward query than most people know what to do with – including some answers that are downright confusing or intimidating.

Giving each person involved in a scene the ability to stop it if they need to is an essential part of safe, consensual play.